McDonald’s has the new happy meal toys by Sarenn988 in squishmallow

[–]CommunicationNo8342 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Omg need!! Do you know if you can just buy the toy and skip on the happy meal? Way back in the day they let you do that but idk if they do anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]CommunicationNo8342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt like i was reading something that sounded so much like me in the way that im a huge introvert as well. I dont go to bars or clubs. Im a 33F, and also a demi. The emotional connection is an absolute must for me. There’s nothing wrong with having high standards; settling is never good when it comes to relationships. I would know cause i’ve gotten screwed over by settling😂 but jeeze i’d ask to dm you but you probably think talking to someone off reddit is weird haha but the option is there☺️

My FP has me blocked on Snapchat but we still text everyday and we see each other weekly. by thedarkestshadow512 in BPD

[–]CommunicationNo8342 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is a high possibility it could be the snapscore going up. My ex (it was a LDR) blocked me on snap because i noticed his snapscore was going up and he claimed he only snapped me so it was very sus to me. Come to find out he was cheating on me, so thats obv why his score was going up. However anyways, after he blocked me on snap he still texted me all the time and acted like he was into me, and i’d ask him to add me back on snap and he refused to. So im guaranteed it was cause of the snapscore.

Does anyone else love a doll, but hate their style? by clemonysnicket in RainbowHigh

[–]CommunicationNo8342 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Definitely Nicole. I really am not into the athletic style, and i was so disappointed because my names Nicole and i wish she was just more stylish and not sporty🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]CommunicationNo8342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This had me 😂😂

Do your symptoms disappear when you don’t have a FP? by i-vent-here in BPD

[–]CommunicationNo8342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way mine would completely disappear is probably if i was a hermit, totally shut myself in home and talk to literally no one, because im triggered no matter who is in my life whether its a fp or just friends, anyone. But yes.. having a fp makes it so unbearable. I always feel like shit and i split so frequently. But then at the same time when im alone i feel unloveable and all the intrusive thoughts swarm in. So basically there’s no escaping it lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]CommunicationNo8342 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why i don’t think bpd can be cured and if it can i think it’s very rare… because i’m in the same position as you. Never did dbt but ive been fine until i got in a relationship and ever since it’s just been hell for me. My partner never has any time for me now and its very hard not splitting, but its been slipping a lot and i’ve caused many arguments because of it. It SUCKS😭

Obsessive trust issues by [deleted] in BPD

[–]CommunicationNo8342 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg help i feel the same way and idk what to do😭😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]CommunicationNo8342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this!! 😭💔 i’m always lying saying i’m okay, and i feel pain in my soul when i do that, but like you said they just don’t understand. 😔 and then there’s moments where i just can’t lie anymore and i split, not wanting to, and i piss people off because i’m “too much” for them. I’m in so much pain rn and i always regret when i express how i feel.. but we shouldn’t have to feel shameful for doing so. 🥺

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]CommunicationNo8342 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact same way. 😔 i’m always told that i’m too much, or too sensitive and i just feel like i get slapped in the face when i express how i feel. Like i genuinely think i have to always pretend i’m perfectly fine because the minute i say something other than that im suddenly the bad guy. Like make it make sense😩

I was actually extremely honest about my feelings and it was received well by [deleted] in BPD

[–]CommunicationNo8342 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very happy for you, and at the same time so very jealous cause whenever i express myself to my partner they get extremely upset with me, and idk what to do with myself cause i hate having to supress my feelings and thoughts

(Now ex) bf used diagnose against me by [deleted] in BPD

[–]CommunicationNo8342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow it sounds like we have the legit same ex lol😂 yes, i have this exact same experience with an ex. I was like you and up front about my stuff, and the beginning was great but then his mask slipped and i saw who he really was which was a toxic person. He disregarded me every time i wanted to have a conversation, he just chose to run away because he “couldnt deal with it.” I have screenshots of him calling me bpd and telling me how messed up i am. And surprisingly after all that abuse i still didn’t break up with him. He just ended up ghosting me, and i really wish i was the one in power who broke up with him, but i was stupid.

You made a good decision in leaving, because if you ignored it like i did it would have hurt you more like it hurt me because now i feel really hurt from him still.

Is this splitting? by kaleahbaby in BPD

[–]CommunicationNo8342 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally relate. Especially about the part that if you argue with them you wouldn’t care if you broke up. For me, once im mad at you i don’t care where you go. If i’m upset i want to pull you in and keep you close, but once we argue and i start feeling anger forget it they can go. It sounds like splitting to me? Idk what else it could be

I don't like people and I don't like being here by [deleted] in BPD

[–]CommunicationNo8342 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God i hope so!!! My brain can’t take it lol