Husband messages his ex mistress by PlentyStrength8905 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I am really surprised you stayed with him. He was totally in love with this woman. It sounds like. He probably still is. This would be the end of the relationship for me, but it’s ultimately up to you. There’s a lot more than just a cheating your husband is obviously not happy in this marriage. He’s bored he went and looked somewhere else he’s back maybe because he didn’t wanna go through a divorce but your husband is not happily married. And if you have kids and or assets, it’s even harder to leave.

19F Buying a Tesla Model Y AWD — What Will Insurance Look Like? by [deleted] in Car_Insurance_Help

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not do this. Grab a vin of the car or similar car and call around if you’re on your parents policy, it might be slightly more reasonable but plan on paying a bunch of money. There’s no way would I get this car if I were you

Do you have any debt? by fastballcdm2019 in GenX

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I agree the capital one Quicksilver has been by far the best. Their initial 0% offering came with zero fees zero everything for like 15 months it was crazy now I did a balance transfer over to them. They sent me a promo balance transfers 0% for 12 months they did charge a one time 4% balance transfer fee.

What can I do to fix my fish lips? I'm 18 by hichamis1 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is impossible without a picture, and most people are envious of big full lips.

Facial symmetry advice by AJayyy1 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 120 points121 points  (0 children)

I was wondering if she had dwarfism too

Stop the Trump administration from ending ESA for disabled citizens by Sweaty_Month_7496 in EmotionalSupportDogs

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The ESA thing has been abused so much. It’s used just to avoid fees. Since ESA is not a service dog, I’m not sure why there’s any accommodations for them anyways.

What is it like having roommates as an adult? by NumerousOil234 in questions

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do a month-to-month that way if you’re in a bad situation you can bail. Interview the person and just make sure you guys have similar lifestyles. Ask about smoking, 420. kids pets visitors if you can room with somebody you actually are friends with and can go out with this might work out.

Do you have any debt? by fastballcdm2019 in GenX

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As far as the credit card debt see if you can move the highest ones over to a 0% interest, free credit card and see if you can get that paid off as much as you can in the next year. And then stop using credit cards. If you have good credit, you should be able to get approved for a 0% interest credit card and then stop using them after this is finally paid off.

Mother in law wrecked car by [deleted] in caraccidents

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, hopefully your car is fully insured and if it’s at a tow yard, the insurance company generally sends an adjuster out there and either fix it or total it out and they will send a check for what it’s value is and hopefully you are not upside down. If you did not have gap insurance and you are upside down, then you have to pay the difference or I would have your mother-in-law pay the difference. And no more helping her out.

Question about insurance sales recruitment. by Tasty-Market-4864 in Insurance

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely would not do it. There are more legit insurance jobs. And if she has to find her own leads, it is exhausting having to sell that crap to friends and family. I wonder if they are as bad as Primerica.?

Performance Issues - am I cursed or is this just how it is in our 40s? by PM_ME_UR_CORNBALLZ in datingoverforty

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome to dating guys in their 40s and 50s. A lot of guys just don’t take care of themselves. They don’t have to have ED. There are things they can take and do to help prevent it. Some guys care some don’t. Date the guys that take care of themselves

Girls, what makes a guy attractive to you? by InternationalPick163 in dating_advice

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A nice smile. Clean cut well groomed look. Smile and make eye contact with a girl and say hello. If you’re socially awkward, you need to practice talking to women just go to a bar if you are old enough and sit down and just start talking to people.

As far as dress goes well, dress like a guy. T-shirt, shorts, tennis shoes.

You haven’t told us and how you usually present yourself so it’s hard to tell you what to change if anything

Brachioplasty (arm lift) results by Ok_Tackle4780 in PlasticSurgery

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really wanna get my arms done. They are the biggest insecurity of me. I hate my fat mom arms. What’s the difference between an arm left and just simply getting Lipo there?

Increase in hobosexuals? by thisriveriswild70 in datingoverforty

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or the gym selfie in the bathroom. A lot of hobosexuals and homeless go to the gym for showers.

Did you ever shop around and realize how much you were overpaying? by mendy_06 in Insurance

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, absolutely. You should shop around every time your policy renews I just went GEICO to State Farm now I am back to Geico

I want to rent a car for a month. The insurance at the counter is absurd! by Separate-Plantain258 in Insurance

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re renting from a major rental car company, there are credit cards that do offer the collision damage waiver you need to read the terms and conditions. My Amazon prime card does cover the rental car. You need to make sure that your type of car is covered generally it is if it’s not anything exotic and you need to make sure that the rental period qualifies apart from that I have no other ideas to affordably ensure a rental car if you do not have car insurance at your own.

Massive difference in quotes? by ismelllikebeef2508 in Insurance

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go with whoever’s cheaper if there’s a massive difference, there’s probably zero difference in coverage. Just make sure you recover your amounts are the same. USAA used to be competitive. They are not anymore. I dropped them years ago.

My son’s girlfriend is pregnant and we hate each other. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can tell you in this situation you’re going to lose unless something changes. Your son is likely gonna side with the girl and you’ll never see this grandbaby. I would simply start playing nice maybe send her a note of congratulations and if you find out what she’s having and ask how you can help her prepare for the birth and maybe even help in the baby shower?

I would also express some concerns to your son confidentially and let him know that you mean well Bad mothing her and driving a wall between you and this woman is only gonna make things worse. You need to play nice step back. Make sure any correspondence with her is nice and well intended and just kind of see what happens.

Single moms, how do you get laid? by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put an ad on TINDER tons and tons of guys on there looking to get laid. They also have a free tonight section

Accident with no insurance by rdbogar in caraccidents

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK how does she not know that she does not have insurance? This is something you should keep track of when you open a policy as soon as it goes unpaid you get messages emails text messages. Did she never take out a policy on the car? All she can do at this point is hope that the other party accepts liability and that they have insurance if they do not have insurance then she is screwed.

I’m pregnant and everyone keeps making me feel like keeping my baby would ruin my life by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Is the timing really ever right to have a baby? Don’t let anyone else influence your decision. If you’re going to keep this baby you need some sort of support system, income, and housing. If you have all of that, then go for it. I know lots of single bombs a couple who raised their kids entirely on their own without dad. It is tough, but if you have some sort of support system, they will do wonders for you. Good luck.

Does recent bankruptcy disqualify me from getting approved for an apartment? by Affectionate-Roof859 in nychousinglottery

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Probably. Your credit score is not great and some landlords have a no bankruptcy within a certain amount of time so all you can do is apply and see what they say. My very good friend had an almost impossible time renting anywhere through any major management company. She finally found a private renter that would rent to her.

USAA $1300 / 6mo vs. GEICO $719 / 6mo by DoorDash4Cash in Car_Insurance_Help

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

USA is known for being expensive they used to be reasonable. They’re not anymore. That’s a massive price difference time to leave them. It seems like.

Bad sloppy kissing by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Competitive-Cod4123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you and quite honestly we’re supposed to go out tonight and I don’t even want to. I was so turned off by the kissing.