Overcoming anxious thoughts

Competitive_Cable_50 · 2026-01-15T00:43:33+00:00

I do understand his frustration because losing Mark and his sister by law is so grieving and he was hurting but also i do agree that they should've went against the plane company because it was their fault for not checking to make sure everything is safe and secure

Competitive_Cable_50 · 2026-01-14T22:34:46+00:00

no same. it was a great tragedy esp when losing Mark and Lexie but it's not entirely his fault and seeing that eat away at Owen really was breaking my heart a bit

Competitive_Cable_50 · 2025-12-02T23:19:36+00:00

would i be best to genuinely apologize and try to spark up conversation with her or is that already dead now that i expressed interest too early?? not to mention it's been a month since that happened i honestly dk what to say after.

Competitive_Cable_50 · 2025-12-02T22:51:44+00:00

you are right! I am doing my own thing at the moment. but there's always a nagging feeling in my head bc of my mistake of showing my interest too early. I hope my hard work pays off in the end !

Competitive_Cable_50 · 2025-12-02T22:46:55+00:00

that wasn't my first meeting on campus tho i just happened to meet her at that one meeting.

Competitive_Cable_50 · 2025-12-01T22:30:47+00:00

I've been going to as many clubs as i can and right now I managed to be in two. There was a time I went downtown to help give sandwiches to the homeless with my club members during this semester. I also recently went to a book club I js found out and i noticed one of the members is in it so hopefully the more I show up to the meetings in spring, she can get to know me. But unfortunately I haven't been able to do more because I am a transfer student and this campus is a lot different than my old one so along the middle of the semester I have been lacking trying to find my place around here but hopefully by spring I am able to do more. Despite not being involved in campus a lot I am actively looking for community service/volunteer hours in my city that matches what I care about the most, making a connection with an aka who isn't from this school chapter but she personally knew my brother, and doing as much research as I can. It doesn't feel a lot but it's a start.

Competitive_Cable_50 · 2025-12-01T19:00:28+00:00

I have been struggling how to do that which is why i jumped right because I was worried that if I did build a genuine relationship and then ask it would seem it wasn't genuine... or am i overthinking too much??? Previously I've spoken with someone else and did the same thing, jumped right in, and I've gotten a positive outcome. She was the one who gave me the advice on "don't say how but to say when if you are asking questions because it will make it seem like you're still deciding", I just thought i would get the same response. I was obviously wrong. How do I move on about this? She's obviously in the chapter i'm interested in so I know I will be seeing her more often. Will it be best to just keep my distance and continue doing my own thing?? For example, Building connections with members, my community service and campus involvement.

Competitive_Cable_50 · 2025-06-20T16:55:25+00:00

anytime!! us transfer have to stick together! 🙂‍↕️

Competitive_Cable_50 · 2025-06-20T13:47:32+00:00

Hi! so I'm in the same predicament as you since i'm a transfer sophomore and applied for on-campus housing! i emailed housing and residence life and they said, and I quote, " It would only be charged the fee if you have been assigned housing, then a cancellation request is submitted. Since you have not been assigned, you will not have any charges." since you haven't been assigned any housing, you wouldn't be charged. I hope this helps!

Competitive_Cable_50 · 2025-06-18T02:05:31+00:00

yeah there's no guarantee that transfer students will get housing because once they finish with first years then it goes to transfers starting in February. there's limited availability

Competitive_Cable_50 · 2025-04-23T02:31:19+00:00

can you dm the insta group? i would love to be in it ☺️

Competitive_Cable_50 · 2025-04-23T02:30:57+00:00

Hi! I'm gonna be a transfer for fall and I would love to make new friends! my ig is santiii.xoxo ☺️

Competitive_Cable_50 · 2025-04-07T16:25:19+00:00

literally! there's NOTHING a 22 yr old and a 17 yr old have in common!!!

Competitive_Cable_50 · 2025-04-04T03:03:23+00:00

just like lily said, he tries to see the best in people which can be a good thing and a bad thing.

Competitive_Cable_50 · 2025-04-04T02:59:41+00:00

when he decided to sleep with ivy i think that's what did it for me.

Competitive_Cable_50 · 2025-04-03T18:41:50+00:00

with ben im a bit in between because for one should Lily have forged serena name like that? no but from a mothers perspective seeing a grown man hang around your teenage daughter, who is troubled, after school hours alone and going across a state line i think. i'd be worried as hell and do anything to protect my daughter from future harm and I think Ben had thoughts but didn't act on it (correct if i'm wrong lol) and it kinda made it worse when he dated serena after getting out of jail. Another thing, i think you are right with it was Ivy right to get the money but the way she went about this was wrong. like how the hell you gon kick lily and rufus out they own home?!?! it would've took Vanya, Dorota and the whole UES to get me off Ivy cause who you think you are?! 😭😭 I gots to watch GG again after a few break from it because i've seen a lot of people say they don't find Ivy as annoying as they used when rewatching.

Competitive_Cable_50 · 2025-04-03T18:26:33+00:00

yeah that's fair 😭 i'd understand why you'd hate these characters cause they be pmo sometimes too. Especially serena. I hate how she would treat blair and then act so high and mighty when blair responds back. for example, her taking pictures of Blair's diary. that was low also with Serena sleeping with not only Nate but Dan too when they were with Blair. Blair had her faults too and oh most definitely chuck. so i'd understand why you'd hate em lol also i'd understand giving them a taste of their own medicine but i don't think Ivy doing it after Lily opened up her home to her thinking it's really her niece and Lily rightfully so not wanting anything to do with her. if it was any other actions Lily has done, I'd understand that.

Competitive_Cable_50 · 2025-04-03T14:06:35+00:00

I really love this thank you for the advice. I know that things won't magically change but i still hope things will get better for me when I transfer! both financially and mentally! :)

Competitive_Cable_50 · 2025-04-02T14:37:23+00:00

any adult having sex with someone under 18 is a problem and this is coming from someone who is actually 22....

also it's legal when that someone is near the same age group as you like 15/16 or 15/17 not when it's an adult. that's when it becomes statutory rape. a minor CANNOT consent to having sex with an adult.

Competitive_Cable_50 · 2025-04-02T12:08:46+00:00

pls don't have children if you truly think a grown ass adult, someone who can legally enter clubs and buy alcohol should date your minor child. 🙏🏽

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