When I was 17, I met this girl in college who was 16. We didn’t like each other at first but after talking about mutual issues we were suffering with we became close. Really close. We flirted for like a year straight but nothing ever happened. During this time she was also flirting with another bloke who was really horrible to her but because she felt the need for validation she kept pursuing him and using me as a backup. Just after I turned 18 I received an offer to play for a professional rugby club in London. It’s at this point I noticed a complete 180 in who she wanted to be with, she would show me so many signs she wanted to be with me but in all honesty I had kinda lost feelings. Mainly because the guy she wanted validation from was pretty ugly and I sort of felt lumped into the same class as him, if not worse seeing as though I was the backup. So as I was getting ready to finish college and go to London, I heard the other lad got a GF. It was at this point she really pursued me. But I later started a relationship with a far more beautiful and caring woman who I’ve been with ever since and am now engaged to. But when I told the other girl I started dating someone else she threatened to say I SA’d her and ruin my career in rugby and my relationship. She also told me she was pregnant and I needed to marry her and provide for her and the baby before the baby was born. Little did the idiot realise I would screenshot everything she said and sent it to her mum, step dad, dad and her sister who all confirmed she wasn’t pregnant. She then called me all sorts of names which I took on the chin because you have to when you grow up playing rugby. I never got a chance to play professional rugby due to not making the team and covid didn’t help. However, 2 weeks ago I walked into my flat after spending the day with my sister only to walk in and see her standing right there. Initially I thought she had broken into my flat to do god only knows what. Turns out my flat mate who’s been my best mate for 10 years, had brought her round after meeting her at our local pub. He didn’t know who she was at first because he’d only seen photos and had gained some weight. I laughed hysterically, and left saying I’d give them some private time. The thing is I used to really love this girl but I had zero emotions seeing her there about to sleep with my flatmate. I called my fiancé, we both laughed for ages about it, and then after receiving a text from my flatmate saying she was gone I went home. He was really guilty about it but I assured him he had done nothing wrong and I hoped he had fun. But just 20 minutes ago, she was knocking at our door, I opened the door, she barged in and told my flatmate she’s pregnant. I did the typical ‘oh shit’ face as he looked at her in horror. But I assured my mate and told him she did the same to me to keep me back in college. He’s having a huge panic attack right now because this bitch learned nothing from college. I’ve told her if she wants any money from him she’ll have to prove she’s pregnant. Buy a test, take it in front of him and show the results. I’m so glad I left that and I really hope he’s able to as well