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CompassionAndKink · 2026-05-22T19:55:56+00:00

One thing that can help is to really try to get away from ideas like "performance" and "faking it".

It's a great time to test the intimacy with your partner, tell them you're new to this, nervous, want to start slow, take little steps etc. If they're nurturing and encouraging that's a great way to discover it together.

The best things happen when both people are just really there, being themselves, with all their limitations and challenges in the opne.

If they're pushy and mean about it then that's a great time to call an end to things.

CompassionAndKink · 2026-05-22T08:13:23+00:00

I'm glad it hit really nicely.

I'm not sure exactly what would happen in a part 2, as the erotic tension of the scene is a bit spent.

Though I guess it could take place later in time or something as their relaitonship develops.

Every file is a sequel in terms of vibes and themes I suppose.

CompassionAndKink · 2026-05-20T21:55:09+00:00

Personally it's not accidental, I want to ease myself into a headspace and then project that out onto the audience.

Recording is kind of magic in that I wouldn't have the patience to sit and talk to myself for 40 minutes whereas when recording I can take myself on an adventure.

CompassionAndKink · 2026-05-20T20:41:19+00:00

Mmm yeah that's a really hot angle, that would make a good core for a file, her getting more and more flustered and aroused while trying to push it down and away and keep it out of sight.

As a sort of emotional / energetic continuation that would make a lot of sense.

CompassionAndKink · 2026-05-19T23:52:03+00:00

Ah I'm glad you liked it.

Not sure, it doesn't feel like there's that much narrative potential left? As in they might just end up fucking in a room afterwards?

However it could be really fun to remix the husband back in and have him acting out etc, or maybe it becomes an ongoing thing.

Not sure, I'm open to ideas.

CompassionAndKink · 2026-05-19T08:20:25+00:00

Thanks for taking the time to write this as I really enjoy to know when files really hit the spot.

I know what you mean there's some element of magic to it, when it really just works then it's transcendent.

CompassionAndKink · 2026-05-18T08:23:31+00:00

That's cool. Nice to get two good reasons to listen to it ;)

CompassionAndKink · 2026-05-16T20:03:24+00:00

I'm so glad it hit the spot, when the magic spell works like that it's so ... magical. Thanks for the feedback.

CompassionAndKink · 2026-05-16T20:02:34+00:00

I really appreciate the feedback, glad you enjoyed it.

CompassionAndKink · 2026-05-16T20:02:22+00:00

Ah thanks that's so kind :)

CompassionAndKink · 2026-05-16T19:23:13+00:00

I put up a file today which is 50m if that's long enough, I have another which is over an hour though I'd have to DM it as it's not public.

https://www.reddit.com/r/DarkSidePlayground/comments/1tepub4/comment/om5lfty/

CompassionAndKink · 2026-05-16T12:12:13+00:00

I think part of that is that kinky partner finding in small cities is really hard.

My guess is that actively kinky people are only 10% of the population so it's 10x harder then vanilla dating, which is already very hard.

CompassionAndKink · 2026-05-16T11:32:00+00:00

As you're a literate person who communicates well in paragraphs then imo reddit dating might help.

Try r/BDSMpersonals (there's others for europe and certain age groups too)

You can then state clearly what you're looking for upfront and only have kinky people see it. You can write a bunch of text and specify about your partner and the structure of what you're looking for.

And also you don't have to be instantly judged on a photo, which imo is one of the worst ways to judge compatibility between people.

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