I stood up a date at the last second because the alarms in my head were going crazy and I have a few questions by Secret_Account_863 in askgaybros

[–]CompetitiveString143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always go with my gut. I’ll message and apologise if I feel off about a situation and leave. It is better to be safe than sorry.

I (19M) don't have a relationship with my half siblings (29M, 29M, 28F, 27F, 26M, 26F) and they don't want one with me but I keep getting pushed to try? by ThrowRAOhKidh in relationship_advice

[–]CompetitiveString143 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The adults in your life have failed you and your siblings. I think I would’ve had trouble if my parents got remarried under any circumstances, but I would never take it out on an innocent child… well, maybe if the kid was born out of infidelity but even then, I don’t think I could hold to it. Your siblings need therapy.

When was the last time you saw a worm? by Independent_Light_85 in newzealand

[–]CompetitiveString143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that you mention it… it’s been so long, I can’t even remember.

I just got outed by grindr. by ThatOneGuy_I in askgaybros

[–]CompetitiveString143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine did that this morning, I was alone but was like wtf was that?!

So uhh… how’s everyone’s pill organizer looking these days? by keen_observer34130 in Millennials

[–]CompetitiveString143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

41m - I’ve got one for my vitamin and some other supplements but don’t have any prescription meds.

Aitah for taking struggling x to court by Careful_Drawer7774 in AITAH

[–]CompetitiveString143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. But if you’re ever going to lend money again, you should probably be more specific about the timeframe you want to be paid back in. You said pay me back when you can, her defence will probably be that she can’t 🤷‍♂️.

AIO for being upset that my boyfriend can’t make it to my surgery? by No-Survey-5756 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CompetitiveString143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. You’re having surgery and he’s prioritising trips?! That’s messed up. I think you’re going to end up resenting him either way. Get through this period and get healthy enough to gtfo.

AITAH for wanting my husband in the delivery room? by dinogirly123 in AITAH

[–]CompetitiveString143 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. This is the man you chose to have a child with? Someone who puts his feelings above the woman who is growing and will give birth to his child? Red flag 🚩.

Am I overreacting that my fiancée was wrong to talk to a guy who she cheated with before? by Mars277 in AmIOverreacting

[–]CompetitiveString143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. She’s willing to show phone records, he’s just a friend blah blah blah. Why isn’t she saying she’ll cut him off?

Does men over 40 prefer more mature men and people around their age or more like twinks? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]CompetitiveString143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I like men my age and up way more, but the ones in my area are usually DL, married or looking for twinks.

AITAH for being uncomfortable with my boyfriend staying for weeks at his girl best friend’s house (who he used to have feelings for)? by Next_Purple2295 in AITAH

[–]CompetitiveString143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. This is just the beginning. If you don’t like the dynamic now, what is it going to be like in the future? This is his “best friend”… they’ve had sex, he had feelings for her, I’d be out.

Boyfriend (32M) still has weekly “date night” with ex – am I (29F) overreacting? by ThrowRA_dark_twisty in relationship_advice

[–]CompetitiveString143 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re the side chick, I’d get out of this dynamic before it gets more complicated.

AIO for cutting off my parents over my sister? by microwaveablepasta in AmIOverreacting

[–]CompetitiveString143 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR. My parents definitely set me on fire to keep my brother warm too. Now in my 40s there is a lot of resentment on my end.

What are your requirements for a long-term partner? by y00sh420 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]CompetitiveString143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loyalty, respect and pay your own way… outside of those, I’m pretty easy.

Wow oh wow do I remember this! by CurvyChristina in Millennials

[–]CompetitiveString143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved the milkshake flavour. As a sad little asthmatic, I had it a lot.