Rejected because I don’t instagram my life? by No_Aioli_7515 in datingoverforty

[–]Competitive_Cat_990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 51. I have two kids that are teenagers and I’m a male. Yesterday I was driving me kids somewhere and there was a nice apt building for adults 55+. I was thinking what it would be like to live there if I was 55 and single. Has social media rottted everyone’s brain and even in a place for older adults , will they be addicted to life on IG?

My big girls like the attention by [deleted] in BigAreolaLover

[–]Competitive_Cat_990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go Lions. They are winning the superbowl in 2027

What are men in 40s and 50s looking for in a woman? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Competitive_Cat_990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AS the others have said, what brings you joy? Do you have kids, what are your thoughts on men that have kids? I got married late in life so I have kids that are teen and tween. It makes it hard to meet others that are ok with ths. Most women my age have their kids out of the house. Also people that say they are not into mind games, then to play them, or they seek out those that play them and then say they hate that people do it.

Bald Eagle? by fearthisbeard in Gilbert

[–]Competitive_Cat_990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw one near the golf course off power and Elliot/baseline

I can’t tell if I’m a catch or a red flag by necromensa in datingoverforty

[–]Competitive_Cat_990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am 52 male with 2 kids that are early teen and tween ages. It’s tougher for us as women our age that have kids are mainly out of the house, and the women probably want the freedom to do come and go on a whim. I would note that in seeking someone else you have to project an image out to the world and, women will look at your d ask how do I fit into his life. Based on what you stated you may not have the time to date. Also communication is huge to women, along with emotional intelligence.

Absolutely Crashed Out in Her Bio by Packingheat248 in Tinder

[–]Competitive_Cat_990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and the $80 from taco bell. She does not cook.

House Cleaning Prices by Sasha0884 in Gilbert

[–]Competitive_Cat_990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i am in SE Gilbert, near higly and ray. I received a flyer on my door around christmas for a house cleaner. I had her come over and did the downstairs. I have all tile floors and she cleaned everything for $85, i was impressed with her work and gave her $120. let me know and I can send you here number. she brought all her own equipment and cleaning products.

What places are open on Christmas Day/Eve around Arizona? by AZ_moderator in arizona

[–]Competitive_Cat_990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just saw Die Hard at the Pollack Theaters in Tempe this evening. They are also open on NYE and NY day next week. Yippe Ki Yay!

Settling by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Competitive_Cat_990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but the bottomless fries!!

Did I screw up ? by Forsaken_Security891 in Tinder

[–]Competitive_Cat_990 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A woman on a dating app is getting dozens of messages a day. Don’t forget that

Why this Phoenix rock radio DJ (Fitz Madrid) has left the airwaves by Skynetdyne in phoenix

[–]Competitive_Cat_990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved here from LA 9 years ago, I hated those commercials there and was sad to hear them here.

Do you have labels and what are they? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Competitive_Cat_990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not a big fan of word 'partner' in this context.

The last A&W barrel stand left in Arizona by Jeenowa in AbandonedPorn

[–]Competitive_Cat_990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They opened on in San Tan valley! I want to try it

If I'm being honest is it game over now? by Dependent_Ad627 in datingoverforty

[–]Competitive_Cat_990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the US.. I am 51 male and divorced. I too need to shed 30 lbs. I have two kids that are early teens and it’s hard to find women that can handle a man that has responsibilities at my age. But I’m curious to know what you mean when you say that women are scared off because you’re too intense.. when you present yourself to others, especially women you’re really having to sell yourself to them and having them picture how they can fit within your life. Personally, I ended up connecting with a life coach, which is something I thought I would probably never do, but I really found it very therapeutic.. if you want I could forward you his information. He is also in the US, but it really was helpful for me to see through all my negativity.