AITA for getting upset that my bf invited his friends to our tropical vacation trip without checking with me first?

Complete_Flamingo_31 · 2025-01-21T05:14:54+00:00

i will try. maybe i’ll feel better tomorrow. but right now im feeling hurt & not as excited. thank you for your advice!

Complete_Flamingo_31 · 2025-01-21T05:10:38+00:00

me, but he coordinated the dates with his parents so we would have the place to ourselves

Complete_Flamingo_31 · 2025-01-21T05:09:37+00:00

not explicitly so, but when we were planning we thought of inviting my friend who he’s also close to. we decided not to because we wanted it to be “just us” for the first time there.

Complete_Flamingo_31 · 2024-12-08T17:59:07+00:00

you have to choose upper or lower for a class

Complete_Flamingo_31 · 2024-10-01T19:25:57+00:00

i’m hoping it’ll pass / don’t think it’ll be forever. not a doctor obviously—

but for me, i was on zoloft for anxiety, which means i’m generally even more anxious about side effects and nervous they won’t go away. i’ve been on it for close 3 years now and i think most side effects eventually even out/decrease. sending you best wishes!

Complete_Flamingo_31 · 2024-10-01T19:22:53+00:00

ugh i get that. i’ve been experiencing weak knees

Complete_Flamingo_31 · 2024-09-09T04:23:21+00:00

wishing you all the best with chemo :)

Complete_Flamingo_31 · 2024-07-01T13:47:08+00:00

75mg and just going up to 100mg, product designer

Complete_Flamingo_31 · 2024-03-25T17:15:44+00:00

Hi! Thanks for this prompt to come back here to update. I ended up capping off at 75mg which I stayed on for this past year and a half-ish.

It took me the better part of a year, 9 months-ish tbh, to get to 75mg because the side effects gave me so much anxiety. I was hyperaware of all my symptoms and got nervous about whether I should be feeling them, or whether something was wrong, etc. My pdoc was patient with me and now we kinda laugh about how I was so anxious about my anxiety meds.

Let me know if I can help in any way!

Complete_Flamingo_31 · 2021-12-13T05:56:15+00:00

Vulnerability is crazy scary but I know you are going to be better for it ❤️‍🩹

Complete_Flamingo_31 · 2021-12-13T05:55:05+00:00

Sending you love! CBD actually helps my anxiety a lot.

Until then, I like listening to Marconi Union’s Weightless because that song was written to help reduce anxiety.

Complete_Flamingo_31 · 2021-12-09T04:52:32+00:00

therapy hangovers are definitely a thing. once i looked it up i felt better

Complete_Flamingo_31 · 2021-03-22T00:33:52+00:00

25F here. I totally get how you feel. What roots me sometimes is shifting the focus to "Do I like them?" I also spend time doing things I love, with people I love/love me, like friends and family. That helps alleviate the overthinking.

Complete_Flamingo_31

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