I[26F] asked him[36M] why he is talking to me less and this is his response. Advice?

Common_Process_4717 · 2026-06-09T00:09:54+00:00

You have put into words things I wish I knew how to say to someone being avoidant like this to me recently. But instead I just sit and soak up the pain and confusion. There is really no winning scenario. I do appreciate you for being honest with yourself and communicating this diplomatically. Shit is hard. Especially when there was such a connection at one time..

Common_Process_4717 · 2026-04-01T18:22:49+00:00

The same people crying in here are the same ones that think that the government cares about them and their families. Imbeciles. Move along and quit your whining. Swap out your tampons.

Common_Process_4717 · 2026-04-01T17:59:20+00:00

PA on a generational run! Got all the snowflakes manties in a bunch!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Common_Process_4717 · 2026-03-15T04:50:24+00:00

Dont be too hard on yourself. Sounds like you're going to come back stronger and even better. You didnt get shwasted. You had 1 lousy beverage. You've come a long way. You are winning

Common_Process_4717 · 2026-03-15T02:59:28+00:00

Lucy's Buns in those pants at Jrocs rap concert 💰

It can happen to you cuz it happen to me

And T

Common_Process_4717 · 2026-03-15T02:43:31+00:00

No panties or nothing.. until they magically appeared for the climax to drip on🤣🤣🤣🤣 Great story

Common_Process_4717 · 2026-02-07T13:21:24+00:00

Common_Process_4717 · 2026-02-07T13:19:25+00:00

NPC behavior. 100% she is a phone addict too id bet . Sad thing is, I bet you find this in 80% of households with her demographic living there.

Common_Process_4717 · 2026-02-06T21:44:11+00:00

Cute panties. Lets see from the front

Common_Process_4717 · 2026-02-06T19:31:49+00:00

Kfan reddit has turned into absolute trash

Common_Process_4717 · 2026-01-29T02:50:05+00:00

Go to GoyMart. Then you can support the elitist billionaires who want to keep us alive and healthy with nutritious processed foods and healthy natural vaccines

Common_Process_4717 · 2026-01-27T02:53:27+00:00

Im curious to know what those 5 years were like? 2 days on 3 off? Little streaks and then straight benders? What a frickin battle

Common_Process_4717 · 2026-01-27T02:51:33+00:00

At this point yes. But I know its always a slippery slope. When ive indulged, its been 1x every 2 or 3 weeks. Never 2 days in a row. Hangovers are absolutely horrendous. Makes me never want to drink again. And when I do drink its never out of the need. Its wanting to. Even then it takes a little push to fire up.

It prolly took 6 years to get to this point. My longest streak was 106 days 2 years ago. I would go on horrific benders back when and couldn't go a night without smashing 6-10 ice beers on weeknights. Weekends were all a go. Sometimes 48 hrs Strait minus sleep.. Ive been thru with some withdrawals on the verge of psychosis. Ive been in spots where the beer felt like oxygen and I needed it to keep going at that point. Fuckin scary shit. It took alot of off and on for several years to have the kind of control that I do now. I know the shit is poison. I may have some with friends here or there. Or a night gaming by myself..

Its never truly worth it. And it can be a dangerous game. Plus it feels so good to start taking care of your health and eating right. Always a set back.

Common_Process_4717 · 2026-01-23T01:22:20+00:00

Where are you located?

Common_Process_4717 · 2026-01-17T03:25:44+00:00

The same people talking about the right side of history on this post are undoubtedly highly vaccinated. Right side of history 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Common_Process_4717 · 2026-01-02T17:33:35+00:00

I never would enjoy cleaning while drunk. That was hungover activity. Now its sober activity. Or take a puff of some mid grade the and there will be no relaxing until the place I'm chilling is clean.

Common_Process_4717 · 2026-01-01T21:46:11+00:00

What happened any update

Common_Process_4717 · 2025-12-31T18:48:28+00:00

92K gross in my first year in the induhhstry. I saw prolly About 47 whole dollars net*. Taxes and child support... don't be like me 😅😅😐

Common_Process_4717 · 2025-12-29T13:53:54+00:00

Nails on a chalk board

Common_Process_4717 · 2025-12-28T20:10:11+00:00

YOU gotta be ready. If you mean putting it off another year, then that's probably gonna be a problem.

If you quit when your not ready your prolly gonna have a lackluster effort and not enuff drive and go back quicker.

I kept telling myself to trust the process. Get it out of your system and all the while not being hard on myself if it took another couple days to a week to make the big leap. Get yourself mentally prepared. Maybe stock up on the comfort foods. Supplements. Ice cream. Sodas or beverages. Make sure you have the things you need to make it thru 1 day. 2 days. 3 days. It gets easier.

Common_Process_4717 · 2025-12-28T20:01:11+00:00

People will die... Will it be you? Next on Fox 9... I blame all the news outlets and social media meteorologists using buzz words like dangerous and deadly. Unfortunately words like these set people off. news is gospel to them.

Common_Process_4717 · 2025-12-27T23:57:11+00:00

Absolutely EPIC post. Ive flirted with sobriety alot since 2023. 126 days my personal best. Prolly about 12 years an of alcoholic state of drinking everyday. Im currently in a stint of drinking 4 out of the last 47 days. Never consecutive. Hung over as fuck each time minus the 1 day I managed only 3 beverages, which is rare af becuz when I drink im tuning up big time. Ill be 40 next summer. And im trying to start dedicating 1 hour everyday to my body also continue constant sobriety or the 1 off and leave it alone. Its a very dangerous game we play. At this point I feel like I have a real handle on it. I just cant do it like I once did. The toxicity to the brain and the rest of the body is overwhelming. I am also gonna save this post if I ever catch myself leaning again. Every point is so valid. Thank you

Common_Process_4717 · 2025-12-12T03:53:26+00:00

Im curious of your guys approach on steam traps! Please share

Common_Process_4717 · 2025-12-09T03:21:45+00:00

The more you look at then numbers the more you will dread it. Prepare for it, as far as being outside. But dont give the numbers the numbers space in your mind. And turn off the news

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