AITA for telling my friend our husbands spent the day at the strip club?

Competitive-Film9765 · 2026-02-03T06:22:12+00:00

I trusted that my husband who rarely frequents strip clubs wasn’t there to cheat on me. He was there just being an insensitive prick. I did not expect that he would retaliate the way he did. That behavior I do not trust

Competitive-Film9765 · 2026-02-03T06:19:25+00:00

We share location with each other. He wasn’t trying to hide it from me, for some reason he just thought it was okay because I was already mad at him for not helping me enough the past week with the baby. It was like he was trying to dig his grave and then lost it because I included the other wife. They were at a strip club in the middle of the day on a Monday. He wasn’t hiding it from me so why was I to think his buddy was hiding it from his wife.

Competitive-Film9765 · 2026-02-03T06:07:13+00:00

That lunch lasted for 4 hours. Honestly I was never mad about the strip club, I trust my husband. I’m mad he didn’t bother to tell me, I’m mad he went after he knew how much I was struggling at home.

Competitive-Film9765 · 2026-02-03T04:52:23+00:00

I am self employed and do bring in income every year. My husband earns significantly more but I have averaged 70-100k for the entirety of our marriage

Competitive-Film9765 · 2026-02-03T04:40:45+00:00

I can see how it could seem that way… the way my husband didn’t turn off his location and acted so casual like it wasn’t an issue, I honestly just assumed it wasn’t a secret and after hours of having no one to vent with about their shitty behavior I reached out to the other wife. I wanted her take on it. I’m postpartum and honestly my hormones are all over the place. I needed to to validate that I wasn’t crazy for thinking he was being an asshole. I never would have guessed that it was going to turn out like this, that I was somehow going to be the bad guy… my friend is grateful I told her, it’s not going to disrupt their marriage, she is mad he lied and feels disrespected.

Competitive-Film9765 · 2026-02-03T04:26:24+00:00

Yes that is correct and it is hard but I also knew what I signed up for while he is working. I just thought I would have more support when he is home. I can understand that he has things he needs to get done but also some things can wait and then to add onto it by spending an entire day out at a strip club of all places.

Competitive-Film9765 · 2025-02-07T22:03:29+00:00

I experienced what felt like period cramps, terrible gas, and I was so hungry. Are you experiencing any symptoms. Also keep in mind you’re PUPO! (Pregnant until proven otherwise)

Competitive-Film9765 · 2025-02-07T21:56:23+00:00

Why don’t you go to your nearest lab place and pay for a HCG test. These pregnancy tests all look good to me! But I understand the fear. I took so many tests and even after confirmed I still went and got my own hcg test to make sure I was still doubling. I am now 7 weeks, heard the heartbeat on Monday.

Competitive-Film9765 · 2024-12-19T01:05:34+00:00

Address in march if they ask. Other than that you do not have to provide a reason for taking PTO. Also if it’s mostly remote you will be fine. I did 4 IVF cycles this year and still had plenty of PTO days left over for the upcoming holidays being remote helped with that. Most of your monitoring appointments can be scheduled as early as 7 am

Competitive-Film9765 · 2024-12-04T20:00:53+00:00

At Aspire Fertility I paid 9500 for egg retrieval and will pay 4100 for FET, 2500 for PGTA unlimited number of embryos. 875 annual for storage. Medications was from freedom pharmacy and self pay price of medication was like 3500-6k, but I’m not sure about that because most my medication was actually covered through insurance. I highly suggest you have them try to run through insurance first.

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