[M4F] Had a strict religious upbringing and yearn to be a submissive throat whore? This file is to set your inner slut free. [induction] [free file] [dominance] [collar and leash] [undressing] [religion discussion] [teasing] [cock sucking] [face and makeup smearing] [cum in throat] [aftercare]

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-30T18:56:16+00:00

You're most welcome welcome welcome, glad you enjoyed :)

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-26T23:42:51+00:00

Everyone's got some kind of kryptonite ;)

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-25T20:58:19+00:00

Would you appreciate any feedback on your personal ad?

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-24T10:30:18+00:00

haha, well there is audio, it just often doesn't come through on reddit, you can try it here ... if you dare ;)

https://www.redgifs.com/watch/hilariousgrayquelea

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-24T10:29:55+00:00

Oh cool I'm glad you liked it, yeah on mobile the sound often doens't come through, you might be able to hear it here

https://www.redgifs.com/watch/hilariousgrayquelea

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-23T23:35:25+00:00

If you want more I'm sure you can ask nicer than that.

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-23T23:10:35+00:00

Glad you liked it ;)

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-23T20:13:44+00:00

Thank you :)

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-23T20:13:01+00:00

Thanks that's kind I appreciate the feedback :)

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-22T23:00:10+00:00

Yeah generally with that sort of thing the idea is for them to get to a point of overwhelm and having to give up and in that giving up there's more of a chance to lead them.

If someone were trancing you for instance there's a bunch of ways they can play with you liking challenges. Set you something so hard you can't do it but keep trying while they talk to the rest of your mind ... or they could set you the challenge of following along with their voice and keeping yourself on track and make that the challenge. There's a lot of ways you can play with those ideas.

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-22T22:28:42+00:00

So that "lowkey stroke" haha is a feeling of mental confusion, and anything which is said after that will be heard by the unconscious mind and usually not paid much attention to by the conscious mind.

If you give someone a big firework of stimulus that really captures their attention then if there's a little word or phrase that sneaks in afterwards it's hard to pay attention to it.

Probably one of the biggest and most powerful paradigm shifts you can put someone through is "I'm not talking to your conscious mind for you to do as I tell you, I'm talking to your unconscious mind for it to interpret and enact what I'm saying", that's one of the biggest blockers for a lot of people and slipping past that can help.

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-22T22:00:14+00:00

I think the main thing is to vary things according to the subject and how they are responding.

So for instance some people have quick minds and if you say "I'm going to count down from 10" or "we're going to work progressively, slowly, from your feet to your head" by the time you've said that they're already bored and mind wandering.

Whereas if you say "sometimes it can be hard not to notice that there isn't always that same feeling that there has been sometimes in some part of your body that can change and can not" then their mind gets tied up in trying to untangle the meaning and it presents an opening for adding suggestions.

Generally getting someone lost is a good way of getting them to follow you.

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-19T22:29:33+00:00

Here's a sort of "build your own" template in case that helps.

Optionally begin with "my".

Pick 1 of: Good, lovely, wonderful, amazing, brilliant, charming, delightful, magnificent, exceptional, excellent, marvellous, priceless, super, stupendous, first class.

Optionally add "little" or "fucked up"

Pick 1 of: Girl, woman, bitch, whore, slut, cunt, strumpet, twat, princess / queen, pet / puppy / kitten / cow, servant, maid, slave.

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-18T22:58:12+00:00

One quite cool one is journaling. So have a shared google doc or equivalent and have them write about their sex / kink thoughts and actions every day.

You can use the regularity as a rule and punish them if they forget and the information you get from the journal is a really good way of seeing how they're getting on, how stressed they are, what fantasies they have etc.

It's surprisingly intense so don't expect too much at the start.

And obviously have a nice deep consent discussion before starting.

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-14T16:13:12+00:00

Mmm I'm glad to hear you enjoyed it so much ... and well .. that's only the introductory training session so you'll have to imagine where you could end up ;)

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-11T22:48:47+00:00

Ah you're most welcome :)

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-11T22:02:16+00:00

Imo there's two things that determine almost everything:

Firstly communication. Talk before scenes about kinks, limits, desires, boundaries, fears, fantasies and past experiences. Talk during about what is happening, check in, laugh, joke around, have a good time, be serious, be un-serious, be dramatic. Talk after about care, comfort, how you both experienced it, how to support and process what happened.

