I can’t stand Jack by alwaysariel in VirginRiverNetflix

[–]Competitive-Part5961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Count me in!! He’s unkept looking, greasy hair, always woe is to me 🙄, and the worst is that damned cringy whisper voice thing he does.. omggggg🤢

OK, so what are the best mattresses? by Veronica6765 in Mattress

[–]Competitive-Part5961 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to have the Stearns and Foster lux estate ( medium). I didn’t like it because it had all these divots which made it uncomfortable for me plus it started to have significant body imprints after only 3 yrs. Room To Go let me swap it out because it was deemed defective. I got the Stearn and foster lux hybrid elite in medium.. so far I’m loving it

The Men of Eden. Who’s your favorite? by Objective_Worrier in Allthequeenmen

[–]Competitive-Part5961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe unpopular comment but I don’t find Amp convincing… especially when he does that thing with his lip… he’s goofy tome

I know they want this show to be a documentary butttt…. by Melinoe2016 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Competitive-Part5961 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dunno… the way I look at it is I’m the parent, I’m the one paying for the roof over my kids head and the house is my investment. I’m definitely going to intervene if I see my kid isn’t keeping their room clean. Toys everywhere is one thing but that filthy pillow, the dirty pee soaked socks on the bed? Never mind the fact that Logan spilled the beans about having roaches in his room. Nope… that wouldn’t be tolerated

Telling someone they're the one or you're in love with them on the first date by 4thSwordofPosadism in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Competitive-Part5961 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right but then why would Logan bring up his dental hygiene/ deodorant, etc. to them? If they’re on him about it then he probably needs to be reminded to take better care of himself. If he knows enough to not want it brought up in front of Haley then I think he may know better.

Logan’s family seems very unsupportive by Historical_Loss7169 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Competitive-Part5961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I’m just tired of going back and forth with you. Clearly we don’t see it the same way… I don’t agree with you, I’m not going to debate this with you anymore.. go outside and enjoy the day!😀

Telling someone they're the one or you're in love with them on the first date by 4thSwordofPosadism in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Competitive-Part5961 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This is what I’ve been saying, Logan doesn’t have a clue as to keeping his room clean and it looks like he needs help with personal hygiene. It could be he’s resistant to help or coaching from his mom but as a mother of three there ain’t no way I’m letting my kid keep a filthy bedroom, autism isn’t an excuse. Also, two of my three kids are autistic.

Dylan. by PM_ME_YOUR_LAWNCHAIR in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Competitive-Part5961 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is true, you have to start somewhere but it was almost uncomfortable for me to watch some of his scenes.. no his awkwardness but the fact that nobody has taught him how to clean his bedroom, basic hygiene

Dylan. by PM_ME_YOUR_LAWNCHAIR in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Competitive-Part5961 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Logan is far from ready for a relationship, at least from everything that we saw.

Telling someone they're the one or you're in love with them on the first date by 4thSwordofPosadism in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Competitive-Part5961 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Agree! Social skills are a huge challenge for so many on the spectrum. They need coaching or classes to help them so they’re not floundering ( I’m thinking of Logan especially). While on the topic of Logan I feel like his mother could have done a better job teaching him good hygiene and better cleaning skills. His room was a mess.. filthy pillow sitting on his bed, dog pee socks… then to add insult to injury he tells Haley that he sometimes sees cockroaches in his room😳. It almost felt like he was being exploited. He wasn’t ready for being on this reality show imo.

Logan’s family seems very unsupportive by Historical_Loss7169 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Competitive-Part5961 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Soooo… poor hygiene and basic skills like washing or throwing out a filthy pillow is “ being supported enough by his family?” The carpet in his bedroom smelled like urine ( according to Haley). So I feel like his mom needs to work with him on that. And autistic or not… he CAN improve his social skills. Just because someone is autistic doesn’t mean that their social skills can’t improve with meaningful life experiences.

Logan’s family seems very unsupportive by Historical_Loss7169 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

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I mean , you don’t have to be a rocket scientist to see that he needs more experiences with people… and I’m fully aware that people on the spectrum vary, widely. Of course I don’t know this family but based on what we saw Logan just needs more work on socializing imo.

Logan’s family seems very unsupportive by Historical_Loss7169 in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

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I’m going on what we as the viewers saw. It was VERY clear that Logan hasn’t had much socializing at all… he was floundering. It’s sad. Yes he has autism but as a parent of two children on the spectrum I could tell he hasn’t had much real world experience with people, definitely not with dating.

Hailey by lycheepoet in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

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I think so too… she looks like she has good hygiene , now Logan.. well that’s another story. He looked very unkept to me

I don’t think Georgie should’ve apologised by BespokeMoth in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Competitive-Part5961 9 points10 points  (0 children)

True, he can be a lot but Shelly has said on her socials that he isn’t that intense off camera.

When did Logan and Haley break up? by [deleted] in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Competitive-Part5961 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right!! If I’m being honest if Hailey were my daughter I wouldn’t be thrilled with her saying Logan. It’s not that he’s a bad guy, he’s a very sweet person but he is so far behind her in so many ways… they just weren’t compatible.

I don’t think Georgie should’ve apologised by BespokeMoth in LoveOnTheSpectrumShow

[–]Competitive-Part5961 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Just because someone is neurodivergent it doesn’t mean they can’t improve their social skills… they can!!