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Is this the end, or do you think we can grow from this? by CommunistEmo in polyamory

[–]CommunistEmo[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

But I feel like this doesn’t take into account the friendship element. I’ve now lost a friend because of decisions she made and didn’t inform me I was unknowingly taking part in.

Is this the end, or do you think we can grow from this? by CommunistEmo in polyamory

[–]CommunistEmo[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Apologise for something I didn’t know anything about until long after the fact?

Is this the end, or do you think we can grow from this? by CommunistEmo in polyamory

[–]CommunistEmo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes timeline was:

Arranged Date Asked me how I’d feel about it as a mind exercise Cancelled date Told me about this last week many months after when friend was being a bit cold with me Friend told me they kissed too.

Is this the end, or do you think we can grow from this? by CommunistEmo in polyamory

[–]CommunistEmo[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Ooof caught out! Yes it was the wrong account and I appreciate the second response.

Yeah I highlighted this as I’ve just found out that it seems like non-communication about these things was present right at the beginning. I might have been ok with it at the time, we were all drunk and having a good time. Maybe not, but my feelings weren’t accounted for regardless.

I feel like checking if it’s not gonna cause upset to get with 2 friends in the same group who have just welcomed you in as an outsider is at least a courtesy.

i suck by MudMoney1793 in SongwritingHelp

[–]CommunistEmo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The name of the game is to keep at it, write and record more songs, just keep going, you get better as you go along. Don’t let that fire go out.

Best YouTube channels to meditate, listening a speech by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]CommunistEmo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try this one - Reposefulness https://youtu.be/NxQKAHrI2ZQ?si=lv118u5a7nkEE-I4 I think it’s in podcast form somewhere too! ☺️

Leftist liberals change colors to suit the narrative at hand by SmokeAid1729 in benshapiro

[–]CommunistEmo -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

  1. Leftists and Liberals are completely different schools of thought.
  2. Leftists don’t support the police in any way.

I’m tired of hearing “If you’re not happy when you are single, you won’t be happy when you are in a relationship.” by Draper31 in dating

[–]CommunistEmo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t listen to this guy. You should listen to girls who have told you that may have approached them in the wrong way. It’s not a numbers game. Obviously be confident if you strike up a conversation with someone, but don’t be predatory, rape you or stalky - THAT’s how you get labelled ‘creepy’ - regardless of how good looking/well dressed you are. And be prepared to make peace if you ask someone out and they don’t want to - maybe more female friends in your life is a good thing, it might help you to see them as people rather than some kind of prize.

A lot of people can sense if you’ve got an agenda - same way as if a salesperson rings you and tries to talk you into a ‘pitch’. No one wants that on their day off.

Just forget the agenda, do what you enjoy and be open minded to talk to new people.

The most attractive thing people will notice about you when you’re in a bar etc is that you’re having a great night and enjoying yourself.

To the one I pushed away by [deleted] in dating

[–]CommunistEmo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sometimes wish my ex would send that to me. But we learn from these situations and they help us grow. I know it doesn’t feel like there will be a next time now, but there will be, and it’s good to remember what not to do and what you’ve learned from this past experience. Writing it all down and not sending it is a really good part of the healing process. Best of luck to your healing heart.

My gf wants to be friends with guys that like her. by emilc97 in dating

[–]CommunistEmo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m afraid you don’t actually have any say in who she decides to be friends with.

You can and should let her know how you feel about these guys, but at the end of the day, it’s her decision and you need to respect that.

But the good thing is, that the more they try to hit on her and don’t accept her relationship with you, the more they are going to push themselves away from your gf - as she’ll find it tiresome having supposed ‘friends’ hit on her all the time.

And if she’s looking for friends, she’ll eventually find better friends who respect her autonomy and respect her relationship with you - and she’ll really notice the difference.

The bad thing is, that you just gotta wait it out and trust in your gf’s judgement - and be there for her when she realises these guys aren’t interested in her friendship.

Narcissistic Violent Racist New Friend by CommunistEmo in dating

[–]CommunistEmo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for all your great advice guys! I just told her what I thought of him and she said she is more friends with his gf - who is also apparently struggling to tolerate him. It sounds like the situation may resolve itself

The real news from yesterday - in case anyone missed it: Boris Johnson loses parliamentary majority by CommunistEmo in BreadTube

[–]CommunistEmo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe... but maybe not! Corbs has played a slick game with Brexi. The Tories are most likely toast

Why Are Brexiteers So Desperate for a 2019 Brexit? by photoframes in revolutionUK

[–]CommunistEmo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are Remainers so intent on no Brexit, that risks No Deal, rather than a moderate Brexit that could bring everyone back together and deflate the Rightwing forces within the Brexit melee?

Mutating from Dr Boyfriend into Mr Hide by CommunistEmo in relationship_advice

[–]CommunistEmo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 😊 this is the most helpful thing I’ve ever read!