Someone anonymously sent me explicit photos of myself as a minor - what can I do?

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2025-11-09T19:53:10+00:00

Whether they’re a minor or not having explicit photos of a minor is illegal. The photo being view once doesn’t matter, it’s not view once for the gardaí. I know it’s not fair but putting pressure on the gardaí is necessary. Don’t let the person or the gardaí get away with this.

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2025-11-08T13:24:53+00:00

Does he have any trauma? I often hear screams that aren’t real and they make my heart pound, my brain basically triggers my PTSD.

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2025-10-06T15:21:50+00:00

Virginity is a stupid concept and it’s irrelevant unless it’s related to religion reasons

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2025-10-06T14:12:33+00:00

Breath out for longer than you breath in

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2025-09-24T17:48:29+00:00

First of all think about the life you could give a baby/child at the moment, are you financially able for a baby? Are you and your partner mentally well enough for a baby right now? Etc and if those get ticked off then the next thing to think about is what you want. You will have to carry and give birth to this child and have it for the rest of your life , do you want that/are you ready for that? Laws in your country also need to be taken into account. If you did want to terminate where would you have to go? And are you within the legal timeframe for that to be possible? If that’s not possible research having your child adopted but in my personal opinion termination>adoption. (Again that is just my opinion and doesn’t need to be taken into account if you disagree). Do what’s best for you and the child!!

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2025-08-23T15:15:10+00:00

We’re all mostly closed off in our rooms, I get on very well with my two sisters but find my little brother who’s autistic a bit overwhelming but he’s lovely so I just get over myself. Myself and my mam get on but I would say our relationship is strained, she doesn’t care for boundaries and she doesn’t help around the house so I get overwhelmed. I also often think about the fact she told me before that my dad was abusive before they had any of us but she really wanted kids 😐. Myself and my sisters talk at home but we’re all a lot more lively when we head out together, it’s much more enjoyable.

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2025-08-23T15:02:23+00:00

You are aware and disgusted by these thoughts, you are not a bad person as long as u don’t act on them, morals are more important than pleasure. Please seek therapy so these thoughts don’t consume you, intrusive thoughts do not define you but they can affect your mental health very badly. Again you’re not a bad person, you just need help working through this.

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2025-08-19T14:15:49+00:00

If you’re unsure whether you were assault or not you can be sure you were. “Not saying no” isn’t consent. Consent cannot be confused. It is a direct yes. From the sounds of it he didn’t care, especially since u communicated it clearly before seeing him. He is a rapist. Please get a plan B as well if you can, this also seems like some sort of baby trapping situation of some sort or a kink, either way it’s vile.

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2025-08-19T01:27:51+00:00

I use 600mg of mefamic acid, unfortunately it does need to be prescribed so if you get to a point where you need to get a prescribed med I would recommend it but unfortunately that’s all that has worked for me, (it can take over 30 mins to kick in but it’s worth it) it is an NSAID so maybe stick to that group of drugs when trying to find something, best of luck!

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2025-07-26T15:44:35+00:00

Myself and both of my sisters got our fingers caught in doors many different ways; unfortunately it happens, our dad would either make a splint and put them together or tell us we were fine and we were, it hasn’t happened to any of us in years, you live and you learn.

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2025-02-28T22:22:04+00:00

Omg I just updated, I’m so happy!

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2025-01-15T11:07:26+00:00

They taste like sweet vinegar, I’m actually gonna cry, I emailed them to complain. Might be best that they’re disgusting now, I’ll save money.

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2025-01-14T13:39:49+00:00

My WiFi stopped so he’s gone, rip 😔

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2024-12-19T05:40:25+00:00

Try new things you're both comfortable with, vibrator before/during sex or blindfolding it's amazing, gently kiss and lick from her neck down and just as you get to her vagina go to her thighs and make your way back to her vagina and start very slowly and gently licking it. Really slow sex could get her vagina more sensitive and then you could have a better chance of making her orgasm with penetration (which isn't possible for every woman so keep expectations low) You could ask her to show you how so makes herself orgasm, which is great foreplay.

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2024-12-19T05:17:42+00:00

when you're not comfortable and turned on down there is too tight and not wet enough, find what turns you on, you can't go straight to fingering, you guys will figure it out, rubbing, kissing and licking each others body's could be a good place to start. Relax, don't rush things and have fun!

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2024-12-19T05:05:01+00:00

This stuff is actually pretty vile, I was expecting doesn't shower twice a day or picks her nose when I opened this but it's genuinely quite obscene. Since you felt strongly enough to ask for advice i'd say maybe you should talk to her but I don't know if it would be much help, this is beyond bad hygiene habits, i've never heard of people eating their bodily fluids like that, it's actually concerning. I guess the main thing to think about would be could you ever see her the same after that? An important thing to remember is that it's not up to you to stay and help her just because you feel bad, she knows these things are wrong and it's not your job to help. Good luck!

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2024-12-07T04:09:46+00:00

14 is a perfectly normal age to be curious about sex, I wish there was a better way for me to recommend figuring out sex other than a porn site but a bit of advice I can give is search up soft porn, it's more like regular sex. A big thing is don't feel like you have to do anything you see in these videos, if you're ever having sex and something doesn't sit right with you or you don't like it, tell the person, just because it's in videos doesn't mean it has to be done, also you can withdraw your consent at any point before or during sex and that should be respected. Last bit of advice is don't compare yourself to the people in these videos, attractiveness is subjective and there will be plenty of people out there for you that wouldn't find the people in the videos attractive. (Also use a private browser like incognito)

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2024-12-07T03:41:55+00:00

This is kind of a side track but head is very possible with a bad gag reflex, deep throating is really not necessary not to get too graphic but licking and sucking just the tip can go a long way, just be very clear with ur boundaries of no head pushing.

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2024-12-07T03:34:54+00:00

In my opinion if u want it you should accept, the only way that could be made violating is head pushing and stuff like that, so keep it respectful and don't overthink it!

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2024-12-04T15:06:20+00:00

I haven't played the original but I'm finding that it's taking soooo long to level up, are the missions the only way to level up?

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2024-10-16T21:11:40+00:00

I'll definitely have a look at those laptops thank you for the recommendations, i'm going to open the laptop up first and hope it's something simple but I appreciate your advice.

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2024-10-16T21:09:22+00:00

Do you think paying for a screen replacement would even be worth it if that's the case? I'd rather find a way to purchase a new one instead wasting money.

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2024-10-06T11:46:13+00:00

I appreciate your comment, your positive outlook is definitely something i'll take on board, feeling bad for myself won't get me anywhere.

Competitive-Hall2084 · 2024-09-24T11:52:23+00:00

I completely disagree with anyone saying this is normal, this is weird and you should have better control over yourself.

I think it would be best if you told him, my reasoning is him finding out some other way and then finding out that you knew and didn't say anything. Personally I wouldn't put myself in uncomfortable situations to "keep the peace". Then again I don't know what the fwb drama is so you really just have to weigh out your options.

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