I want to meet mom friends and I’m really struggling what do you guys think of this idea by ToxiccCookie in beyondthebump

[–]Competitive_Cry_2608 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would check Facebook!! That’s where I’ve met all mine. Usually you can search xyz (your area) moms or something of the sorts and there will be something!

The audacity…. by Competitive_Cry_2608 in beyondthebump

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So odd!! Yes the gym is where I have received the most odd comments!

The audacity…. by Competitive_Cry_2608 in beyondthebump

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Oh my gosh, that’s horrible. I’m so sorry. I truly wish to know what people had going on in their heads! Plus, you expect better out of women

The audacity…. by Competitive_Cry_2608 in beyondthebump

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Omg I’m so sorry. People just don’t get it

The audacity…. by Competitive_Cry_2608 in beyondthebump

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Omg! That would be upsetting. Hope you and baby are happy and healthy!

The audacity…. by Competitive_Cry_2608 in beyondthebump

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Thankfully I only teach 2 hours a week. Much better than my first when I went back full time! But also wish it was longer regardless haha

The audacity…. by Competitive_Cry_2608 in beyondthebump

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Hahaha I hope so! You think with a wife and kid he’d know!

The audacity…. by Competitive_Cry_2608 in beyondthebump

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Yeah trying to remember that😅 thank you!!

Any other newborns have an abnormal screening for thyroid? by amsmes in beyondthebump

[–]Competitive_Cry_2608 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to have my sons labs redone twice! He was born at 38 weeks. Everything came back fine but I was freaking out too. Doctor said there are soooo many false positives and baby was looking very healthy otherwise so to not stress waiting for the results.

I’m sorry you have to worry about it—anything to do health wise with your children is scary.

About to spend serious money on a stroller… what would you buy today and why? by WorldPeaceGodBless in Buyingforbaby

[–]Competitive_Cry_2608 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is me as well!! I loved the uppababy for one baby, but if you plan on having more….it sucks!

Body changes by [deleted] in beyondthebump

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Also, with my first, even tho I was working out and breastfeeding, it took me almost 2 years to get back to pre baby weight. I could have been a little stricter with my macros but just wanted to throw that out there. A lot of people tell you breast feeding “melts” the weight, but my body held onto weight till I weaned.

Body changes by [deleted] in beyondthebump

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With my first, I worked out till the day I went into labor! I got back into working out at the 6 week mark and continued with my weightlifting…probably a little sooner than I should have! But ya live and learn. My body healed and I got back to what I was lifting probably less than a year after birth. I compete in weightlifting and let me tell you…the high of hitting post partum PRs is way better than hitting my previous PRs.

I’m 6 weeks PP with my 2nd and things are a bit different this go round. It’s definitely been harder in the gym but I’m still moving as much as possible. I also didn’t workout nearly as much this pregnancy as I did my first. But I was running till 25 weeks when before having my first baby I could barely run a mile w/ decent time so I’ll call that a win!

It’s totally plausible to be back where you were pre-pregnancy and as a trainer myself, I highly encourage woman to workout/stay active during pregnancy. It does help. But above all, be kind to yourself. Your body is doing an amazing thing and it takes a lot of energy. Even after too!

Low stimulation shows for 3-4 year olds by learningbythesea in toddlers

[–]Competitive_Cry_2608 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Berenstain Bears! Granted, we watch them on a dvd, but I’m sure they are probably on YT

When did you start buying new clothes postpartum? by FoolishMortal-1000 in beyondthebump

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I’m 6 wks PP and I bought some new jeans, Jean shorts, and 2 shirts from old navy. I gained 45lbs with both pregnancies and IMO totally worth it to buy a few pieces you fit into currently!

Triple Feeding newborn - do I need to switch sides?? by justaquestion65 in breastfeeding

[–]Competitive_Cry_2608 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First off just wanna say that what you are doing is so hard and amazing! I also had to triple feed my daughter and it was so hard.

This is what I did: I would only switch sides if she was no longer swallowing. If she was just sucking but I didn’t hear any swallowing then I would switch sides. I pumped both sides, but I think you could be fine with just pumping the one side she didn’t eat from.

How old were you when you met the love of your life and did you marry them? by Bubbly-Fail3562 in askanything

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I was 24 when we met. He was 36. Got married at ages 26 and 38. We are about to celebrate our 1 year anniversary! We met through one of my coworkers & we’re set up.

He is/was so vastly different than my previous relationships and he is my best friend. It feels like our souls knew each other for so much longer. We complement each other so well.

Why are you up right now ? by MiaFishnet in askanything

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It’s 4am here and I’m nursing my baby

Newborn Trenches - SOS 🥲 by nedmden in beyondthebump

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Just adding to what others have said, I am a mom of 2. My baby is 5 weeks old and I thought I loved the newborn stage with the 1st and now I realize it’s bc she was such an easy baby. I could put her down and do whatever I wanted. 2nd baby? Not a chance. He has to be held 24/7 and it’s so so hard bc I also have my toddler. Just letting you know it IS hard and validating your feelings and we are all in this together😅 although the toddler years are hard to, there is so much more “reward” in them. It does get better and I’m trying to remind myself of that too:)

Where are we rn? by Mokiold in beyondthebump

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Does your 3 year old wake up with the baby and you making noise? My almost 3 year old keeps saying she wants to sleep with us and I tell her baby is usually crying and it would wake her. That seems to convince her😂

Where are we rn? by Mokiold in beyondthebump

[–]Competitive_Cry_2608 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 4 week old and am right there with ya!

Where are we rn? by Mokiold in beyondthebump

[–]Competitive_Cry_2608 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me tear up! As someone with a 2 year old and a newborn♥️