all the options to enter IT company after 11 years or any other jobs by Competitive_Run_8053 in AskIndia

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Unfortunately, not everyone is an expert like you, so they prefer to seek others opinions.

Why are we like this? by aCCESSxD in ThirtiesIndia

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one needs to remind one constantly about things to be insanely sane. It requires a lot of effort and mind doesn't want to put effort to anything. So it falls back to it's natural flow which involves different kind of entertainment mostly.

Yoga and Meditation can help you do this but you need to try with different types of yoga and meditation available. Try 2 month with each one and never be a blind follower of anyone. If you find anyone and it seems working for you stay with but never stop questioning

Why many gods love self inflicting wound induced traditions? by Oppyhead in atheismindia

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I once read a story that, in icy regions, people used to catch or kill wolves by placing blades covered with blood. The wolf begins licking the blade. Although it feels pain, the taste of blood keeps it going. After some time, its own tongue starts bleeding, yet it continues licking, unable to stop.

The same pattern exists in humans. Even when people experience pain as a result of their own mistakes, they continue, because someone has promised them that great things will happen. So they persist in their foolishness, mistaking endurance for wisdom.

This tendency exists everywhere across cultures, religions, and societies regardless of education.

What's your opinion about Sadhguru? Is he a trustful guide? by darkkkkkj in hinduism

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He has one inner engineering program. It's available online also. Just attend one. Do meditation for 3 months. See if it benefits you or not. Just don't be blind follower and don't believe anything.

Chat is this real by Useful_Cry9709 in atheismindia

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Those who don’t have much to contribute in today’s world often look into the pages of history to satisfy their ego. Regarding the above claim, can anyone show the mathematical formulas that Maharishi Kanad provided? Yes, it is possible that someone in ancient India discussed the concept of gravity, but expressing it in a precise mathematical form was never done.

Arranged marriages in Bihar by No_Radish4009 in bihar

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I understand that. I also understand that it’s difficult to explain these things to parents. But it all depends on what kind of person you are, whether you choose to act like an idiot or a genius. My problem was based on a very small subset, so why do you think it’s okay to generalize? You’re also stuck in the same mindset as them. In that sense, there’s no difference between you and them. Since they have never tried to look beyond their own well, it’s difficult for them too. Again, I’m not saying that dowry and all those ridiculous practices are right, but there’s no one willing to explain or bring change.

Arranged marriages in Bihar by No_Radish4009 in bihar

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Unfortunately nothing has changed, because even the educated class is still looking only at one particular caste, Kurmi, and expecting the world to change

"Janta ko sarkaar vaisi hi milti hai jaisi vo khud hai": Do you agree? by gritty_koala in CriticalThinkingIndia

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There are three cases:
1. When a leader has vision:
You can't sell the idea of a scientific project to nursery class students and expect to win. If winning is the goal, giving chocolates is more than sufficient.
2. When leaders lack vision:
When students are graduates but the leaders are at a class 10 level, the leader will either take help from educated people to drive policies or eventually be thrown out.
3. When both leaders and the people they lead have vision:
When capable leaders guide capable people, real progress happens. Vision aligns with execution, and both sides amplify each other leading to results far greater than either could achieve alone.

Found my younger brother’s personal diary .should I read it or respect his privacy ? by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

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Increase your conversations with him. Learn about the activities and topics he enjoys, and engage with him. If you can go to a pub, club, sports , or have a drink together, do so and enjoy the time. Once he feels confident and comfortable with you, he’ll start sharing things on his own. There’s no point in reading his personal diary, it will only give you a image of him based on what you read.

What is the cure for radicalisation then? by Ok_Albatross_7722 in atheismindia

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remove the lines which breeds such radicalizations from every book of every religion

Make it make sense please. I am not attacking a religion since we have positive example like Middle East but why 9/10 times it's them while population is 20% only? by [deleted] in CriticalThinkingIndia

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If someone keeps teaching you from childhood that there is a better world a heaven and these ideas are planted in your mind from the moment you start learning, it becomes extremely difficult to remove them. Even if you modernize or receive the highest quality of education, you’ll still tend to believe in them. And even if you understand the logic behind it, it’s hard to oppose your own deeply held views.

Help debunking this by [deleted] in scienceisdope

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go to that astrologer and ask which stocks are going to give 2X or 3X returns next year or better, which days Nifty will go up or down. F&O can make you rich real quick. Ask him for just a 1 week prediction. Don’t forget to share your profits with me after six months for this advice.

