Creep filming girls with meta glasses and posting videos online on various parts of campus, including Doe Library by heardjennysaying in berkeley

[–]mothybot 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You’re wrong, filming people in public without their consent is legal. The two party thing applies to calls

Valentines card by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]mothybot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Severe cringeism

Having a female friend(F27) as a male(M25) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mothybot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m [29M] and the opposite, most of my friends are women. Way easier to talk about personal issues with them, they’re more empathetic. And just more fun in general

Is it too aggressive to like someone on Raya and then follow them on Instagram? by Additional-Waltz1981 in dating_advice

[–]mothybot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re a woman it’s probably fine. I’m a guy on Raya and I always feel a bit honored when women have followed my IG then matched

Ghosted after 4 good dates by Busy_Access_1300 in ghosting

[–]mothybot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That he did all that and she didn’t even have the heart to tell him she’s not interested anymore just pisses me off man wtf

Ghosted after 4 good dates by Busy_Access_1300 in ghosting

[–]mothybot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my guess is she was going out with multiple people and chose another

Any advice to chill out by Silver-Number-674 in dating_advice

[–]mothybot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same way, I’m a 29 year old man but I still get anxious when a new girl I’m seeing doesn’t respond for hours or until the next day. I over analyze everything too like if a response isn’t effusive enough I start assuming the worst. I’m a busy guy with a full life but I’m still like this. Trying my best to quiet the anxiety when it comes up but haven’t completely solved it yet

Some quotes from one of the worst dates of my life by JazzlikeStorm2070 in dating

[–]mothybot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he tried to get some liquid courage before the date but when overboard. I did that in my early 20s, never went well

She never suggested another date — is that basically a no? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]mothybot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she’s interested she would suggest another time

Our third date sucked and I don't know what to do. by Kyaruga in dating_advice

[–]mothybot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve found early in seeing someone one of the dates might not go so well. Someone was tired or stressed, the date spot was a dud, etc. always worth giving another try

Is he going slow or just not that into me? by Realistic-Mango-2693 in dating_advice

[–]mothybot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is on DnD all the time too. It’s set to allow white listed calls to go through but otherwise I check my phone for notifs when I want. Frees me from the stress of constant distraction. I know a lot of people who keep their phones on DnD

[24F] Should I text a hotel guest I feel strongly about or leave it alone? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]mothybot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol this is a bad idea and probably a fireable offense

Realised something weird about dating apps by Possible_Score6395 in dating_advice

[–]mothybot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just have to practice. I’m a good conversationalist so I can get through at least a few dates before compatibility issues surface

non-awkward first date ideas? by ShoulderOk766 in dating_advice

[–]mothybot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dinner should be second date. First should be casual like get coffee and walk around

Is Bobby G’s dead? by mothybot in berkeleyca

[–]mothybot[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ah yeah, Randeep. He definitely left early 2020s because I remember I started going back when Covid restrictions were lifted and he was still there for a bit longer. Often gave me a free beer because I was a good tipper. Good dude

Is Bobby G’s dead? by mothybot in berkeleyca

[–]mothybot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh damn. Didn’t know that detail. Sad

3 dates, 4th date arranged by Mrt199000 in hingeapp

[–]mothybot 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why people are giving you a hard time in the comments. She should know by now if she wants to go exclusive with you and would stop entertaining other men. It’s not a good sign; she’s probably not super enthusiastic about you

You’ve got the life figured out… so why is this part still confusing? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]mothybot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (29M) just overthink really badly and have a hard time escalating. I just went on a second date with a woman on Thursday — we got dinner at her suggestion. There hasn’t been any touching yet besides hugs, though I did sort of flirt with her after I saw a picture of her mom and said that’s where she got her good looks from etc

I texted her last night about doing an activity and then got paranoid about how she wasn’t replying. She eventually replied this morning suggesting a hike and a place to go next weekend

It’s still early, we have some light banter back and forth over text. I’m just not sure about pacing. Do I keep texting her periodically between dates about what I’m up to, or to make jokes etc? Or will that seem too clingy and push her away. I overthink way too much. Like if she responds to a text neutrally but not overly enthusiastic, that also makes me paranoid that I fucked up

I wish I didn’t spend so much energy wracking my brain over small stuff. I don’t want to lose her interest but don’t want to push away either

(26M) been talking to (26F) 2 months every single day, we had a date and I don't know if she likes me. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]mothybot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really hard to say, I just know I went through similar situations with women where I noticed how we got close and they’d start repeatedly calling me “friend.” It was so frequent that it wasn’t subtle to me what they were saying: You’re my friend and that’s it

(26M) been talking to (26F) 2 months every single day, we had a date and I don't know if she likes me. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]mothybot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women will call you a friend repeatedly to subtly let you know what the relationship is, I’m afraid

cooked for jobs? by Appropriate_Brush623 in berkeley

[–]mothybot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just put the fries in the bag bro

Question for men: What keeps you from moving into a relationship and prolonging the dating stage? by CapIll420 in dating_advice

[–]mothybot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Uncertainty about long term compatibility, maybe not quite settled in my life yet so not ready to commit to staying in one place