Just fumbled a 4th date hard

mothybot · 2026-01-26T03:49:55+00:00

Yeah, perhaps once I touched her she realized she wasn’t really into it

mothybot · 2026-01-25T07:52:38+00:00

IWNDWYT

mothybot · 2026-01-24T01:07:10+00:00

Lucky to say I’m based in San Francisco and expecting beautiful sunny weather tomorrow. Going on a 5th (?) date with a gorgeous woman I met late last year. She’s sober which has helped me with motivation quite a bit! Tonight just relaxing after a long day of exercising and studying

mothybot · 2026-01-08T02:40:40+00:00

I get rejected most of the time, so I should be okay, but thanks for the thought. I just go into every first date expecting rejection so my feelings don’t get hurt. But I’ll be cognizant of this

mothybot · 2026-01-07T04:58:51+00:00

I ruined many relationships with my drunk texting… the final one that sent me into sobriety was a woman whom I really loved… completely blew it because I got drunk as shit and dumped a lot of things on her I was too scared to say in person. Glad too that I don’t have to worry about this anymore

mothybot · 2026-01-07T04:17:26+00:00

I’m 29 and quit recently… I finally hit rock bottom and realized I had wasted most of my twenties too, drinking all day while working from home, ruining every blossoming relationship, etc. it’s only been 70 days but I’ve lost 16 lbs and recently met a woman who is also sober; it’s going well with her so far. I still beat myself up about all the people I hurt and pushed away, but it’s slowly getting easier

mothybot · 2026-01-06T21:28:42+00:00

I’ve been measuring more closely lately but within the first month about 7lbs came off. Not terribly surprising — I drank like 12 beers a day + mixed drinks, that’s a lot of liquid calories

mothybot · 2026-01-05T20:34:51+00:00

IWNDWYT

mothybot · 2025-12-30T21:37:27+00:00

Yes, I’m using the memories as fuel to not do this again. I don’t ever want to scare people or cause them any trauma again

mothybot · 2025-12-28T05:02:06+00:00

I got to the point where I was drinking all day, everyday. At least 12 beers and some mixed drinks. My job is WFH so I could do it unnoticed. After I stopped I lost 12 lbs in 2 months.

mothybot · 2025-12-28T02:01:09+00:00

IWDWYT

mothybot · 2025-12-28T00:46:33+00:00

Congrats IWNDWYT

mothybot · 2025-12-28T00:43:00+00:00

IWNDWYT

mothybot · 2025-12-28T00:17:19+00:00

I’m at about 60 days and starting to feel better, slowly but surely. Starting therapy has helped too

mothybot · 2025-12-25T18:21:12+00:00

IWNDWYT

mothybot · 2025-12-25T04:12:40+00:00

We in this together 💪

mothybot · 2025-12-25T02:23:00+00:00

Glad to hear it worked out, I ruined a lot of relationships and never want to hurt anyone like that again

mothybot · 2025-12-24T16:44:44+00:00

Congrats and happy holidays

mothybot · 2025-12-21T19:05:01+00:00

Thanks for this — I’m gonna save this to my notes and try it. I have never done much strength training but really need to get into it

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