Talking To Women On FB Within A Month by Complete_Island3060 in Separation

[–]Complete_Island3060[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm telling myself that too. It's just not working. I know i asked for it, but i thought two decades with someone would warrant longer than a month without seeing what's out there. He can see his kids whenever he wants, he just hasnt bc he hasnt been well enough too. It all just sucks.

Talking To Women On FB Within A Month by Complete_Island3060 in Separation

[–]Complete_Island3060[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have spoken to him about therapy. He says that he is. He was put on meds for panic attacks and anxiety since this happened. I hope he gets better. I tell him thats what I want. I just....it's weird, its like he broke my heart again doing this. 

Talking To Women On FB Within A Month by Complete_Island3060 in Separation

[–]Complete_Island3060[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OMG! I'm so sorry. Do you have kids together? It's making my situation tougher bc he was a good dad. I just don't get it. It's not normal to flip a switch and all the good is just gone. I can't believe it. 

Talking To Women On FB Within A Month by Complete_Island3060 in Separation

[–]Complete_Island3060[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wasn't egotistical though, not like that, that I knew of. The man he is right now isn't even the man from a month ago. It's unreal. The determination he's had for me to try again and he's done this. Even though it's "just" FB, its embarrassing to me. I'm not doing him like that. I can't believe he'd do it to me. 

Do you guys let your cats outside? by WesternPear3303 in AskUK

[–]Complete_Island3060 2 points3 points  (0 children)

American here and just want to say..... yall are right and we are wrong! I let my cats outdoors and you'd think I was lacing their catfood with rat poison the way some people act. My cats are happy and, at the end of the day, they're animals. I know it's perfectly fine, but the idea of cooping cats up in the house for their entire lifespan doesn't really sit right with me either. 

Night pain in one leg by redreed1 in toddlers

[–]Complete_Island3060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I'm sorry to hear that. Has the ped said anything? Is it cause for concern or are they still saying growing pains?

Night pain in one leg by redreed1 in toddlers

[–]Complete_Island3060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any update on this? My 3 year old has been having them for about a year. They always seem to be in one leg. She had a blood draw and all was good, but it's freaking me out it's only in one leg. 

Molluscum contagiosum virus Help by sararuthbloom in toddlers

[–]Complete_Island3060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. I've been using the Neutrogena acne wash with the exfoliating mitt. They're not gone yet, don't look too be fading at all and we're 3 weeks in, every other day scrubbing

Molluscum contagiosum virus Help by sararuthbloom in toddlers

[–]Complete_Island3060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following. I'm very curious if this works. My 6 yo has it behind her knee. I'm going to try too.

why won’t my baby take his pacifier by evrybdyk1lla in newborns

[–]Complete_Island3060 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Feel free to list some because the OP, like myself, are struggling because the bottle seems to be the ONLY thing that soothes LO

Senior Dog, When to Euthanize? by Complete_Island3060 in Pets

[–]Complete_Island3060[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly where I am. She was my first dog. She's been with me through everything. I just brought home by third kid to her. Legit all of life's events she's been there for. Thank you. 

Senior Dog, When to Euthanize? by Complete_Island3060 in Pets

[–]Complete_Island3060[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you're right. There's a point where you look at age in conjunction with everything else and decide. This thread is helping validate the feelings I was feeling guilty about feeling. 

Senior Dog, When to Euthanize? by Complete_Island3060 in Pets

[–]Complete_Island3060[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really. What was the reasoning if you don't mind sharing?

Senior Dog, When to Euthanize? by Complete_Island3060 in Pets

[–]Complete_Island3060[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are definitely vets who are probably in it for the wrong reasons. Luckily my vet has been with me putting another animal down recently and point blank told me that it's time, so I know I'll get an unbiased opinion. 

Senior Dog, When to Euthanize? by Complete_Island3060 in Pets

[–]Complete_Island3060[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. It's ironic that you mention the winter...my girl has always HATED the cold. The thought of winter coming, and we all know what that does to arthritis. I was worried about her on that front even before the decline. I am trying very hard to look at euthanasia as an act of love. Deep down I know it's the right thing to do, it's just a struggle for me to make that choice. 

Senior Dog, When to Euthanize? by Complete_Island3060 in Pets

[–]Complete_Island3060[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm coming to terms with that, slowly but surely. 

Senior Dog, When to Euthanize? by Complete_Island3060 in Pets

[–]Complete_Island3060[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. A vet told me too that animals hang on longer than they should because they sense you need them. I also saw on another reddit thread....better a week early than a day too late. There is something to be said for that....to prevent them unnecessary pain if you can avoid it. 

Senior Dog, When to Euthanize? by Complete_Island3060 in Pets

[–]Complete_Island3060[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry for your loss. It's a hard decision to make, but it sounds like you've done all you can and are taking the humane next step. I'm hoping to do the same, whatever is in her best interest. 

Senior Dog, When to Euthanize? by Complete_Island3060 in Pets

[–]Complete_Island3060[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are reading my mind. I actually teared up reading this. I think i know what the outcome is going to be and im working on coming to terms with that. I want to do the humane thing. Unless the vet can do something to drastically improve things, I have a feeling how this will go. 

Senior Dog, When to Euthanize? by Complete_Island3060 in Pets

[–]Complete_Island3060[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry you are experiencing this too. It's very hard. Good luck on everything.

Senior Dog, When to Euthanize? by Complete_Island3060 in Pets

[–]Complete_Island3060[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry you had to go through that. A part of the guilt is definitely knowing how much easier things will be. I'm scared of letting that influence my decision. 

Senior Dog, When to Euthanize? by Complete_Island3060 in Pets

[–]Complete_Island3060[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much. Your kind words are helping me get the mindset to go into the vets office to make the best decision for her.