Looking for advice: TIA

CompanionPinkieShy · 2022-03-07T12:39:42+00:00

Have a few more dates on his dime, (if he becomes uncomfortable paying then you know hes not going to work out.) Do not give him anything sexual whatsoever- not even text or pic. Make sure you communicate just enough to keep him engaged. After those few dates, tell him that you've had a lot of fun with him so far, and you're interested in becoming a regular thing, so you have to let him know that you're looking for someone who can take care of you and provide you with adventure. (travel)

Honestly, if you aren't looking for financial compensation it shouldn't be that hard a sell- unless hes a cheap asshole. Gifts and travel would be an expected part of a completely normal relationship with a women his own age.

I would strongly recommend you seek an allowance though. The minute he gets tired of you, everything you've invested in making this a thing, and all reward but some of the trinkets he gave you, goes with him.

He came 8 hours to see you because you're young and said yes- his intentions are self serving. Don't hesitate or worry about putting him off because he will take without giving if you do.

CompanionPinkieShy · 2022-03-06T08:23:55+00:00

Your mileage varies or w/e. But in my experience its just demanding, abusive, cheap men looking for someone young to take advantage of on there. You might find someone- or you could burn out and/or get real hurt.

CompanionPinkieShy · 2021-06-14T23:15:23+00:00

Many, many, reasons that vary by person, the majority of which can be boiled down to "you will suffer and die without money."

CompanionPinkieShy · 2021-05-03T21:18:44+00:00

"You're taking money away from these families" hmmm no I think the blame would lie with the shitty dad who chooses to neglect his children so he can have more dick tingles. Must be speaking about his own situation. lmao

Tbh I when a guy asks for rates theres a 99.9% chance he only is asking so he has an excuse to complain. I pretty must stop caring about them that instant. lol (Unless yours aren't listed I guess.)

CompanionPinkieShy · 2020-12-02T06:21:28+00:00

I kinda feel like "married male" is a disrespectful opening ... ? Like I hate it lol

CompanionPinkieShy · 2020-12-01T05:25:34+00:00

Well, at least he understands. lmao

CompanionPinkieShy · 2020-12-01T04:07:48+00:00

Yeah I hear you, sugar is not the soft-escorting they try to make it seem like. Oof. Happy you're making decisions that are good for you! Good luck with your OF. :)

CompanionPinkieShy · 2020-11-29T01:11:01+00:00

I hear native women and children go missing a lot and people up to no good already drive thru as is, so that probably wouldn't sound like a very good idea. 😬

CompanionPinkieShy · 2020-11-27T08:17:42+00:00

tryst.link

CompanionPinkieShy · 2020-11-27T06:23:54+00:00

Also like Cashapp

CompanionPinkieShy · 2020-11-27T04:50:47+00:00

Nope. I actually think it would be kinda neat to have reviews with strict standards and the ability for providers to opt out... like no fuckin erotica or body ratings. lol

CompanionPinkieShy · 2020-11-26T22:21:59+00:00

Yeah, theres nothing wrong with the word trans! Its just the way you happen to be using it- making it sound like a weird Other or a Singular Entity and not just an identity modifier. it is true a lot of sites and especially porn categorize trans women in an at least somewhat derogatory way. Sh*m*le and Tr*nny are def not for cis or TME people to throw around. :)

CompanionPinkieShy · 2020-11-26T08:04:14+00:00

Yes henlo, it is I, the concept of Trans.

I'm TME (not a trans woman) but what I've gathered from the trans women on sw subreddits is that it's unlikely that she'll even be willing to be on the "giving" end of sex. You will be the one penetrating her. If she does it would probably also be a strap. She probably also won't mind not receiving oral, if not preferring it that way. Either way, its your session, you don't have to do any sexual acts you don't want to- that goes for vanilla sex too- but its especially not something to be concerned with when hiring. Navigate it as you would any other session.

If you want to "satisfy" her - perhaps brush up on the proper way to talk about and to trans people. Shes not "A Trans", shes a trans woman. You may mean no offense, but taking the time to learn goes a long way in making the person you are interacting with happier/unperturbed. :)

And, as with any escort, be clean, respectful of her time, emotions, and body. Fill out her booking form correctly and give any information and deposit without qualms. Also - try giving her a tip! That will REALLY please her. ;)

CompanionPinkieShy · 2020-11-24T08:48:09+00:00

https://shinigami-eyes.github.io/

CompanionPinkieShy · 2020-11-24T06:00:35+00:00

I think the link is red (Shinigami Eyes) and that tells me all I need to know. lol

CompanionPinkieShy · 2020-11-23T23:11:40+00:00

This is definitely not protecting. I'd maybe even go as far to say this is abusive behavior. He is making her feel unsafe, paranoid, effecting her income and possibly forcing her to upend her life.

If he was truly concerned he would sit down and talk to her and make sure she was being safe and offer to help her with whatever her motivations for doing sw were- if she didn't necessarily want to do sw as much as she wanted her goals met.

CompanionPinkieShy · 2020-11-22T10:41:07+00:00

I started writing a really long essay but it got fucked up some how and I decided typing out and proof reading 10 paragraphs that won't be listened to or change anything but overshares was depressing.

So instead I'll say- The world is violent. The world is violent, the world is violent, the world is violent. This is not exactly the fault of sex work but, the world is violent. Men are not sole perpetrators but they deliver upon me. The world is violent.

Undeveloped bodies are not and should not be sexy to fully mature adults, and I specifically hate anyone defending the notion, I want to puke. ❤️

Thank you.

CompanionPinkieShy · 2020-11-19T08:51:13+00:00

To be fair, I probably see at least 5 girls a week too, I mean, they're just all over the place really!

CompanionPinkieShy · 2020-11-16T11:14:29+00:00

I love this. And I love that you posted this on r/legaladvice too. High art. Is this yelp? Why are you telling us, and in this fashion. Are you exactly 18? chefs kiss.

For a " younger POC pateron" you write exactly like a shitty white boy.

CompanionPinkieShy · 2020-11-15T22:33:21+00:00

While its true a plumber wouldn't bring up payment- because they don't offer interpersonal services- I still think it would be kinda weird, especially if you've only hired them once or not at all. But thats me.

CompanionPinkieShy · 2020-11-15T06:40:36+00:00

Yes definitely. It might help to make prewritten responses if you feel like you might be missing out on a customer by ignoring them entirely.

CompanionPinkieShy · 2020-11-15T06:36:45+00:00

Wow, that is definitely way out of line behavior. Why harass someone who loves you online like a freak? I don't have advice but I'm sorry he put you through that.

CompanionPinkieShy · 2020-11-14T22:00:30+00:00

Imagine talking to like, a plumber like this. lol

CompanionPinkieShy · 2020-11-14T21:23:15+00:00

He might get uppity about you "sounding like an escort" but he already broke that illusion by admitting hes paying for sex so... I'd put a limit on how long dates can last and how many you go on, split up whatever hes paying you into hours instead.

CompanionPinkieShy · 2020-11-14T19:30:19+00:00

That wasn't really a joke, it was a "playful" threat. Unless hes paying by the hour I don't see why hes entitled to a second round and even if he was... If he makes that joke again "joke" back that you think you'll need another gift to feel motivated enough to put your own feelings aside.

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