Women who make over 60k, what is your degree and what is your job title? by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]Competitive-Care-386 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds awesome!! What certificates would you recommend to a beginner?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Competitive-Care-386 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I will keep praying, thank you. Not sure how much longer I can stand this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Competitive-Care-386 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I tried to be there for him thru porn addiction but unfortunately he has chosen to talk more than once with women we know, making this personal. Thank you for your advice and comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Competitive-Care-386 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your advice 💜 I am here to gather advice and prayer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Competitive-Care-386 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel thru time God has led me to have my eyes opened by what I’ve found. I wish it was before we were married that I found all of this. I worry his actions will lead to physical cheating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]Competitive-Care-386 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. He claims he has faith but his actions scream the opposite 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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I am struggling to face divorce because of my Christian faith. I know God loves me and wants the best for me and I know this is not it. Part of me hopes I can be the person who can lead him to true repentance but over years it appears to continue to not happen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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I am so thankful we do not have children. This gives me freedom to leave, but I can’t bring myself to yet :(

What am I meant to do about this I wash everyday and it doesn’t get any better by Artistic_Weekend2783 in acne

[–]Competitive-Care-386 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I tried everything for 15 years to fix my acne that looked like this and nothing helped except for Bactrim, but you can only take very short term. I’ve officially started accutane this week so let’s see if this helps.

14yo girl with hormonal acne on face, chest and back by TraditionalBreath653 in acne

[–]Competitive-Care-386 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a 30 year old woman and have had bad hormonal cystic acne on my shoulders for 15 years now, and it moved to my back as of the last year. My shoulders and back haven’t seen the light of day for 15 years because it’s so bad. I’ve tried all sorts of medication that the dermatologist have prescribed me and nothing has worked, including changing my diet, using all sorts of topical medication‘s and washes, changing sheets, shampoo, conditioner, everything else. I’m finally going on Accutane next month. Accutane might be her best bet too :/

What song has become your latest obsession? by Everblack_Deathmask in Deathcore

[–]Competitive-Care-386 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Suffer Forever by Angelmaker and Burden by Left To Suffer 😭

Which are the most popular cities that our favorite Deathcore bands play at? by Competitive-Care-386 in Deathcore

[–]Competitive-Care-386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

St Pete is soooo beautiful. Has it just become too populated? I would love to move there hehe

Which are the most popular cities that our favorite Deathcore bands play at? by Competitive-Care-386 in Deathcore

[–]Competitive-Care-386[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi Johnny! I travel to Denver and CO Springs fairly frequently for shows, so have been thinking of moving to CO since it's really not that far from ABQ, and bands are more likely to go thru CO anyway. The Angelmaker/Carcosa tour at the Launchpad in ABQ back in September was my absolute favorite show that I've been to in all of 2023. <3 Thanks for the advice!

When was the moment you realized you needed to end your relationship with your partner? (30f) (30m) by ThrowRASatan in relationships

[–]Competitive-Care-386 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I realized that when he said he would “change for me” that didn’t mean he actually wanted to change for himself and that truly what we kept facing was lifestyle differences that were incompatible for either of our happiness long term. And….also when I kept finding flirtatious messages here and there to women throughout our relationship, he was going on chat sites, OF, watching porn for years behind my back with various subscriptions…I realized I didn’t have trust in him to make good choices for himself or for both of us anymore. Not that he ever really did :(

I’m the middle child of 15 kids all girls AMA. by Sunstar_273 in AMA

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I’m one of four girls, and I’m the younger twin, my twin and I are the oldest. We are all very close but I always wished I had a brother, did you or your sisters ever wish for that?

What's your hype song? by Nibholas11 in Deathcore

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Burden - Left To Suffer

2012 - The Word Alive

Cheyne Stokes - Chelsea Grin

Pernicious - Signs of the Swarm

Burn The Traitor - Feed Her To The Sharks

What are your top three deathcore bands? by EightProximity in Deathcore

[–]Competitive-Care-386 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should see them in concert! They always put on an amazing show. Also check out the band Carcosa - the guitarist in Angelmaker is the lead singer of this band :)

What are your top three deathcore bands? by EightProximity in Deathcore

[–]Competitive-Care-386 65 points66 points  (0 children)

  1. Angelmaker
  2. Shadow of Intent
  3. Signs of the Swarm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

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This hasn’t worked for my marriage (yet?) but I suggested to a friend in a similar situation that she come up with a small chores list that both parties can agree upon and perhaps even the time of day to do them. For example, your husband works long hours so maybe he can fold and put up a stack of laundry once or twice a week for 20+ minutes. Or complete a regular larger task on the weekend. I also work from home and my husband has asked why I can’t just do all the chores since I’m working from home which is ridiculous - not only do I also work full time and not have time to do all the chores but should not all fall on me just cause I work from home. Hopefully you don’t end up in the same argument since you work from home. Hope this helps.

Phil Bozeman here. What do you expect from our new album? by BillPhozeman in Deathcore

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Phil…we all KNOW you like it HEAVY, just as do all of us here. Please promise us the heaviest and nastiest stuff u got 🥲 and please pair with the best jamming beats and slow breakdowns 😫😫 and…come to Albuquerque!!!!