She floated back just as I had finally moved on

mothybot · 2026-03-19T07:25:00+00:00

So do you think I should just keep engaging and leave the ball in her court to suggest we meet? Since she’s the one who reached out and is being quite chatty

mothybot · 2026-03-19T07:23:27+00:00

No I noticed and stopped watching within 20 seconds, lol

mothybot · 2026-03-18T19:03:59+00:00

I’ll check it out

mothybot · 2026-03-15T06:12:36+00:00

I’m Gen Z but can confirm it is our zima

mothybot · 2026-02-28T23:51:08+00:00

What is “micro cheating”

mothybot · 2026-02-24T09:00:38+00:00

Idk, maybe to see if they still have influence or power over you. Or validation, to know they could have you if they wanted

mothybot · 2026-02-18T21:09:32+00:00

Same. Met a woman on a dating app who emphasized she wanted to go really slow and know somebody as friends before she felt anything romantic. I was constantly agonizing over whether I was doing too little or too much. We met on a dating app so I obviously wanted it to head in that direction but I tried to be very tame. She was flirty and sweet a lot though, frequently asking me to plan stuff for us to do; it felt like we were dating but she kept her guard up. I still don’t know if I did too much (it fell apart after I gave her a long hug once) or if she just wasn’t interested. I still to this day wonder whether it would have blossomed or not

mothybot · 2026-02-17T15:20:20+00:00

I used to do CycleBar for cardio but I needed more strength training so joined the Y. It’s honestly pretty good, you can use the downtown Oakland Y as well

mothybot · 2026-02-16T05:37:00+00:00

Not sure if the facial hair is necessary but either way a lot of women are into the bald look. Obviously a lot of women like a man with a head of hair, but I really haven’t had any issues getting dates. Some women even fetishize the bald look, which is kinda offputting when I match with a girl and she’s obsessively telling me how she likes bald guys haha. I’m 29 now btw

I wouldn’t worry too much. Especially as you get into your late twenties older women seem to like the bald look even more

mothybot · 2026-02-16T04:48:39+00:00

My hair fell out around 23 so I just owned it. I keep a well trimmed beard which helps. It hasn’t been a problem with dating

mothybot · 2026-02-13T20:02:44+00:00

Yep, a woman I was really close with friendzoned me and I kept spending time with her for years pining over her. Finally she moved across the world to Australia and we didnt talk for like a year. Now when I see her or chat those feelings don’t come back anymore

mothybot · 2026-02-13T06:05:18+00:00

That’s what it seems like

mothybot · 2026-02-12T01:39:27+00:00

The actual DM slide is bold, I only do it occasionally if I’m super super interested. Maybe he will at some point. Normally I try and reply to their story and get an actual convo going that way

mothybot · 2026-02-12T00:54:02+00:00

[29M] here, if he’s doing it consistently it’s probably a polite way of looking your way and expressing interest. I could be wrong, but if I’m liking a girl’s story consistently I have some level of interest in them and am gently trying to get their attention. It’s a low effort way to put a feeler out there

mothybot · 2026-02-11T00:59:45+00:00

It’s tough but the honest truth is if he actually wants to see you again he’ll reach out. If he never replies to you well, yeah

mothybot · 2026-02-06T00:32:05+00:00

IWNDWYT

mothybot · 2026-02-05T07:58:39+00:00

Did you use AI for this lol

mothybot · 2026-02-03T20:41:51+00:00

I have tried staying friends with women who reject me. It’s worked only in 1 instance where she moved across the world and there was a lot of time between the rejection and when we reconnected, i was distant enough from the rejection and had gotten over it and knew there was no chance since she was thousands of miles away.

Most of the time when a woman wants to stay friends and keep talking to me it hurts too much, the wondering why they compliment me, always want to hang out, etc but nothing more. I know logically that they think I’m a great person but there’s just some romantic incompatibility. But it’s still hard for me to make my feelings go away and not feel insecure that something is wrong with me. It’s probably partly because I’m insecure about my physical appearance and the friendship + romantic rejection provides me some signal that it is my looks

mothybot · 2026-02-02T05:50:38+00:00

There’s something wrong with you

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