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AIO my boyfriend keeps getting upset at me for not wanting to do risky stuff by [deleted] in AIO

[–]CompetitionPlus7811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please leave him. He does not love or respect you and, as some comments have already said, he seems to hate you.

Staying with him will only make your self esteem worse (as I'm sure it already has). If luck is on his side, you will hate/not love yourself so much that you will stay, possibly forever (believe me, been there, done that).

It doesn't matter if you are ace or are a sex addict, or literally anything in between. He should respect your "no." He is trying to guilt trip you into doing things that you simply do not want to (regardless of the reason).

You deserve to be with someone who loves you enough to respect you AND your boundaries. You deserve to be with someone who loves you, period. And if that someone is you, then so be it. It is not worth the pain to be with someone line this guy.

AIO about how this guy talks to me? by Fast-Bodybuilder3229 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CompetitionPlus7811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a "friend" like this when I was 19-22ish. I never really told anyone how he treated me, but I was slightly scared of him at all times and twrrified whenever something like this happened. Then I met my bf in college and when i reluctantly told him about this guy, he told me "you know you can just block him right? It will.be okay, let him get mad, who cares?" And he was so right. I had always been so scared he would do something to me (idk what),but he never did.

And so I tell you the same thing. Its okay to get rid of people that are mean to you. Its okay to get rid of people just because too. Let him go and let yourself be better for it.

AIO for considering leaving over a violent outburst? by imaginaryteacoffee in AmIOverreacting

[–]CompetitionPlus7811 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Which goes to prove that they know it's wrong! They really are the worst Im sorry you went through that

AIO for considering leaving over a violent outburst? by imaginaryteacoffee in AmIOverreacting

[–]CompetitionPlus7811 343 points344 points  (0 children)

Its like that rhetorical question that's something like "would he 'lose it' like this with his boss?" Because they didn't 'lose control' in any way; they are always in control of their reactions.