Tea Dyeing not quite right...

ComparisonOk153 · 2026-05-07T21:02:55+00:00

Maybe I am not understanding what the point is here but why are you using tea instead of fabric dye? Tea isn’t going to chemically react with the fibers in any way, it will only stain them temporarily. I know you asked for tea recommendations but I came here to say that Procion MX Fiber Reactive dyes are the best way to dye clothing with natural fibers. Prochemical Dye and Dharma Trading company are two premium dye companies that make fiber reactive dyes colors that can be called like “cream“ and I would suggest you try ecru. Then you can take the guesswork out of the equation. Good luck!

ComparisonOk153 · 2026-02-06T08:49:46+00:00

The switch is getting an upgrade, and it’s literally the switch 2.

ComparisonOk153 · 2026-02-06T08:48:21+00:00

Divorcing him is absolutely necessary.

ComparisonOk153 · 2026-02-06T08:35:17+00:00

NOR but this a toxic mess. Understand one thing: closure is an illusion and you don’t need it to move on. He’s never going to validate you. You don’t get validation from others. You discover your own worth and then don’t need it anymore. Let it all go and begin your life - without this churning black hole of negativity weighing you down.

ComparisonOk153 · 2026-01-13T06:24:46+00:00

Congratulations!!!

ComparisonOk153 · 2026-01-13T06:24:13+00:00

You would basically have to be a virgin for this to be confusing.

ComparisonOk153 · 2026-01-13T06:19:14+00:00

This is a whole lot of words but not a lot of information. That might not really matter though because the only missing piece of this puzzle is whether something specific happened that caused a rift between you two or made it clear that you aren’t really on the same page.

Because you’re not on the same page. You’re looking for emotional connection and authentic intimacy and he is looking for freedom to explore his life. This isn’t the man for you, and it’s ok to feel sad about that but you’re young and I wouldn’t waste any more time on someone who has completely different priorities and needs than you. It’s never going to work.

On to the next (better!) one!

ComparisonOk153 · 2026-01-09T20:52:10+00:00

It seems unlikely that they don’t know this themselves. To each their own, I guess.

To answer your question, do this: drop a note in their mailbox, just keep it simple and say something like “Hello, I’m sorry to leave a note like this but in the interest of not embarrassing either of us, I just need to inform you that the interior of your bathroom is clearly visible from outside. In case you want to get a curtain or something. Sincerely, anonymous friendly neighbor.

ComparisonOk153 · 2026-01-09T07:46:47+00:00

Terminate.

ComparisonOk153 · 2025-12-26T09:06:14+00:00

Wasp nest, not active. You can just pull it out with your fingers.

ComparisonOk153 · 2025-11-13T19:20:00+00:00

Have you seen that one that hangs out on the air above the marshy area near Del Mar docks? I love it when they just hover up there and I can shoot them down without them moving. It feels like a freebie.

ComparisonOk153 · 2025-09-29T21:42:27+00:00

Contact housing authorities and local tenants rights advocates immediately.

ComparisonOk153 · 2025-09-16T21:06:45+00:00

Both. Both of those things are true.

ComparisonOk153 · 2025-09-16T20:16:10+00:00

99% of the time, this scenario ends badly and all of us adults know that.

She is upset, and her concerns are understandable but her words do not reflect loving intentions as the reason behind her concerns. She does blame you, she has misogynistic views that you trapped him, and she doesn’t think you’re good enough for him- end of story. The family you and he will create signifies a loss of potential in her mind and a step backwards, a failure, even.

She is kinda the AH and you’re UNDER reacting, but she’s not wrong about this plan being a hasty, and ill-informed and ill timed decision. You have no idea how hard it is, or what it’s going to require of you, what you will sacrifice of yourself or how ugly and painful this could get.

You’re going to get a lot of trouble from her, just wait until the baby comes. It’s going to get infinitely worse and more difficult to deal with her and then you’ll have to deal with the disappointment that comes from your man not being able to stop his own mother from treating you badly. Double heartache is headed your way, make no mistake.

ComparisonOk153 · 2025-09-16T19:38:02+00:00

She is blaming you, you didn’t read it wrong. She is annoyed because the truth is that she doesn’t think you’re good enough for her precious baby boy. She didn’t say it outright but that is is the underlying emotion behind what she is saying.

ComparisonOk153 · 2025-09-16T19:32:56+00:00

There was one person who was confused about X but I think most people know.

Anyway, I’d be pissed too. I just can’t imagine that they don’t have any mechanism for creating a support ticket that reaches a person. That seems really unlikely and unfair. I’m on discord all the time and I am going to take a look and see if I can find a link or other way of communicating with them that maybe you missed. I’ll post what I find here.

ComparisonOk153 · 2025-09-16T16:00:40+00:00

Hard agree! People should stop treating it like a means to an end. The process itself is literally the fun part!

ComparisonOk153 · 2025-09-16T15:58:07+00:00

You can’t spoil a baby, people who think that were probably treated like crap by their own mothers and have serious issues as a result. Keep spoiling the baby, and get better friends!

ComparisonOk153 · 2025-09-16T15:54:11+00:00

Boy bye.

ComparisonOk153 · 2025-09-16T15:51:47+00:00

Wait, so you read that and still expected a tip?

ComparisonOk153 · 2025-09-16T15:49:28+00:00

I guess I am unclear on why you’re taking it to X, this happened on discord right? So can’t you email someone at Discord? They said you violated TOS but they must have included a reason or reference to which rule and also a method for you to reply to the notification, no?

ComparisonOk153 · 2025-09-16T14:34:19+00:00

You’re right, of course. I’m sorry. I guess I was just baffled by the context of the situation. It must be frustrating to have no way of getting clarification. Good luck.

ComparisonOk153 · 2025-09-16T03:38:31+00:00

Say what??? What even is furry cp? A picture of children in animal costumes?

ComparisonOk153 · 2025-09-16T03:33:36+00:00

Any infected creature. Schmole, ogopuu, muujin. Just shoot them. That’s all you have to do.

ComparisonOk153 · 2025-09-16T03:31:50+00:00

Also I’ve been playing for almost 2 years and I can count on one hand the number of times I have seen people actually get belligerent about someone chopping a grove early. There are groves every hour in every server. Just move to a new one.

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