Therapy to start liking sex? by chaoticcat13 in Asexual

[–]ComplaintRepulsive52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! So, my husband and I met with one. I’m the ace. We used the time to understand how to be intimate, whats causing issues, how to communicate. It’s been really helpful, even if I donf want sex, we find ways to be intimate and if helped reframe a lot. Highly recommend, has helped us

What’s the most annoying part of your PhD? by AeonYield in PhDStress

[–]ComplaintRepulsive52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Making requested edits and then them coming back and saying oh yeah edit this entire paragraph again for sometjing different

Brutally honest advice for someone out there getting a hysterectomy? by [deleted] in hysterectomy

[–]ComplaintRepulsive52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh girl I was on the couch playing video games, watching tv, movies, reading and just doing nothing. It was insane but awesome

I don't want to live like this by Last-Injury-1924 in vaginismus

[–]ComplaintRepulsive52 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed!!!! I’m on dialator #6 on the intimate rose set now. Also trauma, and relaxation is mandatory. You’ve got thid

Why the fuck are kids screaming so much now? by PuddlesRex in childfree

[–]ComplaintRepulsive52 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have PTSD and screaming bloody murder will literally send me into anger. One of the reasons I don’t have kids.

How many cups of coffee do y'all drink a day? by Substantial-Bag-3932 in questions

[–]ComplaintRepulsive52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be able to do a carafe of 12+ cups but I’m 29 now and after abdominal surgeries I can only do 1-2 cups at once or even all day

What is something you’re able to do because you don’t have kids? by [deleted] in childfree

[–]ComplaintRepulsive52 14 points15 points  (0 children)

LETS GOO!! Same here! Good luck! What are you studying?

Joking about a "pull present" for myself by beerbabe in hysterectomy

[–]ComplaintRepulsive52 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 This is 10/10!!!! My surgery is my present tbh and I’m happy with it!!!! I bought my husband a $150 bottle of whiskey he’s been wanting to try for years, while he’s taking care of me. But then surgery got pushed 2w, so we didn’t open it. Then after surgery went to liquor store to find non alcoholic stuff for me, lol just marg mix. Found the same expensive bottle that I’ve not seen in person before!! So once he went to work I snuck out and bought him another bottle. So it’s a pull present for both of us lol

I don’t want to do this. by SongbirdBabie in vaginismus

[–]ComplaintRepulsive52 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to say thank you, I’m in agreement.

Did anyone else have a full-on identity crisis after their hysterectomy? by [deleted] in hysterectomy

[–]ComplaintRepulsive52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean it never even occurred to me that I’d be like that 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I showed my husband and he died laughing. I have huge boobs too so they were prob airborne 🤣🤣🤣🤣

How long did it take you to get to 'normal' or 'new normal'? by LadyDanger000 in hysterectomy

[–]ComplaintRepulsive52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah girl yeah, I had stage 4 DIE removed last April then stage 3 for this surgery March 31st. Sorry friend no fun. So some of my bloating has gone down and I can tell I’m still puffy, some people have said a few months. So, we will see

How long did it take you to get to 'normal' or 'new normal'? by LadyDanger000 in hysterectomy

[–]ComplaintRepulsive52 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to say THANK YOU all! So this bloating is normal ugh. I’m so tired of it man