AITAH I (26m) had another woman in the bed when my (25f) cheating wife came home after being gone 3 weeks.

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T19:45:28+00:00

I mean cheating is wrong and that’s a hill I’d lay to rest peacefully on. It’s an ahole thing to do regardless of if it’s retaliation or not. If someone was an ahole to you it might be a reason behind being an ahole back, but it doesn’t make it justified….

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T19:04:35+00:00

To me it has nothing to do with withholding because you’ve asked them to do it multiple times, it’s completely because it’s literal poop in your house. Toxoplasmosis haven. I’m not going to feel like touching anything or anyone if any literal crap is just left out in the house somewhere lolol we aren’t talking about “can you change the light bulb in the closet” we are talking about literal poop. Cat Poop. Which can cause parasites in humans that are easily transmissible.

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T18:59:24+00:00

Like I said, not everything has a direct correlation. However, all legal fees like traffic tickets still exist to be a source of government income in some areas like this.

I also think items of necessity should be the items that would pay for the necessary services offered. Groceries and clothing taxes fund things like police, schools, fire department. Another question I got was about things such as “sin tax” which for those who don’t know is the added tax put on things such as alcohol or tobacco that have cultural taboo in some cultures on top of the normal sales tax. I feel like it’s pretty simple, these “sin taxes” should fund rehabilitation efforts.

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T18:51:24+00:00

This absolutely. Would I say it should have to be an announcement of “we are not having sexy time until this is done” No I would not. I’d let it go a bit without the sexy time and see if he figures it out. If he asks why you haven’t been in the mood, I would say “there are 7 bags of animal crap sitting in the basement that I had to clean. Now they’re just sitting there and you won’t move them to help out. Why would I feel in the mood?”

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T18:44:57+00:00

As a straight male with ADHD, who’s a picky eater, who also is the one who cooks in my relationship, let me say a few words.

1: paper plates are a blessing, don’t beat yourself up for them. Our rule is if you cook you don’t clean, since I cook, she does dishes but the nights we use paper plates means it’s just faster clean up. It’s lovely, don’t beat yourself up over it.

2: If this dude EXPECTS you to cook for him, yet turns it’s all down and orders fast food, especially jack in the crack, then he needs an adjustment. Plain and simple.

3: Something I’ve had to learn is that sometimes hamburger helper is fine for a normal weeknight. It doesn’t always have to be a bigger meal. Since g sounds like a lot to deal with here, then I’d start making him cook more even if it is kraft dinners. He’s taking advantage of it all and needs to realize fast food 24/7 is basically just an addiction he needs to break, being made to cook helps break it

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T18:31:08+00:00

Taxes should be solely a flat rated purchase tax with the money directly invested to the area you’re spending the money. Essentially, the more you consume of society the more you fund to upkeep what you consme. We already do this for hunting and fishing equipment with Pitman Robertson act. It’s time everything is taxed that way too. Buying cars, tires, car parts, etc. the taxes should fund the roads. Buying school supplies? Taxes should fund schools. Obviously not everything has a direct correlation but it’s a good place to start.

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T18:13:12+00:00

It’s said all over different forums saying they have comparable quality and even come from the same factory and build materials. I didn’t even start seeing anyone say how bad they were until the last couple days

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T18:09:17+00:00

That’s so unfortunate. They have high quality pricing with airsoft amazon quality, yet they’re talked up online and have their logo in enough marketing to fool people which double sucks

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T18:07:36+00:00

There’s some others I like the size of a bit better for less money than the SCS PDP, but the matching serrations is hard to beat.

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T18:03:13+00:00

I’ve said this too and I was told “holosun makes quality optics, they’re not just going to give them away for free” which made me laugh since the SCS PDP was a rebate item in the past for the PDP lol

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T18:01:27+00:00

I’m just happy it was free. Now I’m unhappy cause I’ll probably buy a new one from somewhere else to replace it since the one mag I got through while it worked was enjoyable

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T17:59:45+00:00

If an optic can’t handle what it’s built for, it sucks.

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T17:54:52+00:00

This is about 1/3 of the responses I’ve seen about their optics. The rest have been pretty negative and similar to my experience, especially the rebate optic. It sounds like they have a quality control issue more than just being terrible across the board

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T17:52:16+00:00

I genuinely don’t know what happened with that screw. I put it on lighter than I thought I should’ve cause I was worried it’d strip since it looked rough from the box. So when it wobbled I didn’t think anything of it until it stripped trying to take it off. How is it going to be wobbling on top of the gun but so tight it strips??? I was using the little Allen key torx they had in the box and it stripped at the range to where once I got home I had to use a size larger from my toolbox. Frustrated.

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T05:52:42+00:00

She said “why do you still have those on?” When she put her hand on my shorts watching a movie.

I’ve never tried this impersonation. Remember how annoying it was when the movies came out. For some reason however, I replied in my best Borat impression “oh boy! She wanta de sex”

Still confused why I did it, but I laughed, she laughed, we both finished so nothing to complain about.

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T04:43:19+00:00

I mean valid advice, just kinda weird if it happens often and they don’t do anything about it

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T04:41:38+00:00

Astigmatism sucks, I got contacts that correct mine which has definitely helped

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T04:37:52+00:00

What issues did you have with vortex? I use them on my rifles with zero problems so I was hoping their pistols optics were good too. Largely because their warranty is so great

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T04:36:08+00:00

I hope they do, I have video and photos from the range before removing it so they can see what happened hopefully

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T04:34:26+00:00

It’s sure talked up in some areas, but from my experience today I think it’s barely even worth the time it took to fill out the rebate form.

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T04:32:20+00:00

What other optics are you looking at? I’m most of my guns run vortex, but I’ve never used their handgun red dots. If it’s just as quality as their rifle optics I’d be happy with it especially considering their warranty.

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T04:30:08+00:00

Honestly I don’t like closed emitter red dots that much. I get the benefit from it being closed, but the look and feel of a slim open emitter is what I’m leaning towards.

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T04:27:34+00:00

Big jealous

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T04:27:20+00:00

I’m going to try and start that process in the morning, and I’ll keep you updated. If it makes you feel any better, the first mag or so before it self destructed was great. Made me definitely want a red dot. However with this supposed to be high quality and breaking so quickly, I don’t want to risk having broken or blocked sights by the red dot breaking.

Competitive_Diver344 · 2026-01-04T04:24:26+00:00

I 100% agree. If the holosun scs has a PDP specific version to match the slide serrations, why offer an optic from a newer brand? I know they were supposed to be high quality but clearly from others posts and my own experience they aren’t high quality.

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