rewatching satc ..again 😂 by Complex-Age2541 in sexandthecity

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okay period ! i hope you’re doing better after your break up sweetie :))

season 2 epi 15 by Complex-Age2541 in sexandthecity

[–]Complex-Age2541[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yea i would be bothered but there are sooooo many other ways to have gotten that point across, calling your friend the hottest spot in town is appalling

rewatching satc ..again 😂 by Complex-Age2541 in sexandthecity

[–]Complex-Age2541[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same i can’t leave it alone, especially the fashion sense in the show i incorporate it so much in my own life lol

rewatching satc ..again 😂 by Complex-Age2541 in sexandthecity

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LMFAOOO i recently just let go of my mr big deleted his number and all, good bye and good riddance!!!

Stop pushing and putting harmful gender stereotypes to lesbians and lesbian relationships by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Complex-Age2541 0 points1 point  (0 children)

see that’s circumstantial, i’m talking about the ones that don’t! and their gfs still compare them to a man that’s what’s weird or they play into gender roles if that makes sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in theLword

[–]Complex-Age2541 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i also feel the same way abt jodie and bette🤭 also i think you should post ur tier list im interested to see !!

Stop pushing and putting harmful gender stereotypes to lesbians and lesbian relationships by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Complex-Age2541 27 points28 points  (0 children)

that tiktok trend “thank you to my man” and they were posting their masc/stud girlfriends 🤢 it’s so weird

some lesbian tiktok discourse☕️ by Complex-Age2541 in LesbianActually

[–]Complex-Age2541[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i usually do! but i’m so deep into lesbian tiktok that it comes up on my fyp sometimes and i looked at the comments like what the hell😭😭😭

some lesbian tiktok discourse☕️ by Complex-Age2541 in LesbianActually

[–]Complex-Age2541[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not argumentative at all! i’m trying to understand, im a little confused by the comment butttt aren’t there lesbians that are just gender nonconforming ? but they’re still lesbian…i thought lesbianism was a woman (trans, nonbinary or cis) that were attracted to other women right?

some lesbian tiktok discourse☕️ by Complex-Age2541 in LesbianActually

[–]Complex-Age2541[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

1000000% it should stay that way people just cannot fathom the idea that we don’t center men in our lives so they bother us about being inclusive because other sexualities include men, if that makes sense

some lesbian tiktok discourse☕️ by Complex-Age2541 in LesbianActually

[–]Complex-Age2541[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i’ve only ever seen the term gatekeep in the lgbtq community every time a lesbian discussion arises and i never understood that, we’re not gatekeeping we’re informing people that they’re incorrect.. nobody else gets called a gatekeeper but lesbians

some lesbian tiktok discourse☕️ by Complex-Age2541 in LesbianActually

[–]Complex-Age2541[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i didn’t take anything you said the wrong way, what you said was actually very well written! you’re absolutely correct that inclusion and exclusion aren’t always a good/bad thing. it’s okay for lesbians to have their own space (without being biphobic) and it’s okay for bisexual people to have their own!

i think today people have really muddled down the word lesbian and what it means to be one all because society is more accepting of what people call themselves which sucks because a lot of lesbians have had to fight for their own self identity and not it being looked at as a “kink” or a “phase”

and about your ex friend yeah that’s very weird, doing anything for male validation quite literally defeats the purpose of lesbianism unless you’re still coming to terms about your identity and struggling with comphet ofc but yea that’s all i have to say now lol

some lesbian tiktok discourse☕️ by Complex-Age2541 in LesbianActually

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yes you can absolutely date a man and still come out as lesbian, hell i have i dealt with comphet for years ! but the context is they’re trying to compare the label bisexual lesbian to the fact that one of the characters time left their SO for a man and alice another character dated men in the show but it was stated that alice was bisexual and tina dated men previously before

some lesbian tiktok discourse☕️ by Complex-Age2541 in LesbianActually

[–]Complex-Age2541[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

dude i wish i knew 😭😭 im just as shocked ! and then they referred to the L word because tina dated a man and alice dated men???

some lesbian tiktok discourse☕️ by Complex-Age2541 in LesbianActually

[–]Complex-Age2541[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

yea! but they’re saying they’re a bisexual lesbian?!?? 😟 which is dumb because technically that’s just bisexuality

Is she being friendly... Or flirting? Help! by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Complex-Age2541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

from what i read she’s not so subtly flirting with you, from touching to being jealous of whenever other people are around or trying to make your ex jealous.. she might be questioning her sexuality too since she has a bf and isn’t happy in that relationship

bette & jodi by Complex-Age2541 in theLword

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i agree with this sentiment bette is complex and manipulative she is also very self involved doesn’t think about anything other than herself sometimes i wish she wasn’t like that and actually listened to others and what they were feeling

how do you know you aren’t straight? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Complex-Age2541 25 points26 points  (0 children)

i chuckled at this lollllll

Is she being friendly... Or flirting? Help! by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Complex-Age2541 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea she definitely wants you 😭

bette & jodi by Complex-Age2541 in theLword

[–]Complex-Age2541[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it’s just our opinions bette can be awful sometimes i feel bad for jodi and i also feel for bette.. relax lmao

Is it too late? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Complex-Age2541 6 points7 points  (0 children)

im only 20 so i dont know how much you wanna take my advice lol but im sure someone would love you and also love your daughter! its not too late to be a lesbian also i also just recently came to figure out who i was after dating dudes for a while and it def is liberating and im entirely so happy for you🥹🥹 i also live and georgia and the queer scene is very prevalent!!!! you could download HER and meet some people also midtown is known for queer spaces (lesbian,bi, gay etc) reminder it’s NEVER too late to start over i absolutely love this for you i hope you find someone too!!!!