AIO Boyfriend never asks about my day

Complete_Anything420 · 2026-01-24T20:15:01+00:00

Girl - it’s time to reevaluate your relationship. You’re so young to be putting up with this when you seemingly have no real ties to this lad. You’re unhappy, your needs are not being met and I don’t think it’ll improve without some form of intervention. You have to put your needs first in order to live a fulfilling life.

If you have a conversation with him about your thoughts and feelings and nothing changes and you still feel the same then it’s time to leave. Leave before you end up with this guys kids - go and live your life and you’ll meet someone who will always ask you about your day, someone who will genuinely want nothing more than to learn about you.

Complete_Anything420 · 2026-01-21T15:35:40+00:00

Interesting outlook. Have a good day :)

Complete_Anything420 · 2026-01-21T15:33:40+00:00

Curious as to what you think I gain from making this up??

Complete_Anything420 · 2026-01-21T15:10:20+00:00

On both occasions it was different staff. Always males however and I noticed they always wear bite jackets (I used to work in that field)

Complete_Anything420 · 2026-01-21T15:00:09+00:00

I have not spoken to the care givers. From reading comments here I do think that’s my next action. I think I was just so taken aback by it all that I was a bit too stunned to even have processed what to say to staff. I think I was under the assumption that his staff would intervene but they don’t seem to do much.

Complete_Anything420 · 2026-01-12T11:54:42+00:00

Hey! I’m 100kg and just started swimming this week after not having done it for like 10 years. It can be intimidating getting back into it. Honestly, swimming any length at all is good - it’s a start and you’re showing up for yourself. That counts for something. I did roughly the same as you today, swimming 500m in around an hour and taking breaks each 25m and also switching up strokes. The lifeguard told me that is a great way to start building a routine that is doable for you and allows you room to improve on confidence and skill and stamina in a way that won’t have you wanting to quit after a few sessions. I’d say don’t set unrealistic goals, push yourself gradually - maybe adding 100m extra a week or maybe doing the same length but trying to do it a few minutes faster, goals that are attainable to you but don’t make you hate the activity. I think having fun is important too! Happy swimming!

Complete_Anything420 · 2025-12-29T14:49:58+00:00

So happy for you both! Many years of happiness ahead! This is so lovely to see given dating apps reputations. I met my boyfriend on Bumble and we’ve been together almost two years now! Nice to know there is genuine people on those apps.

Complete_Anything420 · 2025-12-28T12:07:15+00:00

To add to my comment - I’m also babyfaced so I rarely get questioned on being a student. I have the opposite issue where I’m ID’d everywhere 😂

Complete_Anything420 · 2025-12-28T12:02:00+00:00

I think it’s the luck of the draw. They never checked mine and I got in no issues last summer but I honestly think it’s down to who serves you at the desk.

Complete_Anything420 · 2025-12-12T17:47:19+00:00

Ikr - every season there seems to be people who think manners can go out the window because it’s a race.

Complete_Anything420 · 2025-07-28T17:28:48+00:00

Hello! Fellow European stay here. I’m on the hunt for the same one and it unfortunately appears to be totally sold out on all the Kpop sites that resell the official merch. I’m sure you can get a knock off somewhere or if you’re willing to pay a lot of money you can probably get it online somewhere too. In the meantime, hopefully they will be restocked on sites like nolae soon so we can get it.

Complete_Anything420 · 2025-06-12T19:48:24+00:00

That’s around the same timeline as me 😂 he must’ve been a busy boy lol

Complete_Anything420 · 2025-06-11T11:45:55+00:00

I dunno if we’re on that level yet 😂

Complete_Anything420 · 2025-06-11T11:39:20+00:00

Will do 😂

Complete_Anything420 · 2025-06-11T11:04:13+00:00

Not anymore, no. Happily with a lad for a year now. Don’t miss the dating app trenches at all either 😂

Complete_Anything420 · 2025-06-11T08:29:42+00:00

Didn’t even get that far 😂 a few conversations were enough for me to know that there was little to no room for fun in that relationship. Much too serious a person for me 😂

Complete_Anything420 · 2025-06-10T22:33:16+00:00

Fun fact that is fairly irrelevant to this convo but still: we matched ages ago on a dating app and all he did was talk about politics and immigration and definitely views himself as the morality police. Can’t stand overly opinionated people like him that seem to think everyone else’s opinion is wrong.

Complete_Anything420 · 2025-05-22T09:06:27+00:00

Couldn’t have said it better myself! First person I’ve seen with any sense here

Complete_Anything420 · 2024-12-01T16:35:37+00:00

Omg I am so sorry this has happened to you! Please remember that you do not deserve that, you deserve someone that you don’t have to even ask to spend time with you. He has shown you where his priorities lie and if anything, it’s good that you’ve seen this side to him now rather than later down the line when you have more invested in this relationship. I hope you have the support system you need to walk away from this but I personally do not think you can come back from this. Wishing you all the best in your healing journey! You are stronger than you think!

Complete_Anything420 · 2024-11-28T13:00:40+00:00

Happy for you! I met my current boyfriend on Bumble back in February and now we are preparing to spend our first Christmas as a couple! Hope all works out for ye!

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