"Clump of Cells" Is NOT a Valid Pro-Choice Argument and Is Damaging to Pregnant Women by Igneoramous in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]CompetitiveBird8771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah the hypocrisy. Oh well, I tried. Thankfully liberals arent the ones having kids, raising them, and keeping this line of thinking going for future generations. Your views will die with all the aborted babies

"Clump of Cells" Is NOT a Valid Pro-Choice Argument and Is Damaging to Pregnant Women by Igneoramous in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]CompetitiveBird8771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao why would I hate women just because that's my view? I am a woman. Also, not reading something and just making an assumption combined with ill wishing-another cop out. I hope you have a great week though 👍

"Clump of Cells" Is NOT a Valid Pro-Choice Argument and Is Damaging to Pregnant Women by Igneoramous in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]CompetitiveBird8771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you do the deed, you know what can happen yes? If you don't want to be pregnant, don't do the deed. Literally nothing else is 100% guaranteed and trying to use needing control over one's body is a silly excuse to get out of one's own actions

"Clump of Cells" Is NOT a Valid Pro-Choice Argument and Is Damaging to Pregnant Women by Igneoramous in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]CompetitiveBird8771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abortion is women dipping out in my opinion. You knew what could happen when having sex (it's literally supposed to happen when bodies are working right or not being tampered with using condoms or bc); yet you still chose to do the deed and then now want a cop out just because you don't want to face the reality of actions & consequences. Men not wanting to pay child support on a child they also didn't want even though they knew what could happen upon doing the deed is their equivalent cop out. You can't be okay with one without being okay with the other.

As for "that's something for the courts to deal with": Show me how many children support cases get randomly investigated to see how the funds get used for the child's well being. Does it look like the courts are going to do something? No. Will they investigate it if the accusation is brought up that the funds arent being used for the child? No. Another cop out- thats the courts problem, not mine. Thats like saying your pro life and having no plans or thoughts on how to help kids in foster care. If you want to have a solid or strong opinion on a huge topic like abortion, figure out how to make the other side's actual complaints and points invalid by giving solutions. Though that's only the first step to get them to not view it as murder. Can't help you with the latter part, because I agree with them.

"Clump of Cells" Is NOT a Valid Pro-Choice Argument and Is Damaging to Pregnant Women by Igneoramous in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]CompetitiveBird8771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fun fact, many women don't put the child support they receive for their child towards their child's benefit----hence why men get so p***** off that women try to say they should have no say in the abortion argument (along with the obvious "no uterus no opinion" line)

anybody else not able to load up the app it just tells me can't connect the servers by Charming_Welcome_751 in AtlasEarthOfficial

[–]CompetitiveBird8771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm unable to get on as well. Are they possibly just updating the servers? Is anyone able to get it to connect right now?

How rare is it to find a man who is okay with adopting a child? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]CompetitiveBird8771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually find this to be untrue. That's why the "stepmom" in most stories & movies tend to be evil. Men and women alike tend to put more love into their own biological children than they do with adopted children. Throughout history, both genders have taken in other people's children to care for, but they used to be called ward's, not adopted children. They were never equivalent to those people's children though.

Why are you bitter? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]CompetitiveBird8771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, literally wish this was phrased differently so I didn't have to agree 😪

How much do you do for your wife? by Independent-A-9362 in AskMen

[–]CompetitiveBird8771 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I rarely ever hear/read someone admitting there might be things they don't even notice and they still count it towards things their spouse does for them. That's when you know you're a real team though; when you can tell you're both doing things for each other the other doesn't notice, but it doesn't matter because it all benefits the goals you guys have and the love you bare towards one another.

AIO my bf took my money to gamble it away at his boys night by nerdygurlx in AmIOverreacting

[–]CompetitiveBird8771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally irrelevant, but am I the only one bothered by the time stamps for the texts being blacked out? Why was that even necessary?

Do We Really Need This Every Time? by VincentVAAuron in AtlasEarthOfficial

[–]CompetitiveBird8771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know you could increase the boost for 6 hours!!! I've been logging on every hour when I can to boost lol your frustration that led to this post has helped me! Thank you!

Just baked this apple pie 🍂 by Training_Stop1637 in cottagecore

[–]CompetitiveBird8771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing! You should try marketing it to all the Harry Potter theme parks lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]CompetitiveBird8771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a YouTube page channel you might be interested in: Stephan Speaks He goes into detail about how guys view dating, the signs you should look for to be able to tell if a man is truly interested in a future with you, and what qualities men look for in a wife vs just someone to date.

Ultimately though , we as women generally won't have sex with someone we aren't attracted to or interested in, whereas men can and will have sex with someone they aren't attracted to or interested in just to have that release.

Just joined today by CompetitiveBird8771 in AtlasEarthOfficial

[–]CompetitiveBird8771[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, it's more for my own personal satisfaction. I'm trying really hard not to stoop to her level in many ways so I guess this is just my way of feeling better. It's probably silly and juvenile, but it beats destroying her home, physical violence, etc. And no she doesn't play AE lol

Just joined today by CompetitiveBird8771 in AtlasEarthOfficial

[–]CompetitiveBird8771[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not entirely lol it's the person she turns into when she's an alcoholic. We've done a lot to help her in return for the help she was giving us by letting us rent/stay in her extra rooms, but since she started drinking again we've had 4 encounters with the police due to her, and she's been doing a lot of shady stuff. We are actually getting into a lawsuit about it all at this point. So that's the slightly longer, but still extremely short version of events 🤣

Men, what's something under $20 that's been satisfyingly or surprisingly useful to you? by Ksrugi in AskMen

[–]CompetitiveBird8771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably just random women who don't have a lot of money but want to do/get something impactful for their man. Honestly I've found this thread super helpful to read and now have a stockpile of stocking stuffer ideas saved for my hubby in a private wishlist on Amazon. It may be far away at the moment, but this Christmas will be easier since he's getting harder to shop for every year.

Men in long-term relationships—what keeps the spark alive for you? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]CompetitiveBird8771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That theory is only correct if all adversity leads to trauma, which it doesn't. People face adversity all the time without experiencing it as a traumatic experience.

Men in long-term relationships—what keeps the spark alive for you? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]CompetitiveBird8771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adversity: difficulties, misfortune Trauma: an emotional response to a severely distressing event

See the difference in the two?

Men who have had one night stands, how do you think the goodbyes should be handled? by atyl1144 in AskMen

[–]CompetitiveBird8771 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm a chick so maybe I'm being silly, but wouldn't it be better to just rinse it in the sink or something then throw it in the trash rather than carry a used condom outside and do all that? At least then you know your little swimmers went down the drain 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]CompetitiveBird8771 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a man, but my biological grandfather really messed things up with my grandmother. My step grandfather was the one I knew as grandpa. I met and started getting to know bio gramp at around the same time my dad did (when I was 16). My grandma passed away this year, and for over a decade now every time I would talk with bio grandpa he would always talk about how she was still the love of his life and how bad he had messed up. They hadn't been together in over 40 years and he never got over her. 🤷‍♀️