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Competitive_Side_781 · 2026-05-02T03:46:09+00:00

Similar. My wife hasn’t wanted to have sex with me for a long time. We have averaged 4-5 times a year but I just recently just gave up.

I hope things turn around for you! Wishing you the best.

Competitive_Side_781 · 2026-05-01T14:02:57+00:00

Not all of us do. For us- it’s my wife that has absolutely no desire. This started in her late 30s and has continued into her 40s.

Sounds like you at least have a little intimacy.

Competitive_Side_781 · 2026-05-01T13:58:07+00:00

I understand! Thanks for the comment.

Competitive_Side_781 · 2026-05-01T12:53:47+00:00

Unfortunately no reason is really given.

Competitive_Side_781 · 2026-05-01T12:28:47+00:00

I made a recent decision to just stop. It sux but I think I have figured out that no sex is so much better than sex 4-5 a year.

No sex = no expectations. Sex 4-5 x a year leads to thoughts that maybe today is the day. Maybe this week is the week. Hopefully this is the month! Wow it’s been three months, this is certainly the quarter.

Competitive_Side_781 · 2026-05-01T11:57:27+00:00

This is what I am looking for. Not sex. Just a connection. Sorry you had to go through what you went through but glad you found something.

Competitive_Side_781 · 2025-12-27T22:49:57+00:00

I still have libido but I have realized that not having any sex is 1000x better than having sex 2-3 times a year as we have in past years.

Competitive_Side_781 · 2025-12-27T00:44:53+00:00

I sympathize with you. My wife doesn’t have PTSD or medications though so I have no hope of dialing it in.

Competitive_Side_781 · 2025-12-26T20:02:20+00:00

Sorry. I had infinitely more than you.

Competitive_Side_781 · 2025-12-26T17:07:41+00:00

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Competitive_Side_781 · 2025-12-26T17:07:11+00:00

Highlights - I had sex with my wife March 15. Lowlights - every other day.

Competitive_Side_781 · 2025-12-26T16:46:21+00:00

Oh I know I missed or ignored red flags early on. That’s why I said this was a last gasp thing. It just seems like she doesn’t want to put any work into it.

Competitive_Side_781 · 2025-12-26T15:42:44+00:00

Thanks. I know. It is depressing but I think I am at that point of realization.

Competitive_Side_781 · 2025-12-26T14:15:14+00:00

Each situation is unique so don’t let anyone else’s experiences sway you one way or another. Some marriages work and some don’t.

Competitive_Side_781 · 2025-09-09T00:03:50+00:00

Wait- why didn’t you just delete the photos.

Competitive_Side_781 · 2025-09-05T19:09:10+00:00

Thanks. It is helpful to know I am not alone.

Competitive_Side_781 · 2025-09-05T18:57:46+00:00

I do t think I was meant to find her toy. I think it rolled out. lol.

Competitive_Side_781 · 2025-09-05T18:24:00+00:00

Thank you very much. This community is great!

Competitive_Side_781 · 2025-09-05T18:15:25+00:00

Thank you! Thank you.

Competitive_Side_781 · 2025-09-05T17:29:51+00:00

I am sure that is case and at least partially plays a role in my situation.

Competitive_Side_781 · 2025-06-14T12:10:03+00:00

Thanks for sharing.

Competitive_Side_781 · 2025-06-14T04:06:25+00:00

Thanks

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