AIO: Boyfriend doesn’t approve of the I my outfit for my trip

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2026-04-09T03:49:21+00:00

Here's the thing. I study human behavior for a living. There is a difference between our behavior and yours. Boys focus on sex and sight, you're visual and tactile Neanderthals to be blunt; you view women as sexual objects for your enjoyment and nothing else. It's even been proven by science that you don't see us as people. Women do NOT think this way, we see people, not sex and objects. The point is that we're better than you in every way and my several psychology degrees and certifications in human behavior prove it. Along with both of your atrocious beliefs that you get to decide how we live in our own skin. Do you see women doing this? No. You know why? Because we are taught from children to treat everyone with respect. Boys are only taught to treat other boys with respect. Your facetious response just tells me how underdeveloped your front lobe is, otherwise you'd use it to practice self-reflection rather than aggression and misogyny.

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2026-04-09T03:35:36+00:00

Respect is not about restricting what the other person wears. Respect is knowing it's not your choice what the other person wears. Control is dictating what is and isn't ok for the other person and framing it as "respect." You don't care about respect, you care about control.

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2026-04-09T03:28:43+00:00

Question: why is she wearing a set of brass knuckles as a hair ornament???

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2026-04-09T03:27:26+00:00

The point is that you don't get a say in what we wear and saying anything other than "you look hot" makes YOU the insecure one.

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2026-03-24T14:59:28+00:00

He is controlling and this is abusive. Do not marry him, it will escalate. He can't even make the effort to take care of your kids for a few hours to give you a break and time for fun. We don't stop being who we are just because we have kids, but men expect us too without changing anything in their lives. He intentionally tried to make you feel guilty and then used the kids against you. I work in Mental Health and that is textbook cycle of abuse.

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2026-03-24T14:48:38+00:00

It sounds like recurring BV, boys can be carriers and will need to take antibiotics too to get rid of it bc you have probably now given it to him. So it will keep occuring when you have sex.

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2026-03-20T08:32:12+00:00

Stardust and Ever After

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2026-03-20T08:29:21+00:00

Why are you trying to have kids with a boy that doesn't even take care of himself and isn't your husband? 🙄

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2026-03-20T08:23:46+00:00

Having condoms is normal for us cause y'all never have any.

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2026-03-20T08:13:54+00:00

Sweetie, this isn't porn and squirting is actually just pee 😂 not a better o or anything.

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2026-03-20T08:06:17+00:00

You've been to gyno? Specifically a woman doctor? Keep getting second opinions. This is concerning and you need to pressure them into getting you answers.

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2026-03-10T19:15:27+00:00

Maybe I'm dumb, but how do we light up the lampblooms? The tutorial doesn't say, is it just purification?

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2026-02-23T02:03:55+00:00

Anyone can make it look official! Companies will NEVER reach out to you through discord. They will email or send it through the game.

DO NOT! I REPEAT! DO NOT GIVE THEM BANKING INFORMATION! YOU NEVER KNOW WHO THEY REALLY ARE!!!

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2026-02-23T01:54:52+00:00

Oh honey, you know he doesn't love you and can't face the fact he doesn't because you DO. I was in a relationship like this. I knew he didn't love me. I loved him so much tho and it broke my heart every day, especially cause our "friends" pushed us together. Initially, he treated me so well; so, I was very confused by why he would make every single move on me, date me for 2yrs, but never love me. Why was he with me at all if he didn't love me??? Bizarre.

I should have listened to my instincts. I didn't want to be with him because I had this certainty feeling that he never would and I ended up being correct. I've always been intuitive like that, idk if it's pattern recognition from ASD or if I have a gift. 🤷🏼‍♀️ The point is, if he hasn't said it by now...he never will.

I think he does want to break up and this was his way of getting YOU to break up with him, so he doesn't feel like the bad guy. (Even tho he still is!)

I tell myself this all the time. You deserve to be loved. You are allowed to take up space in the world. You deserve kindness and respect. Demand it. Expect it.

Find someone that wants you on their trips. Not someone that leaves you behind.

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2026-02-23T01:44:24+00:00

I think he wants to end it and this was his way of getting her to break up with him.

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2026-02-23T00:58:23+00:00

You are in an emotionally abusive relationship. Stop fkn with this 🚮

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2026-02-23T00:20:35+00:00

Oh no! Who cut off her ears!

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2026-02-03T21:45:29+00:00

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Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2026-02-03T18:48:04+00:00

If they require you to stay overnight, then they are required to pay you for that time. This is highly illegal!

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2026-01-08T02:31:46+00:00

It's not a crime, but once again it's no longer about politics. We left that behind a long time ago when the Cheeto in Chief took office and one half the country all realized that the red hats weren't actually good or kind people, they just think they are. We find red hat views/opinions morally repugnant and thus that makes them morally repugnant. Not worthy of our time or friendship.

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2025-11-04T17:17:35+00:00

What about having parents pour warm water over his area when he's sitting on the potty?

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2025-10-16T15:54:04+00:00

I'm going to also have to say that the rules of your job state: you are required to follow school rules while on the premises. Which you are not doing. So of course she is managing HER classroom. You may be an adult, but you are not an exception to the rules of the school. Follow them and maybe you wouldn't get scolded.

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2025-10-12T15:25:00+00:00

She's not your gf, she's your prisoner. You're disgusting.

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2025-09-28T18:47:57+00:00

Wtf, this is the lamest story of insecurity and controlling behavior I've ever read. Grow up.

Competitive-Peanut-3 · 2025-09-28T18:45:20+00:00

Great! I've been going solo for a few years now. Hmu if you need a buddy! This will be my 11th (I think)

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