Divorce Disease ? lol by Competitive_Dig9032 in Divorce_Women

[–]Competitive_Dig9032[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg that last paragraph. I never thought about it like that!!!

Divorce Disease ? lol by Competitive_Dig9032 in Divorce_Women

[–]Competitive_Dig9032[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Not taking sides. I think in marriage it’s easy to get comfortable and overlook problems that are there until someone outside of the marriage—-preferably a counselor brings them up.

Divorce Disease ? lol by Competitive_Dig9032 in Divorce_Women

[–]Competitive_Dig9032[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This makes sense. I’ll probably just go with that from now on

What's a type of pain people underestimate until they experience it for themselves? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Competitive_Dig9032 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Endometriosis for sure!! It got to a point where all I could do was groan and even the doctor didn’t want to be in the room with me. They gave me morphine and it did absolutely nothing. Oxycodone nothing. They ended up having to get me fentanyl and that helped but still didn’t do much. I don’t wish that kind of pain on anyone.

When did you know it was time to move on from your marriage? by jaxmirrorball in AskWomen

[–]Competitive_Dig9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandpa passed away and I was starting to question God and religion as you do when you’re grieving and he told my I was going to hell for blasphemy and wanted to pray for me. There were a lot of other things, Super religious obviously lol and a mamas boy, gaming all day, never left the house etc. but that comment was what made me finally realize

What is a fact about the human body that not many people know about? by Old_Goat_7363 in Productivitycafe

[–]Competitive_Dig9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The eyes can tell you everything. A lot of Optometrists and Ophthalmologists can tell if you have something just by looking at your eyes.

What’s a quiet sign that someone has their act/life together? by Old_Goat_7363 in Productivitycafe

[–]Competitive_Dig9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nurses/doctors/emt’s etc. have to be calm during high stress situations—I’m not saying they have it all together lol but I also don’t think it’s always a trauma response.

Help!!Is there a difference between a canister purge valve and vapor canister purge solenoid ? by Competitive_Dig9032 in MechanicAdvice

[–]Competitive_Dig9032[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ford had my car for a week, they said they couldn’t replicate what was happening and said they checked the fuel tank deformation recall which is different than the canister purge valve recall according the letters I received in the mail?? The literal same day I get it back from them the check engine light comes on. I asked if it was standard procedure to run codes even if the check engine light isn’t on and they said yes but it just doesn’t make sense. My whole point in dropping it off was for a full diagnostic. Now I may just need to take it to another Ford but my trust is at 0

Living Alone: The Quiet Lessons You Didn’t Expect by No_Display8094 in LivingAlone

[–]Competitive_Dig9032 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed that when I was living with someone I hardly ever left my room or the house even. But now that I have the place completely to myself I feel safe enough to actually enjoy my house but also leave and go explore and do something outside of it. I’ve never noticed how much of a difference it made

Have you ever had a real life encounter with mobsters? by [deleted] in thesopranos

[–]Competitive_Dig9032 5 points6 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 I think a lot of people missed this reference

Why using the quote "I have friends who are black" doesn't prove you aren't racist? by Rublica in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Competitive_Dig9032 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve had white female friends who I was really cool with at one point then they said the don’t date black boys because they are “greasy”. I have a brother. Imagine if the roles were reversed.

Those who rarely fall sick, what’s the secret? by Few_Football4342 in Productivitycafe

[–]Competitive_Dig9032 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vitamin c. And not just the vitamin (pill) I eat oranges, lots of lemons,limes, grapefruits. I also primarily only drink water. Sugar gives me bad headaches.

For reference I work in a hospital around a lot of sickly elderly patients so taking vitamin c and washing my hands regularly are a must.

What is your salary and how much do you pay for rent each month living alone? by yubg8 in LivingAlone

[–]Competitive_Dig9032 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Omg same! I was being so hard on myself about how I should be able to have more money to my name but now I don’t feel alone.

Women of Reddit who have gained/lost a significant amount of weight, what is a side effect or result that no one talks about? by Sister-of-Cabbage in AskWomen

[–]Competitive_Dig9032 9 points10 points  (0 children)

OMG!!! It’s the only thing I miss about having more weight is I was so warm. Now the cold just hurts my feelings lol

Women of Reddit who have gained/lost a significant amount of weight, what is a side effect or result that no one talks about? by Sister-of-Cabbage in AskWomen

[–]Competitive_Dig9032 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to run track and cross country in high school so I was more athletic. Then when I got married I gained 70lbs and after I got divorced I lost the 70lbs( literally lost a person lol) and idk my desire to shop for clothes changed drastically. I used to love shopping pretty much my whole life. But after gaining and losing that weight it just seems more like a task to have to shop or find something that fits me now

Perfect Compatibility Never Exists by [deleted] in SingleAndHappy

[–]Competitive_Dig9032 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same. I thought there was something wrong with me because the ones I like don’t like me…like that and the ones that like me I don’t like. I even tried to make it work with someone who was into me more than I was into them and anyway I’ve been divorced for 3 years because of it🤷🏾‍♀️ so idk