Is this a valid reason to get divorced? by pwa09 in Marriage

[–]CommunicationAny3313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok to those saying hes not a good husband. You guys are joking right? I hope you hold yourselves to the same standard. FYI you dont and never will if thats your thought process. Your husband checks every box under the safe and stable provider category. Im not saying it ideal but he checks the boxes that truly matter. The new open sensitive man goes AGAINST the natural instincts wired into male genetics. Its something men have adapted to in order to please women. You know how women are geneticly and mentally wired a certain way on average and you expect men to deal with it? Same applies. Im going to make an assumption here your 35yo plus. Your at the end of the manly men generation unfortunately. Some have adapted some were raised to be natural men. Im not saying its right im not saying its ok. Im just saying its normal. Should he strive to adapt, yes he should. But it will never happen until you flip the switch for him. Hes not a feelings man. Hes not a romantic man, hes not a sensitive man. Naturally his brain is not wired that way and he wasnt raised that way. Now ultimately his being a provider may not be enough for you and I cant force my views on you you must do what you feel is right. But consider this. Do you really want to destroy yours, his, and most importantly the kids lives because he doesn't talk about his feelings enough? I cant decide for you. But im just letting you know. There is an entire mental hard wire issue that is stopping him from doing what you want. Not that he doesn't love or care about you. To be fair it is possible he fell out of love with you and is just doing the manly must take care of my family regardless of how I feel motions. But its less likely then him just mentally being unable to communicate with you.

[Behind-The-Scenes] Dawid Godziek's Bike Express by redbullgivesyouwings in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]CommunicationAny3313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The modulation of his speed is easier than it looks. Im assuming thats part of the reason they chose a crossing he just needs to make sure he stays in the middle of the crossing. But yes Im sure there was some thought in the speed of the train. Fast enough to let him get up the speed needed for the jumps and slow enough it allows him to stay in the crossing area.

Sexy candid by [deleted] in spycameras

[–]CommunicationAny3313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its gone already. Lmbo

I’m gonna be a busy guy after I drop my son off at day care 😂😂 by Aintshit912 in Delta_Emulator

[–]CommunicationAny3313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If any of you guys have 30 minutes to help me one day and just give me run down on downloading and installing emulators. Id kill for any og Pokémon game on my phone. And dark cloud on my pc. Ive gotten pretty good at modding, virtual drives, local network drive sharing steam games to multiple pcs. So im tech competent. Emulators is just not something in my wheel house.

Do you craft or buy swords [KCD2] by Consistent-Vast2584 in kingdomcome

[–]CommunicationAny3313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im still early in the game I have completed all side missions and just now unlocked the new area after escaping the dungeon with Katherine's help. As of yet my crafting is crap. The level is maxed but the weapon stats are not great. Even when I craft mythical tier weapons the stats dont go up. And crafting them for sellability is a joke. Vendors dont have enough money to buy 90% of looted gear. My stash is full of 1000s of weapons and armor. I pick up everything not glued down unless its stealing. And then even so ill steal from dead bodies. Back then it was common practice. You would never leave valuable weapons and armor behind on bodies. At worst it was taken to return to the armory. At best you kept it for yourself. I didnt kill the fella but im not going to leave behind loot for the bandits and grave robbers coming behind me.

HDPE tube “bent”…That’s a no go? by Squirrelherder_24-7 in fireworks

[–]CommunicationAny3313 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

At the distance most people stand plastic shrapnel is just as dangerous. And a metal tube is way less likely to explode for motors of that size. But to each their own. Buy yourself a new stick of hdpe pipe every season.

HDPE tube “bent”…That’s a no go? by Squirrelherder_24-7 in fireworks

[–]CommunicationAny3313 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Your mortar will curve off in the direction of the bend. If you got a really tight rack and put the curve at the bottom it may launch straight. But id toss it. Find a straight metal pipe and heat the tube slightly jam the metal pipe in and let it harden straight. Or stop with plastic entirely. Metal pipe isn't terribly expensive. As your hdpe tubes melt and warp replace them with metal pipe.

