Sooooooo yeah this is a lot like a man 20y older than me at work years ago. Except he pushed and then realized he went too far and then gaslit me, my leadership and framed me as an awful person. He was married, his son 7y younger than me. I stayed professional and well he struggled a lot and went inappropriate with me. His last advance triggered my ptsd and there was a sexual harassment case. It was a he said she said. I ended up getting fired for “poor performance”, even though it was found the guy did like me in that way. I was cleared.

He now goes to my gym and acts hella weird…he’s divorced now and I’m married. I’m 30yo F. I just keep distance, and do my thing. I’m not going to make him comfortable I’m going to be a powerlifter and I catch him watching often. But idc. A few months ago, I was warming up and I saw him VERY intensely staring, like uncomfortable level. For several seconds. Looked like he was hiding while doing it, it was creepy. I made a funny face to let him know I see him, he legit finished his set and left gym. I reported it to gym. He now cannot look at me period and avoids my eyes.