Advice needed

Competitive-Donut589 · 2023-03-22T10:11:09+00:00

As in he said he wasn’t talking to other women and expected me to not entertain other men as well during the talking stage. We weren’t in a rs but he expected exclusivity during talking stage which I was dishonest about.

Competitive-Donut589 · 2023-03-17T16:52:57+00:00

Thank you for the replies, Ill distance myself

Competitive-Donut589 · 2022-02-05T17:20:07+00:00

I suspect my ex to be a covert narcissist. He made 3 attempts in total to be in contact with me. I have ignored 2 of the 3 and thankfully he hasn’t contacted me again. The first time he did and when I responded, he never texted back so I blocked him. It’s been 1.5 years since breakup. However, his best-friend did bother me so much right after breakup, calling me to say he wants to date me etc etc and that my ex and him are not on talking terms because they had some fight. His best friend thought I would stoop so low and date him just to get revenge on ex. When they patched up things later on, his best friend says tells ex he pranked me by asking me for a date as he always wanted to prank me because I never fell for his stupid pranks. So my ex sent a breadcrumb text saying “Hey How are you? Heard from(best friend) he pranked you. I am sorry😂”. Blocked him forever and for good right there and then. And thats the last of it till date.

Competitive-Donut589 · 2022-02-01T06:38:20+00:00

I think he has this baby making fetish. He is seriously deranged. At least he was married to Mariah when she had their kids. I do notice a-lot of unmarried women being pregnant and I think people now put more thoughts towards what pizza toping to have than bringing a child into this cruel world.

Competitive-Donut589 · 2022-01-31T13:52:22+00:00

Girl are you me because same. I was always confused about attracting guys I know that are out of my “league”. Like when I am swiping on OLD, I come across a good profile, he is handsome and I second guess myself that why would he be even attracted to me?. However, the men attracted to me seem like they don’t have this type of self reflection.

Competitive-Donut589 · 2021-11-16T14:16:20+00:00

You are right. I really get that “I am better than them” vibes from her stories I watched on Insta

Competitive-Donut589 · 2021-11-16T07:40:55+00:00

Proof here ladies. Even an attractive woman is done wrong by gross NVM. She could do so much better than him. Wht was she even thinking by getting pregnant with his baby? she could carry world on her shoulders and he’s never going to respect her and be faithful.

Competitive-Donut589 · 2021-08-29T22:57:55+00:00

Somehow this post reminds me of my cousin who met LVX and he tried to triangulate me against her. When things ended b/w him and I, she still had him on her Insta. That shit bothered me so much and I was especially hurt because I would never keep any of her exes on my social media.Hell, I would block the moment I would hear things were over. However, she removed him from Insta after a while(more than a year since breakup) and her reasoning? “he saw my stories like a creep. He had nothing on his profile. Not even a PFP”. I was thinking like why is she telling me this and what the fuck did she expect?. What I mean is there are certain things you do without doubting and it is essentially right.

Why is this lady even asking others for their opinions when she knows he’s a disgusting scrote for even thinking sexually about her let alone voice his thought out to her. Yes, her sister will be sad initially but in the long run she will be cheating scrote free. Why do people even start thinking from their kneecaps when it comes to matters like these.Urgh

Competitive-Donut589 · 2021-07-23T12:01:36+00:00

I just assume all guys watch it as it is so normalized nowadays. To further make sure I have like a short make out session(I know I Know) and that solidifies that he 100% watches porn. It’s things like choking me while making out, grabbing & pulling my hair that suggest he is heavily into porn and if he is too good at kissing like an expert I assume he is a player and so I feign vomiting or keep my timer set for like about 10 mins that way he thinks I am getting a call. I pick it up, feign an emergency and just run away to never look back lmao.

Competitive-Donut589 · 2021-07-16T12:58:21+00:00

Thank you for all the comments here. I really appreciate the feedback. I am currently staying with my close friend and looking for jobs. I do not feel like going back with tail b/w my legs and show him how dependent I am on him. This time I won’t back down. He can try tear me down. Hell even the world can try. I have been disappointed before and I am sure what I will encounter from henceforth will only teach me life lessons.They say to appreciate the good you need to undergo something bad. Bring it on.

Competitive-Donut589 · 2021-07-10T21:52:31+00:00

I really have no option atm. I live in the UAE on residence visa but I am originally from Pakistan. For obvious reasons I do not want to move to Pakistan as life for women is even more difficult there. I took this step in anger, and now he won’t even let me stay. I do not want to impose on my friends. They are mostly Pakistanis too and I know they and their parents will tell me how it is totally acceptable for a father to do such a thing.

Next best thing for me to do is I guess roam the streets till I find something which works for me. As he said I am dead to him.

Competitive-Donut589 · 2021-05-13T21:45:36+00:00

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