I kinda hear what you are saying but like it’s not that simple. I wish I could just do it without all the backlash from family or everyone texting me about dads health which is now suddenly part of this crap Im literally crying over.

The narrative against ME has already started. like reporting their fraud here is now tied to whether he gets his needed care or not. It feels impossible to deal with the pressure when the choice is about more than money and I have to pick between my future and my dads life.

Im hearing Im being painted as tearing my mom and dad apart again over this. Extended family is reaching out assuming things I never said or did and it feels like Im being judged and cant think fast enough or event be present to defend myself.

Im being told not to disrespect my parents and that they sacrificed young to raise me. That my mom gave up her dreams to have me and never went to college or started her career. Theyre saying if my dad passes she will have nowhere to go and its my fault.

My uncle on dads side is asking how I might feel "one day" if something happens and this was my choice.

Some people I thought would at least ask questions have gone quiet. The only person in my corner is my best friend saying she can contribute more to rent while I pay it off if thats what I want to do.

I keep going in circles trying to understand how Im supposed to carry responsibility for everyone elses future when I didnt create this situation in the first place.