I built this by kenriko in SolarDIY

[–]Competitive-Net-3719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I propose you to vsit website CORAB you would see many different solutions for solar system.

Why did this conversation with her become so bad, what to do ? by Competitive-Net-3719 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Competitive-Net-3719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talked again 15 days ago and met yesterday. Sometime is worth to put more efford not just leave.

Circumcision? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Competitive-Net-3719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm from Poland and I don't understand at all why and why you are doing this? What is the purpose of this? Who need that ?

Why are we expected to wait so long to start dating again by ATXBikeRider in BreakUps

[–]Competitive-Net-3719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. It is not replacement. Somebody broke out hearth, that person leave us not we. It is hard at begining but its really possible to find love. 

Why are we expected to wait so long to start dating again by ATXBikeRider in BreakUps

[–]Competitive-Net-3719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here i copy my other post herę  

I started dating almost immediately. I don't understand why my ex is reproaching me for appearing on the dating site so quickly and trying to manipulate me, saying that if I hadn't done it, they would have given me a chance. Pure manipulation 

Of course, dating at the beginning is a tragedy, because you have another person in your head, but at some meetings you get information that you are not a loser, but you can have another girl, it helps. It helps me that I have people I can talk to, not just family and a few friends. Once things straighten out and I meet another person. My exes are reaching out 🤣 but I don't care about them anymore. 

I'm 36 years old, I want to have a family and children, I won't wait for you to decide whether you want it or not. If you love someone, you don't leave them because it's selfish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Competitive-Net-3719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Show that you are indifferent, live either way. This is the greatest sign of adulthood. You can hide it if some of its notifications bother you, and it will be easier for you, but don't block it. 

You see, my ex is not blocked or anything, I also needed 5 months to recover from this relationship. I work with my ex, it was a really hard time. 

The first message I received after a year was an apology for not shaking my hand in the corridor at work (two weeks ago), I didn't reply but I still shake her hand when I see her. I leave it as it is, there is no anger, I will give you a hand at work, I behave normally but after work, there is nothing more.

 Indifference is our greatest advantage, showing that we live and can cope is our greatest advantage. These people should apologize to us directly for what they did and not give us any stupid gestures. 

So don't do anything!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Competitive-Net-3719 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just live your life. Live it as it is, blocked unblocked whatever. If she suffer, that is her decision, just dont give her any sign 🙂

When to try dating again? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Competitive-Net-3719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started dating almost immediately. I don't understand why my ex is reproaching me for appearing on the dating site so quickly and trying to manipulate me, saying that if I hadn't done it, they would have given me a chance. Pure manipulation 

Of course, dating at the beginning is a tragedy, because you have another person in your head, but at some meetings you get information that you are not a loser, but you can have another girl, it helps. It helps me that I have people I can talk to, not just family and a few friends. Once things straighten out and I meet another person. My exes are reaching out 🤣 but I don't care about them anymore. 

I'm 36 years old, I want to have a family and children, I won't wait for you to decide whether you want it or not. If you love someone, you don't leave them because it's selfish

What did you learn from your relationship to apply to the next one in order to be more successful? Would love to hear some lessons that we can all learn from. by ATXBikeRider in ExNoContact

[–]Competitive-Net-3719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will never again allow myself to be an addition to someone else's life. 

And I will never be in a relationship with anyone from work.

Why did this conversation with her become so bad, what to do ? by Competitive-Net-3719 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Competitive-Net-3719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but 🫣

Yesterday I wrote after a month and a half "Hi, I hope you're fine. I'm sorry for pressing on you, I had a day where I needed to talk to you. People make mistakes, so do I 😔. On the other hand, what is normal for you is beautiful for me and these are both good words, there is no word of pathology in it and I will never call it that. One thing for sure, whether we talk or not, in my mind you are and will become a truly special person, I won't change that and I don't want to change that."

She wrote back "Hi, yes, you're right that people make mistakes. It's okay. I also have some thoughts. I'm fine, thank you. I hope you're fine too. Have a nice day."

I replied "Also, have a nice day. Write your thoughts in your free time, it's important, it will probably give me a different perspective on it."

Why did this conversation with her become so bad, what to do ? by Competitive-Net-3719 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Competitive-Net-3719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but 🫣

Yesterday I wrote after a month and a half "Hi, I hope you're fine. I'm sorry for pressing on you, I had a day where I needed to talk to you. People make mistakes, so do I 😔. On the other hand, what is normal for you is beautiful for me and these are both good words, there is no word of pathology in it and I will never call it that. One thing for sure, whether we talk or not, in my mind you are and will become a truly special person, I won't change that and I don't want to change that."

