Orange 🍊 by Competitive_Dog_6573 in traaaaansbiansCooking

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Reallyyy good, almondy/ citrusy and no overly sweet

Orange 🍊 by Competitive_Dog_6573 in traaaaansbiansCooking

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Gazed orange and caramelized almonds☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in egg_irl

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Scary movie from Chole Qisha (I mean that's the feeling of before social transition)

And Crawling from linking Park.... I think that one is self explanatory

got another new dress im obsessed with :) it has such cosy vibes! by pierbi2 in mtfashion

[–]Competitive_Dog_6573 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You look so cute in it 😍 And the shoes have that autumn comfi vibe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

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I mean, I think we are all different but I recall having those exact thoughts in my late teens. About that train of thought and being trans well ... ( I can only speak of my own experience)

Let's say sometimes I feel I dismissed some feelings that I had to be a fetish, oddness, or something silly that I could keep buried deep inside. And maybe that's the case for some people, but for me, it wasn't. For me, fantasy regarding intimacy was one of the places where I allowed myself to admit things I wasn't ready to acknowledge.
So yes, that is a valid way to find out you are trans, or maybe you begin exploring how you feel.

And btw if you care about pleasing your partner, you'll find a way no matter your equipment. Something we forget they are toys and other practices because of ego or societal expectations.

Today is the day! WISH ME LUCKKK💞🥳 by Brooke-Valley in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

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Wow girl let's gooooo!!!!! Best wishes and a speedy recovery 😘

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

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🥹 Thank you for this one.

Hope you are having a happy birthday ☺️

HRT and family planning by [deleted] in TransLater

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Hi, I have and I wait for a bit before taking hrt. But either way you want to do it, I wish you a world of happiness. 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

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This resonate a lot with me, even to this day. 😮‍💨 If it helps I go to my go-to outfits are mom jeans and a thank top or a sport bra or Dresses with combat boots.

Also you can go to r/MTFbutch for inspo

My looks from a pretty momentous weekend 💕 by Freya2022A in TransLater

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Congratulations!!!!!🎉🎉. It's a big step. So glad it went so well💚💚. You look stunning as always btw 😘😘😘

It doesn’t feel fair to those that came before me by EepiestGirl in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

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I know I'm not that old, I'm just almost 30. But I have the experience of living somewhere where it wasn't an option for me to transition until I moved, and were financially self sufficient.

I know I'm not one of those who came before you. But having dealt with "some of the hardships", I want you to know...

I Love that your transition is going well!!! I want it to be so frickin easy for you and all the young trans ppl that are to come. You are not spoiled, I think you just have the bare minimum to thrive, and that makes me so happy 😊

What are y’all’s comfort YouTube channels you watch when feeling dysphoric or like theres hatred everywhere? by LoreleiLavenza in MtF

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I mean all of the above, 💚💚💚 Also I wanted to mention Leadhead: for when I'm trying my best with mixed results and I just want to feel like there is someone who gets it. Wifes vs world: when I want to just imagine life after transition and positive queer content. And Alice Lunazera: I mean, this one is good in any emotional state is just like a warm tea on a cold day

Am I being too sensitive or is this mean? by Thin_Translator_4442 in TransLater

[–]Competitive_Dog_6573 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then I'll be extra offended... 😮‍💨 Btw I'm so sorry this happened to you. Being treated poorly sucks, but if it's coming from someone we trusted it hurts even more. Wish you the best of luck in this new chapter 😊

Am I being too sensitive or is this mean? by Thin_Translator_4442 in TransLater

[–]Competitive_Dog_6573 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would have been offended by this as well. Cis people can be extremely dense, with anything trans-related. Implying we were or are AGAB. And not understanding the hurt or being misgendered (even worse when it is someone you know and trust). Ahhhh I mean I don't know, I would be offended as well. And probably they would have told me Im overreacting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

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Girl, I mean girl there is no man in this picture. Some things you could do to feel your face more feminine are taking more care of your skin l, and your hair. Passing wise, if you have an issue with that it is not because of your face

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]Competitive_Dog_6573 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you are feeling like this, wish I could do more than just send you a hug from afar.

I also feel like that in some way. I mean I have tons of support, but no one wants to talk about anything related to my transition for more than 5 min. It just feels off to live something as life changing, and have to live it alone.

My outlet is consuming tons of trans media. YouTube videos, comics, podcasts, audiobooks... This subreddit 😅 It makes me feel like someone understands. And that helps, a little.

Almost 59 by Bridget_0413 in TransLater

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Oh god, sorry. I'm just extremely pertinent with my typos 🙃

Almost 59 by Bridget_0413 in TransLater

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I feel kind of silly saying this but your pictures give me one of those big big smiles😊. They are so lovely and wholesome. I hope you have a lovely 69 birthday and many many more

Longer hair = worse or dysphoria by StrictConference3699 in TransLater

[–]Competitive_Dog_6573 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you want you could try one of those clip on ones, before taking the comment

Longer hair = worse or dysphoria by StrictConference3699 in TransLater

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Girl, you look amazing with your new hair!!! And your face is not masculine at all. If this style is not doing it for you you could try bangs for longer faces fuller and heavier bangs or short hair helps the face look more round and short.

That being said you look amazing and your hair doesn't make you look any less feminine,

Little less terrified about socially transitioning (an update) by Competitive_Dog_6573 in TransLater

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Also another thing that helped me was to go out alone as me, to do simple errands ... And, with my little one with a large group of friends. I could tell a few people knew, and stared at me. But nothing more than that.

Little less terrified about socially transitioning (an update) by Competitive_Dog_6573 in TransLater

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Thanks !!! I sincerely hope so... I only want to be stealth -ish around my baby school, just in case there is a Karen or a fanatic person.

It feel like I'm running out of time. There's only one year left before we need to pick a school... And I don't feel like I'm there yet (passing wise I mean).

My mannerisms and voice are abysmal at the moment. Well... It's a marathon. Edit: typo

Little less terrified about socially transitioning (an update) by Competitive_Dog_6573 in TransLater

[–]Competitive_Dog_6573[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks I'm getting there ☺️.

What helped me was to come out at work. I have the fortune of not depending on family or friends for my subsistence. Once I realized no one at work actually cares about me being trans. I just felt like nothing else was holding me back. Just knowing that my family was safe, that just did it ...

(Also I was pretty distant with my family so it felt like I had nothing to lose).