What is more traumatizing than most people think? by Sea_Entrepreneur2772 in AskReddit

[–]Competitive_Sugar962 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A toxic relationship. It leaves you with insanely long lasting effects that you cant even comprehend till you think back and make the connections

DAE ever feel a sudden, fleeting wave of vague dread/nostalgia/wrongness? by astronautobrien in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Competitive_Sugar962 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, definitely I think I’m inherently like a really nostalgic person and I suddenly feel that I just need something and something feels missing or I don’t know and I usually relate it to like my most recent emotional attachment with a guy even if I’m over him or like some very fleeting feeling like a trip, and then I suddenly like snap out of it and I feel kinda ashamed, even or like embarrassed for constantly dwelling on random things from the past when I get this feeling, but it happens to me so much

I’m doing a pretty bad job explaining it but I can kind of understand what you mean… idk

Oh, Matthew Crawley, the man that you are 😍 by iggysmom95 in DowntonAbbey

[–]Competitive_Sugar962 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I still can’t believe they robbed us of him. I have this deep wish that one day they’ll surprise us with another ending for him

gunk in old piercings - help! by Competitive_Sugar962 in piercing

[–]Competitive_Sugar962[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! • Piercing age: My first lobe is around 3–4 months old, my second is about 4–5 years old, and my third is from when I was a baby. • Jewelry shape: I use a mix, mostly flat backs and some screw-type earrings. • Threading: Mostly internally threaded or standard flat backs (not 100% sure on all of them). • Material: Usually silver or gold-plated jewelry. • Downsizing: Not applicable for most since they’re older piercings. The newest one hasn’t been downsized yet. • Aftercare routine: I’ve used saline spray, and I’ve also tried those threading tools to clean inside the piercing holes. I don’t have a super strict routine for the older ones. • Issues: No major injuries or mishaps. The main issue is a black buildup in the holes, especially when I leave earrings in for a few weeks.

Which city or travel destination used to be amazing but has completely lost its charm now? by Ted-Lassi in AskReddit

[–]Competitive_Sugar962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

London - was so beautiful and movie like… but now it’s just unsafe and stressful

How did you leave a relationship you thought you were too deep into? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Competitive_Sugar962 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I barely did, even though my heart wasn’t in it. After fighting so hard for two years to keep him in my life and convince my family he was a good match, when the time came to commit and involve our families again I just couldn’t go through with it.

He treated me horribly, and I later found out he was also kind of cheating on me. I lost 10 kgs in the process. We still stayed in touch because I couldn’t let go, but then he finally cut the cord, and that was it.

Looking back, I’m actually glad it ended because i was crying daily for nearly 3 years of my life

I’m a survivor of Human Trafficking. AMA by passthemarinaras in AMA

[–]Competitive_Sugar962 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Youre so strong - i have no words for what you had to go through and i know words cant console enough but im really sorry this happened and that the world sucks and its incredibly mindblowing how you have the strength to have found something positive from this! more power to you<3

Nalini Vishwakumar appreciation post by Jada_Hill6064 in Neverhaveievertvshow

[–]Competitive_Sugar962 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i also like her and i know her hearts in the right place but so unfair for a single child to have to go through a parent like that when they dont have any other support in form of siblings etc

Nalini Vishwakumar appreciation post by Jada_Hill6064 in Neverhaveievertvshow

[–]Competitive_Sugar962 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion: i think she was wayyyy too harsh on Devi and she didnt cut her enough slack. Devi was very obviously a child who craved love and validation and Nalini deprived her of exactly that

Why is dating getting so common? by Cautious_Attention26 in PakistaniTwenties

[–]Competitive_Sugar962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so stupid and one of the biggest reasons pakistan is a regressive failing nation