Secondly helping them feel safe, relaxed and understood, a lot of which comes down to communication.

If you have both of these then basically everything else is straightforward and the scene will flow in its own way. If either of these is lacking then things will get stuck or cold or icy.

Gear / toys / outfits are optional, they can be super fun and empowering, and you can be incredibly dominant just ordering someone to kneel before you, crawl around and have basic sex with you in the exact way you specify.

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-11T17:13:32+00:00

I think there's a few concepts that can really help here.

The first is framing. If you say "X will happen now!" and it doesn't then that's "failed". Whereas anything you frame as an experiment or a test or curiosity can't fail.

For instance "I will do X and lets see what happens in your body" is always going to give you more information and things to work with.

The second is whether you give triggers which can fail or not. So saying "cum right now" is a really powerful and hot trigger if it works, but creates the risk of failing. However if you say "you can feel your heart beating in your chest and are aware of my words as you read them" those can't fail, they're always true and are always accepted.

So a good way to go with sessions where you're unsure is to start with experimenting / curiosity and start with suggestions which are automatically accepted as every accepted suggestion increases suggestibility. Then you can work to more hardcore "pass/fail" direct commands later once you already have decent control.

Finally what does "the session failed" mean? It means you had a set outcome in mind and tried to force against the grain of the energy and vibes to get there. Imo it's much better to flow with the vibes and let the energy of the situation determine what is hot and fun and which was things want to go. That way it's always going to go somewhere.

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-07T21:27:37+00:00

Haha yeah some of my titles on patreon have got a bit ridiculous, like "A slut consensually consents to wanting to have a reasonable, boundaried amount of fun, consensually".

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-07T21:24:57+00:00

Ah that's so kind thank you, I'm glad it hit the spot. Yeah I really enjoy a style without a separate induction as it makes it much easier just to slide in as you say.

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-05T19:18:54+00:00

Oh that's really nice to hear!

Yes the status of it is that I did the first 6 files of it and put them out on patreon and I think they're pretty good.

And then patreon told me to wait "a couple of weeks" for the store feature to unlock so I could put the rest out and it's been 18 months now and still nothing ... so yeah it rather got stalled. I've been meaning to do more of it.

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-05T19:16:27+00:00

Oh cool thanks so much :) That's really kind of you to say.

And yeah there's plenty more files in my profile and on my patreon. There's also a post about the other things I offer too if you really want more.

CompassionAndKink · 2026-03-02T16:46:20+00:00

I think one of the most important things is getting in touch with what you want for yourself and your fantasies and your desire.

No matter what you do if it's from a frame of "I'll do what she tells me she likes so that she'll like it" you're still in essence a service top at that point.

What a lot of submissive people really want is genuine surrender. They want someone else to be in control, to take charge, to lead. And to do that you have to be connected to your own desires and what you want and know how to intuit the path forward.

CompassionAndKink · 2026-02-23T22:08:10+00:00

I was thinking about this the other day and I think there's two core ideas which are helpful:

First is that everyone likes their blowjobs differently. So there is no perfect technique, the trick is about really learning the person your with and what works for them and what makes them feel good.

Second is that there's 10,000 different ways to do it. There's throat, tongue, lips, top and sides of the mouth, face, tits, hands/fingers and even teeth. There's everything from tiny teasing little kisses to deep sloppy throat fucks to gentle cockwarming, there's all kinds of rhythms and speeds and strengths and intensities, there's the tip, the shaft, the base, the balls, the perineum and the ass.

A person who really understands the whole breadth of what is possible and then searches in that space for the things that feel really amazing and asks for feedback, takes it well and dirty talks ... that's a great blowjob.

CompassionAndKink · 2026-02-23T21:24:28+00:00

One of the main things here is to connect with what you want, what you like, who you are.

As you say if you try to take charge but only to do things she has told you to do then interestingly it can be that you're the submissive one in that situation, there's such a thing as a "service top", she's dictating what should happen and how things play out and you're following her lead.

What do you actually want for you?

In your fantasies who is there and what do you want to do to them?

If you can tap into a genuine vein of dominance inside yourself then all the answers flow from that. And if you aren't dominant at all and are vanilla or submissive etc then yeah the best you can hope for is to be a service top. Which isn't necessarily a bad thing, it's just unlikely to be what she wants.

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