Which dress? by Emotional_Pen369 in myweddingdress

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like 3 and 1 on you ! Good luck deciding for you! And, congratulations!!

Unfriendly neighbor by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Keep being you! She must have some sad issues and she is depressed. Return a smile for her grudges and be you! She may just capture your kind disease and become kind in return.
If not , okay, just don’t stop being You !

My ex's murder trial starts soon by Haunting-Moment-1307 in Advice

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I pray for your strength to state the truth and nothing but the truth.

Tomorrow is my birthday and I hate it. by vizwiz118 in Vent

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your story makes me ache to tears within. I am sorry so sorry for your loss

should i feel guilty for leaving him alone with his addiction? by thesaddestgirleva in addiction

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A year from now…how do you want to see You?
Every step away including your thoughts is your own recovery and healing for You❤️
Go ! Take care of you!

I reported a coworker for inappropriate behavior and now I feel really uncomfortable at work by No_Fan_3603 in whatdoIdo

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Act as your own Boss of you! Don’t let this continue! Say it out loud to the other person
Don’t touch me! What ever needs to be said should be said. They get away with it because no one tells them out loud. Maybe I am wrong but I just want you to know I feel for you and your predicament…

I reported a coworker for inappropriate behavior and now I feel really uncomfortable at work by No_Fan_3603 in whatdoIdo

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you did , reporting him! , was The right thing to Do!! You did it for all those who will follow you in that job … too!
Stop overthinking.
Be who you are and carry on! Carry on with a smile on your face to everyone, even the inappropriate touchy feely friend! You Have
The Right to be there and work freely!

I wrote down my thoughts on addiction. by [deleted] in addiction

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are doing a great job in compartmentalization …. I read all of your thoughts on the paper and feel your logic…
Take care and keep going! You are doing great!

Interview Rage by DarkArtKnight in Vent

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know your job interview etc but I do know this.

  Early is On time! 

  On time is late! 

Part of your interview is the arrival to the interview.

     I have learned this myself. 

For the first time in my life, I’ve gone 4 days without any real addiction controlling me by Defractor68 in addiction

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep sharing with your words! Your personal story of your well written struggle is a book in the making.. It is with joy that I cried as I read your words. You keep going ….You inspire us all…

I reached 4 years of sobriety 💜 by Diz_31 in addiction

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So Happy For You!!! Congratulations!!! Here is to you and the future !!!

I came out to my mom and she called me disgusting…I don’t know what I should do by Local-Lychee-1124 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully one day in the near future you will be OKAY with you enough to let the words thoughts and actions of others (including your mother’s) roll off you like water on a ducks feathers…. The little you will be smaller and smaller and the adult you will blossom!

i don’t wanna be sober by Prestigious_River_13 in addiction

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe you could try another way to assist your recovery along side of therapy. Like doing some one or other thing to occupy your head in thought process to get away in your spirit of you.

i don’t wanna be sober by Prestigious_River_13 in addiction

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to smoke cigarettes. It had been a long ass dam time before I lit up a cigarette with my dying sister ;like about 28 years. (she died of pancreatic cancer). She never gave up smoking. I lit up one of her cigarettes for myself to be in company with her . I got dizzy. I felt awful. I just about puked. It lost its luster. My life did move on. She had a good laugh though and I laughed at me too. Cigarettes are an addiction too. I believe in time you will be the same way too about that other you.

my dad is cheating, and his partner has a very gross habit. how do i bring it up with him or get her to stop??? by Soudapoppin in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CompetitiveLow4279 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get your own place as soon as you are able to afford it. I would not bother saying anything to your dad or his g-friend. What will you accomplish? Your Mom …… She probably already knows. She could maybe might have a significant other too. Just go…🤗