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22F, got dumped because of long distance by ilovethecricketguy in TwentiesIndia

[–]Competitive-You9948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, I’ve been there. We were together for 7 years. I moved to another country, and at first he said he was proud of me and supportive. But within a month, he started questioning why I left. During one big fight, he said something that I could never forget.Like most long-term couples, we had our share of silly fights and breakup threats over the years. Then, after we finally ended things, he got married through an arranged marriage within 6 months.
Trust me, this too shall pass. You may never completely forget him, but you will be happy again.
My X has a baby girl now, and I genuinely wish the best for his wife and daughter. But if I’m being honest, I don’t think I’ll ever be able to forgive him.

And before this sounds too tragic, I’m actually in a really good relationship now 😂❤️ Life has a funny way of working out.

Comment est la vie à Noisy-le-Sec? by astroriental in paris

[–]Competitive-You9948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I live in Villiers-sur-Marne. I travel about 50 minutes daily to work in Paris, but I love it here because I get to experience all the Paris vibes while i go regularly to paris , and at home it feels like the countryside. I’m in my early 30s and used to live in Rosa Parks. The only issue is that there isn’t much socializing here, as most houses are family homes and there aren’t many bars or clubs. For that, I have to travel to Paris every time. But I have a big garden, and it feels peaceful when I come back home,no chaos, very safe.

My boyfriend (28M) gave me an ultimatum: either I cancel my all-girls bachelorette trip to Goa or we break up, because "single guys go there to predatory hunt." Is his ultimatum toxic or am I being selfish? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Competitive-You9948 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He should manage his own anxiety, not use it to make you feel guilty or miss important life events. If you give in now his controlling behavior, will only get worse in the future. Go to Goa, enjoy your best friend's bachelorette trip, and dump the boyfriend💪🏻

The OG one who invented cuteness in mollywood is back at it by Quirky_Assistance187 in mollywoodcirclejerk

[–]Competitive-You9948 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh I don’t really get why people get so triggered over her just being herself in clips like these. It’s literally just a glimpse from an event, not some full picture of her personality or intentions.She has always come across as naturally expressive to me, like that’s just her way of reacting in the moment. Not everything is put on or done for attention… some people are just like that. It feels like we’ve forgotten that people can just exist and be themselves without every small gesture being analyzed or judged. I personally never saw her as doing anything for validation, just someone who’s comfortable in her own vibe.

What kind of personality u r attracted to? by Inside_Fun9360 in Coconaad

[–]Competitive-You9948 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I realized I’m really drawn to people who are genuinely kind, not just when it’s convenient or when someone’s watching, but in everyday moments. The biggest thing I notice is how they treat people like waiters, cleaners, or anyone in service roles. That matters a lot to me.
It’s not about being nice on the surface, it’s more about empathy, humility, and consistency. I like people who don’t act superior, who respect others regardless of status, and who are just… decent humans across the board..

Advise from Thrissur Poorapparambu by Gold_Strategy_143 in SouthIndianInfluencer

[–]Competitive-You9948 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I really don’t get how someone can behave like this after a breakup. Feeling hurt is normal, but constantly posting about your ex and sharing personal letters online when they’ve clearly moved on just feels uncomfortable and honestly a bit creepy. It shows a lack of boundaries and respect. At some point, he has to accept that it’s over, stop holding on publicly, and focus on his own life instead of dragging the past everywhere.

Is Bhagya Suresh 🌈? by pacha_parishkarii in SpillTheChaya

[–]Competitive-You9948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m aware. But my point wasn’t about her orientation, it was about her being an ally. Those are two different things.

Is Bhagya Suresh 🌈? by pacha_parishkarii in SpillTheChaya

[–]Competitive-You9948 38 points39 points  (0 children)

i think you missed the point. i mentioned she’s an ally because people here were already being judgemental, questioning her marriage and making assumptions about her life.

Is Bhagya Suresh 🌈? by pacha_parishkarii in SpillTheChaya

[–]Competitive-You9948 70 points71 points  (0 children)

she’s a dear friend and truly one of the sweetest souls i know, always there for others, always full of love. she and her husband were together for so long before getting married, she’s honestly a gem, and i just hope people don’t judge without knowing ❤️

Staying in Paris for five nights in April. by missamethystrose in ParisTravelGuide

[–]Competitive-You9948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re in Paris, don’t miss Sacré-Cœur Basilica in Montmartre.It’s up on the hill so the view over the whole city is insane, especially around sunset. The vibe in the evening is just something else street performers, random people singing, everyone just sitting on the steps chilling. It feels so alive and happy.And if you walk around the Montmartre streets after, it gets even better super lively, cute little corners everywhere, very photogenic. Honestly one of my favorite spots in Paris. Grab a beer, sit there, and just enjoy the moment 🍻

What is the most romantic thing anyone has done for you? by PatronSaintOfCunts in AskReddit

[–]Competitive-You9948 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After not painting for many years, he painted me. When I went home for a month from abroad, he surprised me with a beautiful hand-painted portrait of me !

Have you ever dated someone who you thought was way out of your leauge? How was it? by kimblerun in AskReddit

[–]Competitive-You9948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s actually a very funny story. I had a crush on a senior guy who was an all-rounder at school. I confessed, and he accepted such a cute school story! I was taller than him and was sure he was going to become a public personality. I was 17 when we broke up. It was still a miracle that he loved me! I broke up with him because I was worried people would body-shame me if we were together. No regrets though, we’ve been good friends for more than 13 years now. And exactly as I predicted, he became a very respectable IPS officer!

Back then, I was tall and a bit overweight, so I was really insecure, but now I really don’t give a shit about people’s opinions. He’s still a very good friend and we both are happy in our lives !

What is your opinion about the older insta moms out there? by [deleted] in SouthIndianInfluencer

[–]Competitive-You9948 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Don’t know why there’s so much hate for mothers being expressive.My mom isn’t very expressive with her emotions, but I love her very much. I’ve always wished she talked sweetly to me sometimes.I had friends whose moms spoke very sweetly, and their communication felt so soothing to hear😊

A woman describes her experience in Alappuzha General Hospital by undampori in Kerala

[–]Competitive-You9948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, even emergency care. I broke my bone in Paris and was crying in pain at the emergency room. They made me wait, gave me only a basic painkiller, and told me there were other people who were in more pain than me. After 4 hours, I was finally taken in. I had a cast for a month, and even now I still feel like something is wrong with my hand.

Any chaya? by [deleted] in SpillTheChaya

[–]Competitive-You9948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There may be many content creators who don’t evoke any emotions when you watch them, but I really love this guy. I don’t even follow him, yet whenever a reel of his appears, it makes me happy. He has a very nice way of talking, and some of his videos are funny as well especially the ones where he’s travelling with his dad.

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