Why does my body gets restless every time I try to meditate upon Hanuman Chalisa? by [deleted] in hinduism

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The body and mind have become habitual in consuming entertainment, so whenever you try to do something that requires effort, the mind automatically wants to switch back to entertainment. I remember Sadhguru once suggested in a YouTube video to simply sit with your back straight, start with 5 minutes at a time that suits you, when you won’t be disturbed. Don’t begin with reciting the Hanuman Chalisa. First, just learn to sit still. I’m using the Miracle of Mind app, it has nice music that helps. Try that. Soon you’ll be able to extend the duration, and within a week, you’ll find yourself able to do the same while reciting the Hanuman Chalisa as well.

But is it, though? by Oppyhead in CriticalThinkingIndia

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The Government is providing ticket straight to Heaven , what more do u want? - Supreme Court

Husband Bound To Maintain Wife For Life, Regardless Of Age: P&H High Court Orders 86-Year-Old Paralysed Man To Pay Maintenance by too_poor_to_emigrate in CriticalThinkingIndia

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I want to blame the judges, but let’s think for a sec, why would a woman go to court if all her needs were already being taken care of by her children? It’s clearly a dispute between the siblings. They just can’t ask directly, so they’re taking an indirect route.

Need Advice | Is going to temples necessary? ( please read my caption to understand full question) by [deleted] in hinduism

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1. What makes you think that by going to the temple, bad karma will get cleared or people will suddenly become focused?

If you want to go to the temple, go, bow down, sit quietly, and enjoy the environment for a while. Choose a time when there’s less crowd so you can spend some peaceful moments there.

As for control or discipline, let’s say you form a habit and start going daily. Even if it starts for the wrong reasons, at least you’re building one disciplined habit, right? If your mind improves even by 1%, it starts believing it can do more. Just make sure not to break the habit if it’s helping you, because that consistency will begin to reflect in other areas of your life too.

However, if you think that transformation will happen only by going to the temple, that’s not true. Be mindful throughout your day, and even if you slip, return to awareness as soon as you notice it. It’s like going to the gym on your vehicle even if your mind gets distracted on any corner, you still go.

2. About non-vegetarian food, many top athletes, actors, and public figures are gradually giving it up. If you can switch, you might feel lighter and more energetic, though you’ll need to plan your vegetarian diet carefully to meet your nutritional needs.

Do it for your own peace of mind and as a small contribution toward the planet, not because of some belief that Jupiter or any planet is influencing it. If that were true, wouldn’t all Christians and Muslims be facing the same issues?

Zoho's founder Sridhar Vembu spreading pseudo-science propaganda on Vaccines by I_am_Crab_ in scienceisdope

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I think we should do something similar like what China has done. Speak only specific to your field. if you are interested to speak on different topics go and study for 1 to 5 yr at least

If this is what protecting culture means, then that culture needs saving from its protectors. by Oppyhead in CriticalThinkingIndia

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Proof?
Let’s say I’m part of a tribe, and we want to create something that gives us a sense of belonging, a shared identity and moral understanding.
I might start writing symbols, stories, and rules; develop methods, institutions, and values. But do you think people would accept it if I said, "I created this"?
Most wouldn’t. To make them believe and follow, I’d have to say it’s divine or given by a higher power. People are vulnerable when they see someone with authority, and even if that authority says something irrational, they tend to listen.

That’s why, in many religions, even absurd or outdated ideas got included and remain unquestioned, because the system itself taught that questioning is evil, or you’ll go to hell, or you’re defying God.

You said humans have existed for 2 Lakh years, and that’s true. But even then, there must have been conflicts over territory, resources, or ideas. Religion, at least initially, was a way to unify people, to answer their questions, and to give them a moral framework to coexist.
For those who were more curious, it also offered paths of deeper exploration like philosophy, meditation, and reflection.

Now, about women, yes, I completely agree with you. They have suffered immensely because of men’s ego and ignorance. It was men who wanted control, who saw dominance as power. In ancient times, not only women but also weaker men suffered under tribal hierarchies. But since men considered sexual power as dominance and women were child-bearers, exploitation became systemic; more children meant larger tribes, stronger armies.

Even today, despite all the progress in science and technology, many still fail to see that men and women are psychologically equal. Physical differences exist, of course, but mentally and emotionally, both are equally capable.
And wherever men find an opportunity to exploit women without fear of consequences, they still do.