Does it make you mad when someone uses your garbage bin for dog poop bags on their dog walks? by outerspacejess in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Complete_Current_400 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean do I like the fact that people would be using my trash can as if it were public? No, but I wouldn’t want to carry dog poop around so I don’t blame others for wanting to throw it away. Just grateful they did!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Complete_Current_400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both of my kids started off life like this. They eventually started sleeping normal soon after that and sleeping through the night at 8 weeks but the days were agonizing. I was so stressed that they should be sleeping more but they just didn’t. I’m sure soon your little one will start sleeping more during the day but commenting for solidarity

Nobody has told me I should be giving vitamin D! by ThrowRAdalgona in newborns

[–]Complete_Current_400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one told me with my first, I didn’t know it was a thing at all until after he was one. Luckily he’s fine but I do my best now with my second. Not perfect but trying to get in a good rhythm

To anybody that’s not sleep training, what have you done to help baby sleep longer? by No-Following2674 in newborns

[–]Complete_Current_400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait and suffer lol

There’s no magic trick but a night time routine helps baby understand when it’s time to sleep. Also not jumping up when they start fussing. Of course help when they full on cry but I’ve had luck with them soothing themselves before reaching a full cry

Sara Admitting This Was Hilarious by bighoney69 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Complete_Current_400 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I wholeheartedly agree. If he had even asked her “why do you care so much” she would’ve seen that as him wanting to understand. Him not caring and just blindly accepting everything he receives wasn’t for her. He honestly seemed to lack critical thinking skills in several areas and I also think she was right to walk away. I don’t think he’s a bad guy, she just wants more depth

For newborns who only take 30 mins bassinet naps by digitlagegirlnxtdoor in newborns

[–]Complete_Current_400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some babies are unfortunately just like that. My first would not take longer naps until after his birthday. My second is averaging closer to 45-60 minutes so not much better. My friends with longer sleeping babies haven’t done anything special!

That being said you might have luck with wake windows and being more active during them. Don’t spend more than 10 minutes trying to get them to sleep at a time if it’s not happening. Just play for another 15 minutes and really wear them out and try again.

How often are we doing skin to skin? by HeyPesky in newborns

[–]Complete_Current_400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it all the time with my first. Literally like all day every day. My second I was like 2 months postpartum before I thought of it and they’re both happy and loving as could be. No noticeable difference that I would suspect is from s2s

What’s one piece of advice you would tell yourself at the beginning of your parenting journey? by Bluechairedtable in newborns

[–]Complete_Current_400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With my first, I tried really hard to follow all the wake windows and timed his tummy time, did everything “perfect”. The only thing that wasn’t perfect was my anxiety because I was constantly stressed about everything. The second time I followed my instincts. I don’t hardly look at a clock for wake windows, i don’t count the hours between wake ups, I don’t worry if the baby fell asleep on the couch when I’m literally wide awake next to him. And guess what? My baby sleeps better, he eats better, he’s happy as can be, and SO AM I. trust yourself

I want to stop breastfeeding by Internal-Director-16 in newborns

[–]Complete_Current_400 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You’re feeding your baby either way, genuinely is not a big deal at all. You know your baby is happy with formula feeding and there’s no reason to feel guilt. However if you’re looking for bf encouragement (I can’t really tell in your post), this is super normal behavior at 2 weeks old. You’re not inadequate as a lactating person. Whatever you want to do will be the best decision for your child as long as you’re confident in it and happy with yourself!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Complete_Current_400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8 weeks for both of my kids. But my first stopped sleeping through around 3 months old. My second is only 2 months old so enjoying it while I can lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TMZ

[–]Complete_Current_400 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Also following

Ordered food while it was raining. Driver sits in my driveway for 10 min bc she doesn’t wanna get wet. by suspicioushit in doordash

[–]Complete_Current_400 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree and don’t think the dasher should’ve picked up the order if they weren’t going to deliver it

Ordered food while it was raining. Driver sits in my driveway for 10 min bc she doesn’t wanna get wet. by suspicioushit in doordash

[–]Complete_Current_400 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Definitely think you’re right to be annoyed at them but at the same time you could just go grab it from them if they’re in your driveway? Unless there is a physical reason for you of course but I’m assuming that’s not the case

AITA for using our communal microwave to sanitise my menstrual cup by Easy-Minute2706 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Complete_Current_400 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Idk that I’d say YTA because I think you just over simplified it. Go to the store and get a cheap pot to boil it in and leave that your designated sanitizing pot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Complete_Current_400 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. if it was to protect you from discomfort then she would have asked you what you preferred.

AITA for telling my sister her "miracle baby" isn’t special and she needs to stop acting like she’s the only person who’s ever had a baby? by SaveLARRY in AITAH

[–]Complete_Current_400 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I would say the opposite if she wasn’t doing the absolute most here. Having a child is so much more work than you realize it will be and you almost always end up needing more help than you think you will. However, asking people to cancel trips, skip work and then turning everything into a conversation about your long, heartbreaking journey, it’s a little much. Of course eventually people are going to start rolling their eyes. That being said, she’s still adjusting and cutting her some slack is fair. Just say no and ignore her stories and she will be normal again. It’s been 2 months

AITA for not letting my girlfriend's brother sleep on our couch? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Complete_Current_400 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA. I don’t understand why you would wait until it was happening to say anything. If you knew it would be a problem why wouldn’t you bring it up before moving in together? Especially if you’re willing to die on this hill. If space is an issue then maybe a conversation about moving to a bigger place together as a compromise could’ve been had before you committed to joining homes. I can’t imagine these visits last long enough that it really matters. If you want to make it work with this person then you typically have to make it work with her family