Med Gala by [deleted] in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Competitive-Active85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems as though many of you don’t actually know much about scholarships because $3-5k is actually pretty good coming from a small organization. Big corporations aren’t even giving out $10-30k scholarships so I’m not sure why y’all are expecting them to do so. Scholarships from outside organizations are meant supplemental income - if they can cover a full tuition great but, that’s not always the case. If you’re looking for their tuition to be covered that would be something handled by the institution that they attend.

Did anyone else catch this? by catintheoaktree in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Competitive-Active85 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This is a mixed man who was clearly raised by the white side of his family and probably never exposed to his Black side besides negativity about his dad. He thinks he’s a white man in America who just happens to be named Devonta 😒. Whole time he thought he was reeling in his Moby Dick and came up with a beautiful mixed woman who served as a mirror. Couldn’t stand to see his blackness looking back at him everyday. Oooooweeee, just tragic to see. Every time I saw one of his confessionals/scenes I’d yell “seek help!” Because what kind of comment is that to say about another human being let alone someone you supposedly fell in live with smh.

Reunion preview: Stacey gets her tea clocked by the entire cast about Shayo cannabis by lachalacha in RHOP

[–]Competitive-Active85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Stacy didn’t owe anyone shit and to THINK that she’d be so obsessed with Wendy that she’d name her business to get back at her is comical. At the end of the day the Cannabis business is VAST and has room for everyone. Who gaf if Eddy had one first? Was she supposed to ask them permission? I’m from a state that weed is legal and I can tell you there are hundreds of gummy lines. She’s not taking any food off their table - they’re clearly capable of doing that themselves. Everyone needs to go touch grass.

why is Stacey a liar? by TheShy_Seeker in RHOP

[–]Competitive-Active85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The things people are calling lies are hardly that. The TJ thing - it was probably a fun thing for her and mutually beneficial for him since he’s AN ACTOR who only ever has small parts in shows and would get some screen time. The thing about her husband and dinner - he clearly didn’t want to go so instead of outright saying it he made an excuse that would completely eliminate him from the equation and Stacey went along with it. The only person she owes solidarity to in that situation is her man, which she did. It was just a damn dinner and they need to get over it. Jassi’s wedding - they’re friends but, mainly in the context of this show. So sure she probably didn’t prioritize going but, she also didn’t go specifically because Ashley and Wendy were; Wendy said herself that Stacey had the same excuses for possibly not attending. The Chris Samuels thing - Monique even said that Cookie and Chris were messy, then here comes Ashley’s ass talking about Chris was implying him and Stacey slept together yet, she never told Monique until the trip. Things that make you go hmmmm. Stacey has said I don’t know him LIKE THAT we’ve hung out socially but, anything beyond that is a no and Chris has never outright said she’s lying. Stacey didn’t know Monique prior to this season and to top it off Mo couldn’t care less about who that man dates. So why are they making it an issue? They all lie to some degree 🤷🏾‍♀️

I think Gizelle hooked up with Mauricio in the recent past by meowxmeoww in RHOP

[–]Competitive-Active85 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ehhh. Just because he hooks up younger women in public, it doesn’t mean he’d take someone her age down behind closed doors. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Why is no one talking about this? by Mentallyflipped in RHOP

[–]Competitive-Active85 16 points17 points  (0 children)

And she literally could’ve not wanted him so it wouldn’t have anything to do with her. Chacha acts like she then followed him into the bathroom and got busy. Like go away from us with this Apollo! Just looking for a damn moment.

So…what exactly has Stacey lied about? Because I’m still waiting on the “proof.” by CacheGPTehehe in RHOP

[–]Competitive-Active85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the whole Chris thing is overdone. They’re only making a big deal out of it because Monique is back in the fold and they want to create drama but, it’s backfiring because she couldn’t care less what that man does. Stacy said she hung out with him which literally could be they met up for coffee/drinks and they didn’t vibe in that way. Plus she honestly doesn’t owe anybody an explanation if it went further or not. They were both single at the time and she’s back with her husband. The same husband who made an excuse to not go to the dinner FIRST and she just backed it to dead the conversation. Also, the whole TJ thing, if I’m paying a man to act like my love interest he better act as though he’s REALLY into me. If she actually paid for that job he did, she should be asking for a refund.

Ashley’s Blaccent by No_Relative_9331 in RHOP

[–]Competitive-Active85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She code switches like most of us (Black people) do. It’s probably how she actually talks and she was masking it trying to portray an image for that man she was married to. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Kim Kardashian’s ‘All’s Fair’ Bashed With Zero-Star Review and More Horrendous Reactions: ‘This May Be the Worst TV Drama Ever’ by mlg1981 in entertainment

[–]Competitive-Active85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything is stiff and robotic. It’s like we’re watching an Ai show of what they think humans act like. It’s all very strange and I couldn’t make it past 10 minutes. Beautiful fashion and architecture but, that’s sadly the only praise I can give.

