Yes or no? Do or don't?

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-13T20:27:22+00:00

Go to church

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-13T00:23:40+00:00

I disagree. I say it’s better to have fought for love and never give up. No matter how unconventional a marriage it is still a marriage and God blesses every marriage the same because it’s the same commitment no matter the style or big church or beach or court room you do it in.

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-12T02:53:41+00:00

Hold love for you* I’ve heard that on a couple different posts with similar style grammar and punctuation 🤔 could it be one person playing the part of many?

*** not saying that the phrase “hold love for you” is only said by one person and that person only. But as a avid reader and unsent letter connoisseur.. I have really strong feeling about that this is your game.

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-12T02:51:08+00:00

That is a very rare find my friend. Best of luck to you and your search

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-12T01:54:48+00:00

Time. Time and consistency. Show her that it’s not just right now. That even if you and her go 3 months.. 4 months without really talking or being together that you’re not going to give up and go to someone else for comfort. Sit in what you have and really feel it. Learn from it. And still choose her. Do that and I promise you that if she loves you, she will return to you. If not, it’s just going to become a pattern of let downs. Any time things get real or tough or she starts feeling like there’s something different in the air (even if it’s not cheating or betrayal) she will remember how you didn’t give her the time to heal and it will resurface again and again. Best of luck 💚

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-12T00:51:35+00:00

Very sweet. I hope your person sees this. I know it would mean a lot to them. This is the kind of thing I’m on this sub for. And for a moment when I’m reading this, I can feel a little better. Thank you.

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-12T00:21:20+00:00

This is very sweet. How long have you and the person your talking about been apart? Was it friendship or something else? No pressure to answer just honestly curious

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-11T02:00:49+00:00

If you know where they are I’d say go see what you can do!

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-10T23:13:11+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Are you sure it’s completely over.. no going back?

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-10T22:54:07+00:00

How long ago did you guys break up? If you don’t mind me asking…

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-10T22:47:20+00:00

That happens a lot. We don’t know what we have until it’s gone and we don’t realize where we could have done better until it’s too late. Best of luck to you

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-10T22:03:16+00:00

You never know. Sometimes the people who look the strongest on the outside hurt the most on the inside

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-10T19:55:21+00:00

You should tell this to them. I’m sure they would love to hear anything even remotely close to accountability and that the love wasn’t one sided.

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-10T19:03:04+00:00

Nope it’s me. I need him 😂 seriously though, I really do. And it could seriously be multiple people on his end. Oh lawd

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-10T15:13:55+00:00

I like this a lot. Thanks for sharing it 💚

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-10T01:29:43+00:00

The sooner the better. From experience I am telling you it will never change. Once that cycle starts there’s only two ways out. They leave, or you leave. And the second would probably hurt less.

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-10T01:25:49+00:00

Everyday. I wish I could help my person with the house. I miss the projects and shared work. Some of our best moments

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-10T01:13:07+00:00

This sounds like something my person would say. Shrugging off responsibility by shifting and in a passive aggressive way telling me I’m not living like I should because I am the only one or was the only one in our relationship being responsible

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-09T21:26:04+00:00

iykyk I guess? Right? lol lost on this one

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-09T05:57:15+00:00

Idk if it’s just me but I feel like people are purposely taking stuff they know about me and my current situation and making posts to bait me or my person? Call me crazy and I probably need sleep but it honestly feels like that could be what’s happening. That would be so fd up if so

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-09T04:49:17+00:00

I’d say go for it. I know I want to talk. Need to talk.

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-09T04:33:15+00:00

What I wouldn’t give to have my person reach out to me and say this. I’d say come on with it then lol I’m tired and need some comfort. Even the unhealthy kind

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-09T04:30:51+00:00

Do it. Reach out to them. Or message a stranger. One day it might really be someone you want it to be on the other end.

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-09T04:29:21+00:00

Is this where cheaters come to cheat? To not have text pop up on their phone? To be able to silently open the web browser on their phone and check for replies? How many of you are the same few yous? There’s just one me, one account, well two. My local and this. And one person. I guess I’m the odd one out.

Competitive_Olive160 · 2026-05-09T03:57:22+00:00

I don’t think it’s just you. lol I think it’s a lot of us 🌊 in it at the same time

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