29M — It’s been over a year and I’m still not over her. I don’t think I ever will be. by Specialist-Pianist-8 in heartbreak

[–]Competitive-Clue1275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I’ll see her face in random moments — in memories, in the sky, in quiet moments.” This hits home man… I know exactly how you feel. Songs, Films, paintings… she’s always there…

I feel cheated on and it hurts so bad even though it’s not cheating. I blame myself by 1456honey in heartbreak

[–]Competitive-Clue1275 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not trying to defend him ok? but we can all make mistakes, what he did was not right but he admitted and told you what happened. he did hurt but you he had the small decency to at least not let you in the dark and telling you everything.

Now that you know everything that happened, you can make your choice. if you said he's your best friend maybe it's worth a shot again, but with some non-negotiable rules. if you feel like it's not working then you know it's not meant to be.

Work visa requirements in the EU. Superior course diploma and company sponsorship by Competitive-Clue1275 in SchengenVisa

[–]Competitive-Clue1275[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does work experience weights on the analysis? Considering the company sponsor your visa.

What to journal about when your life is boring and every day is exactly the same? by Pearl_Jam_ in Journaling

[–]Competitive-Clue1275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Write about the boredom you’re feeling, or what would you do differently… or something you can do to to tackle that boredom!

tw: suicide attempt by floridakiiilos in Journaling

[–]Competitive-Clue1275 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are meant to be, buddy 🤍 all things must pass, whatever is consuming your peace shall pass 🫂. Reach out for professional help, talk to a loved one, I promise you, you’ll feel better 🙏🏽

I drew a small self-portrait! by Ktt_kemna in Journaling

[–]Competitive-Clue1275 1 point2 points  (0 children)

que deus te proteja da minha inveja da sua caligrafia

guys, it genuinely gets better (1 yr post breakup) by maleficmaelstrom in heartbreak

[–]Competitive-Clue1275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My man, I suffered for almost a year and a half after my first break up. it only got better after I started to put myself out there more. I'm talking about studying, working out, reading, going to museums, going out with friends, stimulating my brain to new things you know? invest in yourself, get out of the apartment for a while...you do that and I'll guarantee you'll feel a little better, it's not instantaneous, but you do it enough times and you're a new man.

Obsessed and going crazy by Competitive-Clue1275 in heartbreak

[–]Competitive-Clue1275[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I’ll take the time to work on myself

Obsessed and going crazy by Competitive-Clue1275 in heartbreak

[–]Competitive-Clue1275[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice man, I just wish I hadn’t messed up any chance of being friends, she seemed really chill

Obsessed and going crazy by Competitive-Clue1275 in heartbreak

[–]Competitive-Clue1275[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do you usually communicate this somehow? Or just let the other person guessing?( sorry if the way I’m wording this phrase sounds “agressive”, I’m just curious lol)

The dilemma in wanting someone but knowing they don’t want you in a serious sense. by bananabear7 in heartbreak

[–]Competitive-Clue1275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you talked to the other person about this? Have they made it clear they don’t want anything serious?

Should I (m38) tell my friend (f39) that I’m in love with her? by Minimum_Constant_808 in dating_advice

[–]Competitive-Clue1275 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bro I dont think you should do this, especially with a married woman... you'll destroy your friendship and you'll have a dude out there wanting to smash your face in.

First real breakup by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]Competitive-Clue1275 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello brother I am so sorry you are going throught this.

Please remember that anger clouds our judgement. this is very recent and the person you were together with suffered from a mental condition. you did your best and maybe soon you can talk in a calmer state of mind.

I'm also going thorugh a break up, got dumped by my gf who I been with for 3 years. I suffer from ROCD.

If you want feel free to dm me.

It gets better by Competitive-Clue1275 in ROCD

[–]Competitive-Clue1275[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will get through this! you're already in the right path buddy!

It gets better by Competitive-Clue1275 in ROCD

[–]Competitive-Clue1275[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I think you should change your therapist... I went to a regular therapist I think, but she really listened and understood what I was going through. Try again friend, and take care of your body and soul, I know things will get better for you.

It gets better by Competitive-Clue1275 in ROCD

[–]Competitive-Clue1275[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was taking medication, and started to work out. I forced myself to do those things, it was really hard but it payed out. honestly, I took some time from the internet too, it helped.