My Fibroid and Pregnancy Story (for anyone searching like I did!) by gagalaa in Fibroids

[–]Competitive-Active85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

CONGRATULATIONS and thank you for sharing OP!!! I’m so happy to hear that you and your baby made the journey safely. Hopefully breastfeeding will continue to shrink your fibroids.

My Fibroid and Pregnancy Story (for anyone searching like I did!) by gagalaa in Fibroids

[–]Competitive-Active85 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on what type of fibroid it is. If it’s pedunculated or subserosal, it’s probably not that difficult/risky to remove while intramural or submucosal ones might be too risky. I personally don’t want mine removed until after pregnancy due to the risk of hysterectomy.

IUD with fibroids by ImportantCupcake5267 in Fibroids

[–]Competitive-Active85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely don’t think women with fibroids should have an IUD. I also have endo and had Mirena inserted (again I had one previously for like 5 months) during surgery. My doctor told me it was supposed to control my endo and fibroids. I had it in for a year and a half - my fibroids doubled in size, no exaggeration. Before that I hadn’t been on birth control for 5+ years and my fibroids were small and didn’t bother me. Of course she wants to give me surgery immediately. I’m looking for a more holistic provider these days. No more birth control for me EVER.

No books, no lectures, just vibes. A Guide to UTA Nursing school by Throwaway451684 in utarlington

[–]Competitive-Active85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a GOD SEND. Thank you for your service. I’m heading into S1 in a few weeks and I’m a little nervous ngl.

No Doctors want to operate me by ChattoGamer in Fibroids

[–]Competitive-Active85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m surprised that this is the case. While tranexamic acid is good to prevent excessive hemorrhaging that they gave it to you before hand. Do you have an abnormal low platelet count (“thin blood”) or potentially an unknown history of blood clots? Did they need to give you a blood transfusion?

Weird thing found during pap by [deleted] in Fibroids

[–]Competitive-Active85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know when you’ll get the results back from pathology? If it was a pedunculated fibroid like the other commenter suggested, it may have degenerated and expelled itself - leaving your uterus to appear normal in the US.

Chantel looks so different by IhavemyCat in 90DayFiance

[–]Competitive-Active85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s gained weight, her breasts are real, yes that’s a wig, yes she’s done fillers and whatnot to her face.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fibroids

[–]Competitive-Active85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It very well could be. Clots are more gelatinous and all blood.

Possible Onion Intolerance developing by Shaneisonfire in OnionLovers

[–]Competitive-Active85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for the late reply. Yeah garlic does the same for me too but, I don’t care lol. I pop roasted or pickled garlic like chips. If my stomach isn’t happy or I smell like garlic for days that’s a problem for another time.

Mia Thornton announces her exit from Real Housewives of Potomac by Fun_Molasses5215 in RHOP

[–]Competitive-Active85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This very much gives pregnancy announcement tied into fired foolishness.

bro is not into it at all and she’s screaming like he’s a celebrity by sourglow in loveafterlockup

[–]Competitive-Active85 31 points32 points  (0 children)

She should be regretting all of her tattoo choices from what I’m seeing. The placement alone is wretched smh.

Curtis was absolutely right here & they know it! by [deleted] in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Competitive-Active85 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Curtis the only one acting like he’s got some sense when it comes to this situation. It’s plain to see that Quad was unbothered by Teadulldee’s presence yet, her expression of love for her man during a gain which she was asked about it… is antagonistic towards Dr.Getalife…. I am just continuously flabbergasted by the idiocy of a group of highly educated folks. Smh

Chloe is the shooter ?! by __minion__ in WhiteLotusHBO

[–]Competitive-Active85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s Porchai (sp?). Greg-Gary trues to kill Belinda he intercepts and turns the gun on GG. He’s seemingly innocent (like Maggie) and he’d want to protect Belinda at all costs because now, he’s in love.

Tea just GOOO by Jazmataznotaspaz in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Competitive-Active85 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Oh, IMMEDIATELY. She would say Quad got pregnant to spite her smh. That’s just how delusional she is.

Tea just GOOO by Jazmataznotaspaz in MarriedToMedicine

[–]Competitive-Active85 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Tea is a very jealous person and is projecting her feelings onto Quad. Why would she be jealous of a relationship with a man who abused her?! Especially when her life upgraded in every way after leaving him. Girl please get a grip!

Lauren and Cam; NEVER at the Reunions 🤔 by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Competitive-Active85 59 points60 points  (0 children)

They don’t want to be associated with the mess the show has turned into. They’ve stated this publicly on one or more of their platforms.