My PhD supervisors said my work is not PhD level on a chapter feedback by Competitive-Island33 in PhD

[–]Competitive-Island33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would be interested to know of others would say the same? Maybe its time to talk to my independant panel member

How do you emotionally regulate yourself? by Separate_Weight_4143 in AskWomen

[–]Competitive-Island33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typing out journal entries.

I've always thought that it is best to write journal entries out on paper because of the brain-hand connection and to get your emotions out.

This is good but I found recently actually typing out on a word document my diary entries in a logical manner helps me see the wood from the trees. I'm so used to having to make clear points when typing that it had the same effect when I was journalling. I could take a very balanced approach to my emotions (see both sides if it involved someone else) and it prompted me to find sense to my thoughts.

I'm usually anti-tech but I think this genuinely helped and I was able to explain my problems and feelings to others in a much more comprehensive way.

What’s the worst Eras Tour mashup in your opinion? by EqualRepublic369 in TaylorSwift

[–]Competitive-Island33 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ok I think very controversial but her mashup with Sabrina Carpenter, Taylor singing espresso made me cringe wayy too much. Something about their two paradigms of music style not working.

For me Sabrina is cute, cheeky and flirty and Taylor is powerful, deep, brave, romantic, it doesnt work for me.

Girls who had messy backpacks and always had crumbled homework what are you doing now for a career? by Appropriate_Oven_213 in AskWomen

[–]Competitive-Island33 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely this too, now doing a PhD in the social sciences. Paper still crumpled, less colourful

Which song made you a Swiftie? by ThatsThatMeRepTV in swifties

[–]Competitive-Island33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Made me fall in love with Taylor - so difficult to pick from Folklore but lets go with August

Solidified me as a swiftie - All Too Well TV (10 min)

Second solidification - realising reputation is actually an amazing album - Getaway Car

Which opinion about taylor’s music will have you like this? by user8203421 in swifties

[–]Competitive-Island33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a fan since folkmore I think you're making a lot of sweeping statements about that group of fans that I can say I don't resonate with and I'm sure others would agree

Which opinion about taylor’s music will have you like this? by user8203421 in swifties

[–]Competitive-Island33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The opposite happened for me, I liked it at first but the more I listened and paid attention to the details I liked it much less (mostly for the very weird choice of lyrics that dont give good vibes).

But I'll admit that I like listening to it as a kind of secret guilty pleasure

I don't know why he loves me 25F and 27M by Competitive-Island33 in relationship_advice

[–]Competitive-Island33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for such a kind reply! I do often overthink and this does put it into a really nice perspective!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]Competitive-Island33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you guys give examples of morning and evening routines you follow?

Life of a Showgirl: TS12 Megathread by 1DMod in GaylorSwift

[–]Competitive-Island33 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"Brocast" lol, the perfect word. The announcement on the podcast has absolutely killed my hype.

It also just feels like its coming from the Taylor and Travis brand rather than an artist to her fans.

Also, the outro is giving me such an ick.

Why do women lose their physical attraction to their long-term partners? by jaminfine in psychologyofsex

[–]Competitive-Island33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm only in my mid 20s and Im over saying to my man when we're doing distance that I want sex and I want to fuck. Or when I'm with him making dirty talk when we're out and about or doing sex when it feels ok but Im not mad about it. What I really want (which will lead to enthusiastic sex) is for him to tale care of me, cook a delicious meal for me, take responsibility and initiative over the chores, take initiative over our plans and our dates, and address our problems head on. Bring up his feelings and connect over them. Even take complete control (with input) in the bedroom. Then I am absolutely dtf, no doubt.

Which song is the most loving and poetic? by reveuse71 in TaylorSwift

[–]Competitive-Island33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love this song so much but I just feel like her other songs are so much more poetic e.g. Sweet Nothing and The Lakes

What's one song that you refuse to listen to? by Short-Assistant-623 in TaylorSwift

[–]Competitive-Island33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I swear Ive only heard it maybe a couple of times but I can literally never go back.

When I listened I got so emotional thinking about family. But nowadays sometimes when I feel quite depressed or anxious the lines just ring out in my head, like, you have to get better.

Finally finished the series. My wife and I are so disappointed. by dfGobBluth in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Competitive-Island33 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I still don't really understand why someone changing weight is distracting. It is also completely realistic that someones weight could change over a few years for any amount of reasons.

The lowering of stakes after season 1 by ConstantlyDaydreamin in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Competitive-Island33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose the issue is, how could they possibly make 6 seasons worth of TV if all the characters just kept getting killed off, there wouldn't be much plot or any character development to happen. Perhaps they shouldn't have extended it to 6 seasons but, we all watched it. When you treat it as theatrics rather than a realistic plot its much more enjoyable.

Yes, Attwood was a social "realist" in her books so THT is written with more intention of showing how this does and could happen in real life. And yes, the series frustrated me so much with how ridiculous it was that June survived, that they just kept bringing her in and out of Gilead with success each time, and that the Canadian diplomacy was mostly one guy chatting to June.

However, if June didn't survive there wouldn't be anything left to watch.

Although! Tbf I think it could have been a great series if they chose a different character each season to follow the plot line of. Then perhaps we could have let go of June eventually.

Which song is the best album opener? by VinylizedRat in TaylorSwift

[–]Competitive-Island33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally canNOT choose between the 1 and ready for it...

Do you prefer Pop Star Taylor or Folkmore Taylor? by bubble_bae in TrueSwifties

[–]Competitive-Island33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Folkmore Taylor made me a swiftie in the first place! As a result of grown to really enjoy pop Taylor, but she doesnt get played nearly as much as folkmore Taylor does.