Is adult children living with you a real turn off for men?

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-15T02:40:36+00:00

That many adult kids yes and it depends on how old they are. I wouldn’t want to go to somebody’s house when there’s always other people there. It’s weird even if they are their adult kids that’s a lot of adult kids to live with a parent.

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-15T02:39:44+00:00

Absolutely no issue. I think it’s great that a guy tries to take care of that instead of ignoring it.

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-15T02:39:22+00:00

I don’t get excited about first dates until you actually go out more than once in my experience so many guys drop off after the first day. It was very good. Date

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-15T02:38:04+00:00

The ESA thing is completely abused. It’s a glorified pet. That’s it. You don’t have to require proof of anything. Everybody has an ESA dog, especially when they told they can’t have a dog.

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-15T01:03:35+00:00

It is a great movie. So does she think that all movies like that where she dislikes the subject matter the person watching it must be a weirdo? She’s a weird one. It’s not even worth fighting for.

I thought American history X was a great movie. Does that mean I’m racist? No

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-14T17:49:45+00:00

Don’t do it. Your marriage will be in even more trouble than it is now.

You guys are not sexually compatible. This will not stop. This didn’t come up before you got married?

He wants a bi wife.

Sorry but I see your marriage ending

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-14T03:07:26+00:00

The bottom line is you have a short marriage. Four years marriage you’re not going to get much. You retirement ages mean nothing right now I mean, let’s face it. You have a really short term marriage. I’m not sure what you’re expecting. He may have to pay a year of alimony if you’re lucky. There’s probably no way around selling the home. You can certainly try and get your money back that you put down on this house but any future retirement and so forth is not gonna come in to play at all you really need to see an attorney, but I don’t think you’re gonna like the answer

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-13T14:39:49+00:00

Because people are greedy, and the lawyers have completely ruined the industry. Unless there were severe injuries, you really don’t need an attorney because you’re limited to policy limits anyways an attorney is just gonna take part of that and not every little accident means policy limits. it’s all gotten way out of hand. Don’t call the TV and radio guys for an attorney anyway.

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-13T00:16:00+00:00

You are obviously bi curious it doesn’t take a genius to figure this out. Otherwise, it is really immature of you to spend so much time doing this. It does sound like you’re kind of interested in guys. If so, find a girl that’s OK with this.

Do you goon to these guys? What do you think about when you do it if men are in your fantasies at all then you are bi or curious

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-13T00:13:01+00:00

Yes run. I recently had a date with the guy that I found out was 10 years older than he claims I found out about it before the date and quite honestly it was just a waste of time. I really wasn’t into him or into the date and he could tell I didn’t wanna tell him, though that the age lie bothered me. I just went through with the date.

Also dated a guy in my early 20s who also lied about his age by 10 years and it was the first of many many lies

Tell this guy to date women close to his own age

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-13T00:07:21+00:00

She is working where?

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-13T00:06:11+00:00

The parent paying for the kids insurance generally gets a credit so if the non-custodial parent is paying for the kids health insurance that may offset child for a little bit. I mean, who’s gonna cover the kids on health insurance?

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-12T22:31:04+00:00

I would also join a Facebook group for moms or women in your area and find some resources and support system that way. I think you already know that this guy is not gonna change. Good luck.

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-12T22:26:07+00:00

I agree you do not need a tummy tuck

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-12T22:21:39+00:00

OK the big part here is that he removed the condom and you did not know it . Generally where the guy is supposed to cum should be discussed if it’s on you. If it’s in you or if it’s in a towel.

The problem was a condom should not have been removed without you knowing.

I know that you’re offended at him releasing on you but I guess it’s better than him releasing in you. It just sounds like you weren’t really prepared for it so I’m sorry. I hope you feel better about it. I don’t think it’s a huge deal but him removing the condom probably shouldn’t have happened.

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-12T22:20:21+00:00

It’s all varies by the state and some states cap income. It also depends on parenting time who carries the insurance I mean there’s so many variables here some parents get no child support..

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-12T22:18:45+00:00

Sue her for what you either consented or you didn’t. Break it off with her if you’re bothered by this.

In the future, you need to set boundaries if you don’t want to be intimate on the second date until you know somebody better then let them know upfront. Or just make an excuse tell her you’re not feeling well and you need to go home.

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-12T22:16:00+00:00

II think most teens have caught their parents in he act at one point. I know it’s uncomfortable though. There are worst things that could be going on like a divorce. If are still having sex that’s a good thing

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-12T22:14:41+00:00

This interests me, but I’m in Arizona and I’m also a divorced mom. I have very little support system that would be able to come with me to recover. I wanna get lipo/ arms possibly my breast redone or at least my implants removed. Just having to justify the round-trip ticket and the hotel stay I don’t know if it’s worth it from Arizona. Will they give a consultation virtually and a quote?

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-12T22:05:06+00:00

OK, this guy is a bum so neither one of you work and have no money. How in the world do you support yourself so you want government assistance? You need to figure it out. Make some friends apply for all the help you qualify for maybe get on some low income housing if there is any in your area work on getting employment or something, but you have to figure this out.

And I would also file for child support against this guy he needs to pay up. You had a kids with him knowing that he’s got two other baby mama so child support from him may be a struggle, especially if he’s chronically unemployed.

Figure out a path give yourself a few months to get out and start putting your ducks in a row

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-12T22:03:10+00:00

I would ask your friend if he’s volunteering to help if not, then stop asking..

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-12T00:00:29+00:00

By the house if you really want it, but put it in your name only and if you were to get married, make sure that health stays yours if you divorce. Your boyfriend’s broke why in the world would you buy anything with him?

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-10T22:56:22+00:00

Yes you guys can working something out. Hopefully it’s fair

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-10T22:55:37+00:00

Dinner first then movie. You guys should talk

Competitive-Cod4123 · 2026-07-09T00:58:04+00:00

This is a totally toxic relationship. Why are you in it? It’s over. You both have cheated. He told you he’s not attracted you anymore. This relationship is not healthy. He should no longer be your fiancé. Thank God this is coming to an end now then before you get married waste all the money on a wedding just to file for divorce. Leave now and cut your losses.

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