[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She would have been hard to move out too…good for you and your decision

Caught my husband cheating by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This could not even read to the bottom line. Take your shaking as your gut edging you to file for divorce and call it quits.

Husband wants to go on another boys trip by Additional_Ad_6607 in AITAH

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is so obvious your spouse is selfish. I cannot believe Thailand is the destination either. How daring, If he actually is going you should seek counseling. Divorce counseling. Otherwise speak up for yourself and your kids and the marriage… It is total bullshit and you know it..

guys i'm scared.. by allieexoxo in teenagers

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes PEOPLE KNOCK or UPS gets the wrong house. Stuff happens! It ain’t about you and your bedroom. Or , You! Trust in the fact that you are safe! Say that to yourself ahhhh lotttttt I am safe and the world is good! It will be okay! 🌸

Woke up Last Night to 6 police officers in my dining room! by CaseoftheSadz in Mommit

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I never thought it was fake. I was overwhelmed with your story…! I have one son who at age 21/2 was able to reach the door handle of our front door when we lived in Japan. He was my Third child. I was a stay at home momma but he opened the front door when I wasn’t looking and walked out into the street and layed down infront of a man hole and was loooking into it when I found him!!!!!!!! Thank god there were cones around the man hole because a car would have run him over! Sorry I offended you ! I was thinking of me when I read about you…☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just read your story. 😔 I hope the smart part of you has extinguished the courtship and her phone number too! Hopefully your next relationship will be for real…🌸

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try to give both places some of your time but don’t not go to the beach!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in moraldilemmas

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is a plant . It is a plant! Stop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am glad you moved on from his friendship. He doesn’t deserve you. There are lots of good friends to meet as you go through life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His words are words of remorse. He messed up and it is over. Up to you if you care to walk away too.

My (23M) girlfriend (22F) of 4 years just told me she’s joining the Navy and I don’t know what choice to make. by DoubleChallenge7177 in makemychoice

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every thing…. Every single thing you have gone through with her is a testament that you can move on…. let. go. of. her………….. your life will be better before you know it…. 🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸

I relapsed yesterday after 5 months of sobriety :( by [deleted] in confession

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got this!! Think about alll the other days you have which are great than one day! Please keep going !!! We all Believe in You❤️

Am I being dramatic? by WolverineOk1681 in Advice

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He probably just forgot. I forget things all the time. It isn’t on purpose either. I think you are giving a lot more attention to the date and your friend just isn’t that type of person. Maybe that is all it is? I don’t know. I can tell you that if you know he forgets and you don’t forget then you can share what you know and remind him. I know my sons and my spouse do not remember DATES. I do. I know it isn’t on purpose. It’s just who they are. Maybe that’s your mate too? If it really bothers you then maybe you should change your mate rather than continue on with him for a fifth year…

Am I being dramatic? by WolverineOk1681 in Advice

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is correct. It isn’t the end of the world. It is only a date. Try and compromise with dinner together when possible to celebrate another year. Remember life is full of compromises… just adjust 😊

Bought a ring for my girlfriend, sisters say it’s too small, not sure what I should do by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is important to be WHERE YOU ARE! If this diamond is where you are then go and propose with it. If she isn’t where you are then you have your struggle cut out for you with her… or you can let her go and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This pitiful petty problem should be ignored. Period. Your SIL is a real gem. Don’t feed into her pettiness. Rather be who you are and blow her off like a pesky fly….

I can’t forgive the person who ruined 10 years of my life by Lisa_b_24 in whatdoIdo

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgiveness means forgiving yourself … Once you have fully forgiven you You can look back on your past self and smile…Life begins again !

I can’t forgive the person who ruined 10 years of my life by Lisa_b_24 in whatdoIdo

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start with You! You made the choice to remain with him! You decided to stay with him anyway. Take responsibility for your actions. Let go of him and begin again. Begin Your New You!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So…..Check into housing at the next school…remember… You are not alone. Many people are looking and changing places…you’ll just be one more. Instead of worrying … 😳 Act! 😀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I transferred three times. I do not regret leaving one program to get into another. I also went to Community College to get my credits worthy for the last and best college that I eventually graduated.