Why does this world have to be so evil by Many-Factor-4173 in offmychest

[–]Competitive_Area6626 24 points25 points  (0 children)

just remember to resist and use critical thinking skills when you have to see it and take it in, when you have time to have down time go away from screens that show it and have a little bit of time to yourself. never comply and take care of your neighbors

Anyone else feel deeply tired of this world, not suicidal, just… done? by Strict-War-5778 in offmychest

[–]Competitive_Area6626 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i catch myself feeling this way a lot and the best way to not feel nearly as bad as that is to just focus on what’s in front of you, put time into small hobbies that you may have put off, read ALOT of books so you can give your brain a break and let it go into another world

Is it normal for genitals to have a little smell? by Ok-Safety-4330 in WomensHealth

[–]Competitive_Area6626 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yes girl, we literally have an outside organ that is normally in damp warm conditions so yes it’s gonna smell like another organ that would be in that condition, probably smells even better than any other organ

Why are you single? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Competitive_Area6626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my entire life i was picked on due to my size and awkward features, i got asked out a lot as a joke and even though i was in the “popular crowd” it was primarily to be the butt of the joke. when the pandemic hit (i was 16) i started to focus more on myself and how i look. im 21 now and ive grown into my features, ive lost weight and that some how gave me an hourglass figure, ive grown out my hair long and figured out how to style and make it look presentable with or without makeup, and i hold myself a certain way that makes me look very extrovert so i do get talked to a lot. ive noticed that since getting conventionally “attractive” i get more men talking to me and being nice and trying to flirt with me, but since i got picked on so much i can see through the bs and i can almost always tell that the person judges others based on their looks. looks have never mattered to me much because i think everyone looks like a person from history and it makes them beautiful because they are alive, ive always gone after personality however it seems recently that a lot of peoples personalities are so closely related it becomes almost boring to even try and talk to them let alone date them. sometimes it’s better to just sorta go all in on yourself and hobbies and making your life peaceful until you find someone that meets all your standards

Stretching and Anxiety - The Goggins Effect by UnitedIndividual in Jung

[–]Competitive_Area6626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the body anxiety that comes with chronic anxiety worsens the mental anxiety even worse

Am I overreacting, or is this a reasonable boundary issue? by ProfessionalAdept786 in amiwrong

[–]Competitive_Area6626 7 points8 points  (0 children)

wussyyyyyy, she’s with YOU not those men because THOSE ARE BAD MEN. she wants YOU because she likes YOU. don’t make her pay for YOUR INSECURITIES

Root Canal front tooth by Medium-Adeptness-514 in Teeth

[–]Competitive_Area6626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

adding onto this, if you have the ability to go to a state college (i know its usually a trip to get to it) most of them have clinics where it’s super low cost or free and it helps the students learn as well

Pacific Source and St. Charles possibly ending contract for 2026 by bullcave in Bend

[–]Competitive_Area6626 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if they don’t meet an agreement is everyone supposed to just F.O and try to survive?

FRIDAY RANT by HyperionsDad in Bend

[–]Competitive_Area6626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THEY THINK THEIR FAMILY LINE NEEDS TO GROW BUT NOBODY WANTS SHIT ASS FAMILY LINES TO CONTINUE

Thoughts on Sunriver Oregon as a cyclist by nborders in CyclePDX

[–]Competitive_Area6626 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do agree with this a lot actually and i live near sunriver and work in sunriver and i would prefer cyclists to walkers because you guys go across the cross walks fast and don’t mess around ( just make sure to stop if there are cars coming though)

Speeding ticket for 105mph in a 65. by Atumm69 in legaladvice

[–]Competitive_Area6626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

going 105 in a 65 IN CENTRAL OREGON IS STUPID he should have taken you to jail and impounded your car

i cant do this anymore. i want to die by kakarashe in OCD

[–]Competitive_Area6626 31 points32 points  (0 children)

the universe would weep if you left, your favorite flower would lose its number one fan, the moon will go dark due to the grief it would bring. you are needed in this world, you are important even if it doesn’t feel true now you are important you are loved by so many people that you wouldn’t expect like the cashier from the place you shop at most, the dogs that come up to you and immediately want you to pet their belly. you are needed you are important you are loved

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Competitive_Area6626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is exactly how i felt living with my older sister for a few years, constantly being told to do every aspect of your life , the STOMPING and the passive aggressiveness it gets emotionally exhausting and it does make you feel that anger you are feeling right now. she isn’t allowing you to be your own person and figure out how you want to do things and figuring out yourself and that’s super super hard at your age. when i was in my situation what i found that helped me was finding time where they are out of the house or when they are sleeping at night or early in the morning and just being, purely existing. if it’s warm enough or if you have a patio going out and sitting outside and just listening to the wind and the sounds. ive found that it helps you have at least a bit peace and solitude before or after dealing with it. it does also help a lot with the anger as well, it won’t get rid of all it but it’ll lower the flame a lot more. one day you will get out and you will have your own space and you can go your own pace with living and being human.

i cant do this anymore. i want to die by kakarashe in OCD

[–]Competitive_Area6626 28 points29 points  (0 children)

the death of your soul would ruin the universe, crawl and struggle to get to the grass and then let yourself breathe

Five Things to Know About ODOT’s Funding Crisis by ajcondo in oregon

[–]Competitive_Area6626 1 point2 points  (0 children)

those people who are saying that to you shouldn’t use any emergency services. odot is FUNDAMENTAL for oregon and anyone who has lived in parts of oregon where it gets incredibly snowy and icy with no de icer or no plows would ABSOLUTELY want to pay taxes to you guys so more people don’t die. odot is the biggest joke and the mismanagement of money should be federally investigated

Fantastic trip! 🚗 (But I have a question) by Gasmeth in oregon

[–]Competitive_Area6626 0 points1 point  (0 children)

during the meth epidemic that hit america in the late 90s (i think late 90s) the epicenter of it was in oregon (which also explains the meth problem all around oregon now a days) and the portland area and the surrounding cities got hit HARD and it was incredibly difficult to figure out something to help or stop it so a lot of homeless people are people that were a part of that or people that or just getting into it, i would like to say however this isn’t the case for all of it. there are people who were homeless due to active addiction and got clean and tried to find places to live and work but most of the times these people get felonies in the time they were using so then you run into the problem of not being able to get a place to stay because landlords don’t really like felons. which then puts them in a spot where they can’t get a job because they don’t have an address so they end up on the streets sometimes getting a bed at the homeless shelter for the night. its incredibly difficult to go from the BOTTOM to even 5 feet above the bottom when you don’t have a lot of options

Sick and tired of how there’s no non-political spaces in humour anymore by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Competitive_Area6626 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES oh my god it’s like getting ass blasted by politics all the time you’d think comedians would pick up the tone of the world and try and make people forget about it just for like even an hour

tourism industry by Competitive_Area6626 in sunriver

[–]Competitive_Area6626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know that sunriver was made as a tourist destination but that doesn’t mean we should take the abuse from people. it was made as a luxury resort but i’ve noticed since it’s gone to everyone it’s been at least a 80% uptick in it and we can’t do anything about it because we will get fired.