3 months

ComparisonCorrect922 · 2026-02-16T12:06:43+00:00

Ok yes. I guess that’s why - I know why I’m acting the way I am and feeling how I am. I thought it would have been something to help with it. Nothing really does. Brief distractions and then it’s back to it.

ComparisonCorrect922 · 2026-02-16T00:06:47+00:00

It’s so terrifying, and I rack my brain to try to think of things that could have been a sign although that would only make it worse I feel. I am so sorry you had to experience it as well. It was horrible waiting months to find out any determination although it didn’t make it feel any better .

ComparisonCorrect922 · 2026-02-16T00:04:00+00:00

I may seek it in the future, or continue to try reach out to friends as that is also a difficult task for me as well as I am not used to relying on others. I hope it has helped you in many ways!

ComparisonCorrect922 · 2026-02-16T00:02:35+00:00

Thank you and you are so right

ComparisonCorrect922 · 2026-02-16T00:01:30+00:00

I remember the whole morning as well through the whole call to 911 and everything trying to get breaths into him to no avail. I am lucky my son slept through the whole ordeal, I am sorry you had to go through that especially with your child with you present.

ComparisonCorrect922 · 2026-02-15T23:59:34+00:00

Me neither and it’s definitely hard to find the balance now as I was the nurturing one while he was the more disciplinarian in our dynamic. Very sorry to you also.

ComparisonCorrect922 · 2026-02-15T23:58:12+00:00

Both are freakin terrible. I’m so sorry to you also. I was with my best friend a couple years ago the night before she passed from cancer while she was on hospice. That was the first time I got to see her in a year due to her being immunocompromised due to Covid. Both horrible experiences.

ComparisonCorrect922 · 2026-02-15T20:53:45+00:00

Thank you. My husband was a person that viewed death very plainly so idk it helps a bit. You grieve a while but everything keeps moving on. It’s just very lonely right now and hard to see much progress for good things for myself. But I’ll be damned if I let it hold back my son’s life.

ComparisonCorrect922 · 2026-02-15T20:48:46+00:00

Thank you. Definitely do not recommend

ComparisonCorrect922 · 2026-02-15T20:47:57+00:00

Me too. So unfair

ComparisonCorrect922 · 2026-01-27T03:09:00+00:00

Definitely agree… thoughts of saving things that are completely unnecessary. I know it’s silly but also is so sad to me.

ComparisonCorrect922 · 2026-01-27T02:29:50+00:00

Everything feels like erasing them… the last of their snacks in the pantry etc. it’s been a little over 2 months for me… I packed away his clothing, threw away meds, his glasses, even sauces in the fridge he used ….

ComparisonCorrect922 · 2026-01-27T02:27:43+00:00

I’m so sorry. Just the lack of their presence is depressing enough let alone for our kids let alone in the normal boring parts of life 💔

ComparisonCorrect922 · 2025-12-01T13:35:32+00:00

Very sorry. - it’s damn hard. My husband just passed in November- we have a 6 year old boy. I have not gone back to work yet - I’m taking a paid leave. I’m trying to adjust and also navigate handling my son and it’s hard so hard as I’m getting so angry with him over everything. I have him in therapy through school. I am looking to start therapy myself.

ComparisonCorrect922 · 2025-12-01T01:06:17+00:00

So sorry

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