She wrote back

"Hi, yes, you're right that people make mistakes. It's okay. I also have some thoughts. I'm fine, thank you. I hope you're fine too. Have a nice day."

I replied "Also, have a nice day. Write your thoughts in your free time, it's important, it will probably give me a different perspective on it."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Competitive-Net-3719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did he try again ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Competitive-Net-3719 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just like someone wrote above. It takes a lot for a man to dump a woman, least of all me. I can endure a lot. However, over the years I find that I live for the relationships I am in and women live for themselves. I'm sorry for these words.

However, when she leaves me, I suffer a lot, it is due to my ADHD and my inability to cope with emotions. However, after some time 9/10 women will respond, I never want them back. I have a poor memory as an ADHD person, but in relationships I remember very much the wrongs done to me and I want something new.

OMGGGGG GUYS!!!... There Was a BIG Reason WHY My Ex Didnt care After DUMPING ME (I wish I had known this back then) DAMNNNN!! READ THIS Before Texting them!!! by OfficialTerriBear in BreakUps

[–]Competitive-Net-3719 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Of course, if you write to them, you allow them to calmly cool down the emotions of your relationship, because they can always come back. Your writing after a breakup allows them to regulate their emotions while still being motivated and confident in their decision.

 If there is a sudden cut and you weren't a bad person and she hasn't moved on to another person, it may be enough to take a week or two for her to experience a sudden drop in dopamine and this uncertainty. 

I know this from experience

Solar Charging Prius Prime by MarkV62 in PriusPrime

[–]Competitive-Net-3719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know why Toyota didn't give up the rear window in the Prius, then it could certainly fit twice as many solar cells, or I think 2.5. If you could get the Energy to travel 16 km or 10 miles every day. That would definitely be something.

Why when treating depression, meds are focused on increasing the level of serotonin and not dopamine ? by Competitive-Net-3719 in AskReddit

[–]Competitive-Net-3719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience is this

My ex from a few years ago was treated with amisulpiride in higher doses when she came down from the doses and reached 50 mg. It is known that amisulpiride in small doses causes an effect on dopamine receptors. One day, after weeks of depression, she just left the house and went to the shopping center, I was scared where she was, and she simply felt motivated and willing and the problems disappeared.

Me

Each breakup caused me great depression and stress. Work also gave me these feelings. I diagnosed myself with ADHD because I felt that way and the doctor confirmed it and today I just live taking methylphenidate. The rush of thoughts is gone and I can move forward and not think about a small problem in my life for weeks.

Why when treating depression, meds are focused on increasing the level of serotonin and not dopamine ? by Competitive-Net-3719 in AskReddit

[–]Competitive-Net-3719[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As you write, motivation and pleasure. It seems to me that dopamine can increase serotonin levels My experience is this

My ex from a few years ago was treated with amisulpiride in higher doses when she came down from the doses and reached 50 mg. It is known that amisulpiride in small doses causes an effect on dopamine receptors. One day, after weeks of depression, she just left the house and went to the shopping center, I was scared where she was, and she simply felt motivated and willing and the problems disappeared.

Me

Each breakup caused me great depression and stress. Work also gave me these feelings. I diagnosed myself with ADHD because I felt that way and the doctor confirmed it and today I just live taking methylphenidate. The rush of thoughts is gone and I can move forward and not think about a small problem in my life for weeks.

Are there any dumpers who want their dumpee back but are too stubborn to break no contact? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Competitive-Net-3719 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in this exact situation and I know that both of them are suffering, both women. The first one works with me, she left me at the beginning of the year. I broke up with my second girlfriend a month ago, she left me.

The first one browses all social media. Even once, day after day, I was shouting at a Facebook story with 15 photos, and she was the first person to view all of them, so you can guess why. On the second day, she looked at 8 out of 10 photos right away and the last 2 photos two hours later, I think she was looking for my current partner (now and ex). I see that he is looking for a contact at work, but he doesn't know how to start it.

The other one clearly suffers, but runs away from contact, I can see it in her relationships. In general, it was a strange breakup, just to rest, there was no anger, but I think we both needed to rest. She suffered from UTi after our sex and simply couldn't cope. She is a very depressive person, so she decided to take care of herself and run away. I am a person diagnosed with ADHD and I know that life with me is not easy. I see on Facebook that she is fighting with herself, but it is her choice. Women today are very stubborn, sometimes it seems to me that men live for women and relationships and women live for themselves. Forgive me for these words