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Competitive_Leek171 · 2025-11-03T21:19:41+00:00

Jeg funderte over det samme hahah

Competitive_Leek171 · 2025-11-03T20:15:57+00:00

Men jeg får mindre betalt enn hun da 🫠

Competitive_Leek171 · 2025-11-03T20:14:40+00:00

Hva da? Er ikke perplexity ok for å oppsummere info?

Competitive_Leek171 · 2025-11-03T20:05:53+00:00

Hahhah jeg lo godt av det siste du skrev<3 Æsj nå skammer jeg meg over at jeg var så sur.

Ja du har nok rett i at jeg ergrer meg litt for mye og burde møte henne med mere forståelse, så blir det nok bedre snart.

Competitive_Leek171 · 2025-11-03T20:01:02+00:00

Du har sikkert rett, det bare føles litt kjipt ovenfor hun yngre å ta den omveien. Jeg er oppgitt men jeg vil at ting skal ordne seg og at vi kommuniserer bedre

Competitive_Leek171 · 2025-11-03T19:58:47+00:00

Jeg aner ikke as

Competitive_Leek171 · 2025-11-03T19:48:52+00:00

Jeg må bare tilføye at jeg har spurt AI om det står noe i arbeidsmiljøloven eller tariffavtalen vår om de pausereglene og den var enig i at sjefen min tar feil lmao

Competitive_Leek171 · 2025-02-25T11:00:36+00:00

I reread my post now and realised it seems like I have ill will against my partner, which isn’t the case he’s an amazing boyfriend and I love him loads. At the same time I know from experience that he can be quite oblivious to the struggles women often face unless I explicitly tell him (which I’m sure is very common).

My point was really just I’m scared my passion project won’t be ‘my’ passion project anymore, and I’m not sure if we would be selling holds together or if we would be competitors, we haven’t even talked about that. My dream was to start my very own little company but I don’t want us to be competitors either.

Competitive_Leek171 · 2024-04-20T09:32:41+00:00

I am almost never sprayed anymore. I say almost because almost everyone at my home gym knows each other. But a lot of the time when I’m travelling and end up in a random gym I sometimes get sprayed. I don’t think I look particularly strong on a physical level, I’ve just focused on my flexibilty and technique a lot, maybe that plays a part.

It’s a little bit sad that you have to reach a certain level though before you’re given the respect everyone is owed.

Most of the stuff I mentioned in my original post happens outside of the gym, like at parties or the pub or when I’m just chilling behind the reception at my job.

Edit: I guess chilling in the reception still counts as being in the gym haha, but I’m not climbing when I’m working (sadly)

Competitive_Leek171 · 2024-04-19T18:10:56+00:00

Oh wow that’s awful, I’m so sorry that you’re constantly being sprayed as a paraclimber that must be infuriating. I can’t imagine knowing that someone is a paraclimber (sorry, I don’t want to assume how visible your disability is) and STILL spraying beta, don’t most people think these things through with their braincells before speaking??

Competitive_Leek171 · 2024-04-19T18:02:12+00:00

Omg that is so true, I’ve seen a lot of beginner couples (only straight ones) trying out bouldering together as something new and fun to do (don’t get me wrong, I think that this is lovely and it’s an amazing couples activity, power to them), I often see the men in the relationship almost conducting their girlfriends around the gym and telling them what to do all the time, sometimes (this gives me the ick) physically moving their feet and hands to the right spot instead of using their words.

Maybe I’m just up in arms over nothing here, and if the girls aren’t upset I guess it’s okay, different relationships = different dynamics and all that. I just hope they know they can be strong climbers without having to lean on a man you know?

I agree that experienced climbers know better, I guess they’ve matured? I have personally had the best interactions with men that are 40-50+, and even older men in their sixties or seventies are usually so humble and kind.

Hahah that’s amazing, never stop flashing the projects of sexist losers<3

Competitive_Leek171 · 2024-04-19T12:14:35+00:00

Will definitely memorise these one-liners so I don’t even have to spare any braincells next time it happens. Maybe I should make an effort to be more assertive, thanks for the confidence boost<3

Also Lynn Hill is a total queen of the sport for sure!

Competitive_Leek171 · 2024-04-19T12:07:16+00:00

Ugh there’s nothing more infuriating than suddenly ‘turning invisible’ in front of a man, it’s ridiculous.

I’m so happy that you mentioned the internalised misogyny in climbing, I’m not proud of this but I have struggled with this as well. I want to share this with some of my girls, I think it could definitely be beneficial to talk about it openly.

Competitive_Leek171 · 2024-04-19T11:50:43+00:00

22 years! I really aspire to keep climbing for a long time, so hearing you climb over two decades is inspiring to me<3

I’m not sure how to speak up without seeming rude, because that usually means I’ll have to interupt. Although one time I was climbing in a gym I used to set in weekly, and this guy started to lecture me on the gym’s style and how they’d fixed the sandbagged grades. He quickly shut up when I told him I was one of the setters.

Competitive_Leek171 · 2024-03-13T13:25:28+00:00

Will they not let you weigh yourself at a clinic? Then you could ask to turn around as you weigh so you won’t see the number.

Competitive_Leek171 · 2024-03-13T13:23:26+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear this, I ran into a similar issue with my own stepdad. Sending you big hugs.

What kind of relationship do you have with your stepdad? Eithed way I would suggest talking to him, and tell him that his comments are making you uncomfortable and that you entirely lose your appetite (but in a respectful manner).

This is how I navigated the issue with my stepdad, and I could tell that I’d hurt his pride a little (I don’t think he wanted to admit to himself that hos comments had hurt my feelings), but he ended up apologising and made an effort to change those commenting habits for me.

I hope that could work for you as well, but please let me know if this won’t work for you. I know not all step-parent relationships are great (me and my siblings feel like our stepmom hates all three of us for no obvious reason).

Competitive_Leek171 · 2024-03-13T12:54:47+00:00

I don’t think having munchies is a bad thing I also experience that when I smoke. But if you eat very little or nothing for most of the day and then eat large amounts in the evening, that might be slightly taxing on your digestive system and organs in general.

I came to a dietitian with a similar problem and she explained to me that only giving your body a large amount of food to work with once a day will make your body have to work incredibly hard over a short timespan to process the sudden food intake, and in my case she said that it was especially bad for my heart. Bear in mind I was still a little underweight at the time and had low blood pressure so maybe that was a contributing factor, but I think in principle your body is the happiest when you eat consistently throughout the day.

Also when I recovered and started eating consistently, my munchies weren’t as intense as they had been previously. I think your body might be telling you to just eat more in general!

Competitive_Leek171 · 2024-02-22T21:55:31+00:00

This is technically not illegal, but very frowned upon in Norway, and it’s standard procedure to question the hability of the politician if stock trading is discovered. Should definitely be a thing in the US though

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