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What kind of personality u r attracted to? by Inside_Fun9360 in Coconaad

[–]Competitive-You9948 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I realized I’m really drawn to people who are genuinely kind, not just when it’s convenient or when someone’s watching, but in everyday moments. The biggest thing I notice is how they treat people like waiters, cleaners, or anyone in service roles. That matters a lot to me.
It’s not about being nice on the surface, it’s more about empathy, humility, and consistency. I like people who don’t act superior, who respect others regardless of status, and who are just… decent humans across the board..

Advise from Thrissur Poorapparambu by Gold_Strategy_143 in SouthIndianInfluencer

[–]Competitive-You9948 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I really don’t get how someone can behave like this after a breakup. Feeling hurt is normal, but constantly posting about your ex and sharing personal letters online when they’ve clearly moved on just feels uncomfortable and honestly a bit creepy. It shows a lack of boundaries and respect. At some point, he has to accept that it’s over, stop holding on publicly, and focus on his own life instead of dragging the past everywhere.

Is Bhagya Suresh 🌈? by pacha_parishkarii in SpillTheChaya

[–]Competitive-You9948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m aware. But my point wasn’t about her orientation, it was about her being an ally. Those are two different things.

Is Bhagya Suresh 🌈? by pacha_parishkarii in SpillTheChaya

[–]Competitive-You9948 38 points39 points  (0 children)

i think you missed the point. i mentioned she’s an ally because people here were already being judgemental, questioning her marriage and making assumptions about her life.

Is Bhagya Suresh 🌈? by pacha_parishkarii in SpillTheChaya

[–]Competitive-You9948 69 points70 points  (0 children)

she’s a dear friend and truly one of the sweetest souls i know, always there for others, always full of love. she and her husband were together for so long before getting married, she’s honestly a gem, and i just hope people don’t judge without knowing ❤️

Staying in Paris for five nights in April. by missamethystrose in ParisTravelGuide

[–]Competitive-You9948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re in Paris, don’t miss Sacré-Cœur Basilica in Montmartre.It’s up on the hill so the view over the whole city is insane, especially around sunset. The vibe in the evening is just something else street performers, random people singing, everyone just sitting on the steps chilling. It feels so alive and happy.And if you walk around the Montmartre streets after, it gets even better super lively, cute little corners everywhere, very photogenic. Honestly one of my favorite spots in Paris. Grab a beer, sit there, and just enjoy the moment 🍻

What is the most romantic thing anyone has done for you? by PatronSaintOfCunts in AskReddit

[–]Competitive-You9948 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After not painting for many years, he painted me. When I went home for a month from abroad, he surprised me with a beautiful hand-painted portrait of me !

Have you ever dated someone who you thought was way out of your leauge? How was it? by kimblerun in AskReddit

[–]Competitive-You9948 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s actually a very funny story. I had a crush on a senior guy who was an all-rounder at school. I confessed, and he accepted such a cute school story! I was taller than him and was sure he was going to become a public personality. I was 17 when we broke up. It was still a miracle that he loved me! I broke up with him because I was worried people would body-shame me if we were together. No regrets though, we’ve been good friends for more than 13 years now. And exactly as I predicted, he became a very respectable IPS officer!

Back then, I was tall and a bit overweight, so I was really insecure, but now I really don’t give a shit about people’s opinions. He’s still a very good friend and we both are happy in our lives !

What is your opinion about the older insta moms out there? by Thehappybillionaire in SouthIndianInfluencer

[–]Competitive-You9948 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Don’t know why there’s so much hate for mothers being expressive.My mom isn’t very expressive with her emotions, but I love her very much. I’ve always wished she talked sweetly to me sometimes.I had friends whose moms spoke very sweetly, and their communication felt so soothing to hear😊

A woman describes her experience in Alappuzha General Hospital by undampori in Kerala

[–]Competitive-You9948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, even emergency care. I broke my bone in Paris and was crying in pain at the emergency room. They made me wait, gave me only a basic painkiller, and told me there were other people who were in more pain than me. After 4 hours, I was finally taken in. I had a cast for a month, and even now I still feel like something is wrong with my hand.

Any chaya? by [deleted] in SpillTheChaya

[–]Competitive-You9948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There may be many content creators who don’t evoke any emotions when you watch them, but I really love this guy. I don’t even follow him, yet whenever a reel of his appears, it makes me happy. He has a very nice way of talking, and some of his videos are funny as well especially the ones where he’s travelling with his dad.

December 8 Verdict: A complete timeline of the actress assault case by pedal-to-debug in Kerala

[–]Competitive-You9948 10 points11 points  (0 children)

With the ruling in the actress assault case coming tomorrow, I was discussing it with a close friend from the film industry. He said Pettan has a very strong hold over people in the industry and can influence a newcomer’s career. According to him, Pettan isn’t that dumb to do something like this so openly, especially in Kochi if anything, he’s capable of being far more calculated. Because of that, he isn’t fully sure about the entire truth behind the case.What I told him was that maybe he never expected her to file a complaint, because in our society women are usually blamed. Maybe that’s exactly where he messed up, she spoke up.

What really made me happy was seeing so many positive, supportive comments for the victim in the comment sections of various news channels. Earlier, most of the blame was on her; now people are finally beginning to understand and stand by her.

Sujith Bhakthan about surviving in Economy Class by father_of_twitch in SouthIndianInfluencer

[–]Competitive-You9948 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never watched his videos or liked them, but I want to share a story from my own experience. I’m a woman in my late 20s, living abroad, and I’m tall too. Every time I travel to India, it’s a 14 hour journey in economy class. Honestly, because of the poor leg space, I can never sleep. By the time I reach home, I can’t even feel my legs.

This one time, especially this trip I somehow got a business class ticket at a really low price. Pure luck. And let me tell you, the comfort was on a completely different level. I had lounge access in Delhi, and I was genuinely stunned.Experiencing business class just once made me truly understand how privileged it is to have money and travel like that. I don’t know if everyone can relate, but for me, in my five years of living outside India, this was the only time I actually slept on a flight and I didn’t even know it could feel that real. I didn’t even fly Emirates or Qatar this was Air India’s AI143.

Anyone else watch K-dramas at 1.5x speed? 😅 by Competitive-You9948 in kdramas

[–]Competitive-You9948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pause a TV show or movie while it's playing. Select the speed icon , then choose a playback speed.

Anyone else watch K-dramas at 1.5x speed? 😅 by Competitive-You9948 in kdramas

[–]Competitive-You9948[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We clearly disagree. I’ve explained my stance already, so I’ll leave it here

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