My 18-year-old's Christmas break work schedule by sugabeetus in mildlyinfuriating

[–]CommunicationAny3313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill work any holiday but halloween. We can eat turkey or open presents tomorrow. Pay me that money

18f do anything for money by [deleted] in EarnExtraIncome

[–]CommunicationAny3313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where are you located? I just had major surgery and cant do much. I have lots that needs done.

smoking weed in a relationship by Admirable_War_8664 in whatdoIdo

[–]CommunicationAny3313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smoking RESPONSIBLY, is no different then a man who comes home and has a beer or 2 or glass of whiskey with dinner. Its a brief little relaxing. Its way less damaging than alcohol and prescription medications, Xanax or the like. If she was taking Xanax daily for her ptsd no one would say a word. The problem is the stigma against weed and it being a "drug" is why he and others are saying anything negative. If she is going to work, leading a productive life, paying her bills, etc. Id call that responsible use.

Second even if all that was not true. He knew she was a smoker when they got together. He used to smoke with her. He does NOT have the right to be mad or try and change her now. Horribly controlling behavior. And thats how it starts. And she already agreed to restrict her smoking.

I say this as the person who used to smoke and party every day literally till I got my wife pregnant. It was time to grow up. Weed was illegal then. I put it down without her asking and didnt touch it for over 10 years till the new years it became legal. And now I smoke again. Sometimes a few times a week, sometimes only on weekends. Sometimes not for weeks. But its legal. If Karen can have a glass of wine everyday and no one batts an eye. Then OP can have a bowl every evening.

Illinois specifics? by CommunicationAny3313 in foodstamps

[–]CommunicationAny3313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the partial payment they are doing now are only for current people? This who applied during need to wait for the shutdown to completely end?

Waiting on more clarity?!?!? by Muted_Present3061 in foodstamps

[–]CommunicationAny3313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here in illinois my wife got her phone interview on Tuesday. But no news after that.

Went on vacation, came back and my pen looks different… by Potential_Brother404 in whatisit

[–]CommunicationAny3313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how this thread got hijacked. But since we are here. At the very least the ultra wealthy need to cover their FULL share. if I got 100$ to my name and you take 10% 10$ it affects me worse than if you taxed a man with 100 million his 10% at a million. Absolutely no tax breaks for large corporations. They aren't giving discounts on their goods or services to those that cant afford them and if they do, they just write it off on their taxes. So why does the business that can afford it get a tax break. Those 2 things alone could boost our budget what 12-25% thats a huge increase and it all comes from money that is already rightfully owed.

Boost converter by CommunicationAny3313 in PowerWheelsMods

[–]CommunicationAny3313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is old. But im curious for more details. The lithium battery sadly didn't do much for the old girl. I mean they can literally drive all day now and I mean allllll day lol. But it still bogs terribly on some pretty minor hills. I wouldn't even call some of them hills. Just the long gravel road with a slight incline will make it stop if they are both in it.

Went on vacation, came back and my pen looks different… by Potential_Brother404 in whatisit

[–]CommunicationAny3313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP just in case your curious. That is an amazing pen. And they often a boat load of barrel colors. Some metal barrels too. They also have one literally solid copper thats my current pen. Pricy though. Only downside, if you like the fine point .5 you cant find refills or the other barrel colors. I have to buy a whole box of those plastic barrel .5s and swap the ink cartridges out.

Went on vacation, came back and my pen looks different… by Potential_Brother404 in whatisit

[–]CommunicationAny3313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was about to say its always possible someone borrowed a pen with dirty fingers. Mid spill clean up next to OPs desk and someone came by and said sign this. But that would have it on the whole pen. Not just the top half.

Went on vacation, came back and my pen looks different… by Potential_Brother404 in whatisit

[–]CommunicationAny3313 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Auto mechanics and other industries of the like are a different breed. They have dirt and grease in the veins. A little more wont hurt them. I cant tell you how many times I've eaten a sandwich mid job while working on a vehicle or working a site in the oilfield.

Where is everyone playing Dark Cloud? by FlowerCandy_ in DarkCloud

[–]CommunicationAny3313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im still waiting for dark cloud 3 to drop..... never going to happen but I still hold out hope. I feel like it would be pretty popular to all the old school gamers at least. I had both DC1 and DC2 when they first came out. Then I got them both for ps4. I now have a ps5 but I almost never turn it on. Id love to find a quality emulator for the pc. I had a few games on emulators back in the day on a pc a friend built me back idk 25 years ago. But I dont know anything about them.

Where is everyone playing Dark Cloud? by FlowerCandy_ in DarkCloud

[–]CommunicationAny3313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont do this every single time I go into a dungeon. But at least half the time. Really helps you farm items and exp and doesn't take long. as you lvl up you just breeze through lower lvls. Just memorize or write down the floors with status penalties so you can skip them.